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Childminder's dog has bitten DD

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Jugglingitall85 · 27/03/2025 17:07

Last week my childminder's dog bit my DD on the face. What would you do? I feel like I have lost trust in their judgement and allowing this to happen.

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Missohnoyoubetterdont · 01/04/2025 20:20

Fur baby 🤮

MusicMakesItAllBetter · 31/03/2025 16:55

WinterMorn · 27/03/2025 17:14

Why? There are two sides to every story and the opening post gives absolutely no context.

Exactly this.
What breed is the dog?
What happened before the 'bite'?
Was it a bit or a nip?
Was there blood?
Is it the first time the dog has done this?

Many questions to ask before deciding to kill someone's business or fur baby

pollymere · 30/03/2025 13:08

Unfortunately the CM should have ensured that this couldn't happen. I hope your DD is okay mentally and physically OP. That's a traumatic thing to occur.

Daisytails · 30/03/2025 09:59

Blondeshavemorefun · 29/03/2025 19:28

That suprises me

I would never leave a child alone with a dog. Even one I know and trust

as you just never know

Just because a childminder has a dog doesn’t mean the dog will be left alone with the children. Childminders are home from home settings, if they weren’t allowed pets such as dogs there would be far, far less childminders.

ScrewedByFunding · 29/03/2025 22:31

Blondeshavemorefun · 29/03/2025 19:28

That suprises me

I would never leave a child alone with a dog. Even one I know and trust

as you just never know

There's a difference between keeping them separate and leaving a child alone with a dog.

mainecooncatonahottinroof · 29/03/2025 21:59

It can be hard enough to find a childminder without sifting out all the ones with pets! I've had three different childminders in the past. Two had a dog and the other had cats. First one was a wee yappy thing but it was kept away from the children. Second had cats which were in and around the children, but my kids were used to cats as we've always had them too. The 3rd had a big sweetheart of a thing, can't remember the breed, but it was around the children and they all loved him.

The last one was just DC3 and they were older. The lady was already minding DC when she got the dog as a puppy.

Blondeshavemorefun · 29/03/2025 19:28

AirFryerCrumpet · 29/03/2025 17:49

No, there's no particular rule on that, CMs just have to risk assess and obviously keep children safe.

A childminder near me was shut down when during her ofsted inspection the dog was growling and chewing the children's toys, jumping all over them.

That suprises me

I would never leave a child alone with a dog. Even one I know and trust

as you just never know

AirFryerCrumpet · 29/03/2025 18:07

Jugglingitall85 · 29/03/2025 17:16

That may be, but the point is the dog should not have been in the same rooms and this would have avoided the whole thing. For the dogs care and safety as well.

I do think, if you choose a childminder with a dog, it's not reasonable to expect that the dog will be separate from the children all the time, that just won't happen in a family home.
Even with the childminder supervising a child could easily tread on the dog or fall over it and risk being nipped.

AirFryerCrumpet · 29/03/2025 17:49

Blondeshavemorefun · 29/03/2025 16:45

The dog shouldn’t have been in the communal room. End of. I thought cm dogs always had to be separate

No, there's no particular rule on that, CMs just have to risk assess and obviously keep children safe.

A childminder near me was shut down when during her ofsted inspection the dog was growling and chewing the children's toys, jumping all over them.

Bignanna · 29/03/2025 17:29

Thunderingfanjo · 29/03/2025 16:16

I was just about to post exactly the same scenario.... it was an unfortunate accident.

A unfortunate accident which could easily been avoided, and was the childminder’s fault! You don’t need any information on the incident, whether the dog was provoked etc. It is enough to know that the child was able to get near the dog, which then bit her.

Jugglingitall85 · 29/03/2025 17:16

Thunderingfanjo · 29/03/2025 16:16

I was just about to post exactly the same scenario.... it was an unfortunate accident.

That may be, but the point is the dog should not have been in the same rooms and this would have avoided the whole thing. For the dogs care and safety as well.

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Blondeshavemorefun · 29/03/2025 16:45

The dog shouldn’t have been in the communal room. End of. I thought cm dogs always had to be separate

Blondeshavemorefun · 29/03/2025 16:44

Jugglingitall85 · 27/03/2025 22:16

To update I have decided she’s not going back.

The bite was in defence, apparently she ran into the room he was in and scared him but she didn’t see it happen, she came back saying it had. It’s broken the skin underneath her eye.

Im actually quite furious and can’t stop thinking how much worse this could have been.

How did she run into the room the dog was in ?

edited as was in communal room. Dog was in wrong room. Not child

Thunderingfanjo · 29/03/2025 16:16

LoveMySushi · 27/03/2025 21:55

This is hard to answer without any information on the incident. My dog bit my son in the face when he was 2 or 3. She was sleeping on the carpet and he tripped over her and fell on her. She just snapped backwards as a reaction and grazed his cheek with her teeth. No puncture wound from an actual bite, but her tooth scratched his face quite deep.
She has never been agressive before or after that. It happened when she was 8 years old and she was still with us until recently when she died at 16.
It was just an accident, nothing malicious from the dog or my son. I should have been more alert and i was definitely more careful and keeping an eye on the dog at all times when she was near my son.
But she never showed any aggression or anything towards him.

I was just about to post exactly the same scenario.... it was an unfortunate accident.

Bignanna · 29/03/2025 14:56

Evan456 · 28/03/2025 18:14

I’ve heard this sort of thing before, whilst I agree the dog should be away from the children, how do you all know that something nasty wasn’t done to the dog? At the end of the day they are living breathing creatures and have to put up with a lot from us humans, be it big or small ones. I always wonder why it’s always the dogs fault, she hasn’t told us all the circumstances

Whatever the reason is, it doesn’t matter, the fact remains that a dog bit a child. It can never be trusted again . The childminder is to blame for having it on the premises .

WearyAuldWumman · 29/03/2025 14:41

Evan456 · 29/03/2025 14:30

You obviously did read properly! The dog was put away in another room the mother was there and the child went into the room where the dog was🙄

Oh, the irony. You're making things up to suit the narrative in your head.

Re-read the part of the OP's post that I quoted above.

Jugglingitall85 · 29/03/2025 14:38

Evan456 · 29/03/2025 14:30

You obviously did read properly! The dog was put away in another room the mother was there and the child went into the room where the dog was🙄

Not sure how you have extracted that from what I have written. The dog was not put safely away. He was in a communal room that was easily accessible and no I wasn’t there. My DD was fully in the childminders care.

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Evan456 · 29/03/2025 14:30

AirFryerCrumpet · 29/03/2025 14:19

How's the mother supposed to supervise her child or the dog while she is at work and the child is at the childminders?
The dog obviously wasn't away safely if it bit a child.

You obviously did read properly! The dog was put away in another room the mother was there and the child went into the room where the dog was🙄

AirFryerCrumpet · 29/03/2025 14:19

Evan456 · 29/03/2025 12:42

Dogs aren’t stuffed toys! She went into the room where the dog was put away, her mother shouldn’t have let her, the childminder had her dog away safely and as the mother already said it was growling so why would you allow your child into the dogs place?

How's the mother supposed to supervise her child or the dog while she is at work and the child is at the childminders?
The dog obviously wasn't away safely if it bit a child.

MyrtlethePurpleTurtle · 29/03/2025 13:48

2024onwardsandup · 27/03/2025 17:35

I am
the biggest dog person going - but I would report to the police and all relevant regulatory bodies.

there are no two sides where a child in this environment is bitten by a dog.

"there are no two sides where a child in this environment is bitten by a dog"

spot on!

Ketzele · 29/03/2025 13:25

This thread is as reactive as a maddened pit bull. It should be taken to a vet ASAP.

WearyAuldWumman · 29/03/2025 12:45

Evan456 · 29/03/2025 12:42

Dogs aren’t stuffed toys! She went into the room where the dog was put away, her mother shouldn’t have let her, the childminder had her dog away safely and as the mother already said it was growling so why would you allow your child into the dogs place?

What makes you think that the mother was there?

"The bite was in defence, apparently she ran into the room he was in and scared him but she didn’t see it happen, she came back saying it had. It’s broken the skin underneath her eye."

Evan456 · 29/03/2025 12:42

AirFryerCrumpet · 28/03/2025 18:39

Doesn't really matter if the toddler 'did something' to the dog though, the child should still be able to go to childcare without being bitten.

Dogs aren’t stuffed toys! She went into the room where the dog was put away, her mother shouldn’t have let her, the childminder had her dog away safely and as the mother already said it was growling so why would you allow your child into the dogs place?

Bowies · 29/03/2025 12:24

Of course it was on the CM to supervise and keep OP’s DD free from harm, OP is literally paying her to do so.

A 3 year old is impulsive and cannot be expected to be self regulating and self managing. They sometimes do unexpected things.

It’s natural DD might get bored and curious and for example want to see the dog or go into a different room.

The fact it wasn’t even witnessed says everything. I agree the CM should be reported and indeed should be reporting herself to Ofsted.

Cdmachen · 29/03/2025 10:56

TheJollyMoose · 27/03/2025 17:09

I would have reported it to the police, and I would be plastering it all over social media that she has a dangerous dog that needs to be PTS and nobody should be using her.

I would destroy her childminding business so she never worked in the industry again.

You don't know the full circumstances I'm sure the childminder is devastated enough etc
You don't have to ruin her life with putting it all over social media.
If she did not care less fair enough though I would not do this unless full circumstances known.