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Can't decide which childminder to go for ... looking to MN wisdom! please help me choose!

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greenday · 21/05/2008 15:14

I'm starting work and this is the first time I am seeking childcare and its for one day a week. I have a 4yr old DD and 8mth DS. DD goes to school 9-11.30am and then reception in Sept.

My basic criteria is (apart from meals) - pick up DCs from mine, drop DD off to school, pick DD up, drop them off back home at end of day.

So far, I've met 2 childminders and here are their advantages and vice-versa :

Childminder A :
Lives further away but drives.
Only have my DCs to look after along with her own 2yr old DD.
Can pick DCs up and drop them off end of day.
Very small flat and not very conducive.
Not registered but has minded other children for the last 2 years. Has worked with children as part of her career training.
Quiet type of personality. Can't get a feel of how she's like as a person.
Charges an affordable rate for looking after 2 DCs.

Overall, more flexible and can accommodate to my requirements.

Childminder B :
Lives nearer.
Looks after several other children.
Registered.
Doesn't drive - walks and takes buses.
Flat is more conducive for children.
Definitely more experienced and confident. I know people who know her and think highly of her.
I can only afford to have DS for childminding under her (but can arrange for DD to go to friend's on that day).
I'll have to drop DCs off and pick them up at end of day.

OVerall, more professional but not flexible due to constraints with other children but more experienced and competent. Can work around dropping off / picking up and arranging for DD to go to friend's on that day, but is it worthwhile the inconvenience?

Also, considering that I haven't worked for a few years now and am eager to prove myself, ideally, it would be nice for that day to go smoothly without too much of the everyday hassle that comes with children.

Any thoughts, insights, advice, etc ... please do share!! Thanks!!!

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cluelessnchaos · 21/05/2008 15:43

nope no value

greenday · 21/05/2008 15:42

What if the less experience gave references? Would that be of any value?

(Its quite a rhetorical question ... but I'm bumping it up as well.)

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cluelessnchaos · 21/05/2008 15:39

the more experienced I am afraid, not worth taking any risks.

IdrisTheDragon · 21/05/2008 15:36

I'd say that the not being registered part would worry me a bit. I do understand how the cost of it makes a difference though.

greenday · 21/05/2008 15:32

bump ... sorry for the long post.
But a mono-syllabic answer from anyone would be greatly appreciated!

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