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Childminder's dog has bitten DD

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Jugglingitall85 · 27/03/2025 17:07

Last week my childminder's dog bit my DD on the face. What would you do? I feel like I have lost trust in their judgement and allowing this to happen.

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MoreDangerousThanAWomanScorned · 27/03/2025 20:43

beardediris · 27/03/2025 19:15

But the child shouldnt have been allowed to torment the dog. The CM should have been supervising the child sufficiently that this couldn’t happen. If she couldn’t supervise the child maybe because she had more than 1 child in her care and was busy with the other one then the dog should not have been accessible by the child.
Its not the dog or the child at fault here it’s the CM. Children of an age to go to a child minder cannot always be expected to understand how to behave around a dog. Any dog whoever docile can do something completely out of character. Size breed etc is irrelevant the CM had a duty to keep the child in her care safe and that means keeping dog and child apart unless she is able to constantly supervise what’s happening and even then I think they should be kept apart.

Agreed - and for this reason I don't understand the posts saying that they wouldn't send the child back unless the dog was put down. I wouldn't send them back whatever happens to the dog as it's the childminder's judgement and supervision I would be worried about.

Maray1967 · 27/03/2025 20:41

Mrsbloggz · 27/03/2025 17:40

I wouldnt use a childminder who has a dog in the first place.

Same here. Not a chance.

Ritasueandbobtoo9 · 27/03/2025 20:35

socks1107 · 27/03/2025 17:19

I’d loose all trust and be looking for a new childminder

Lose

Tiredmomma86 · 27/03/2025 20:33

I’m sorry this has happened to your child OP and I understand it’s obviously a stressful situation especially when your child was in a place you would have thought they’d be safe. But I’d also like to say my family’s dog throughout my childhood bit my brother on the face (he had hugged her) once after a stressful day (we took her to training classes and did not realise she had severe ptsd from abuse in her previous life) but she never bit again. My family didn’t even consider destroying her as they knew it was completely out of character. I mean this dog could be a dangerous dog sure but it may also have been a mistake. But now I’m a mother I probably wouldn’t send my child there again as it’s a serious concern that your child was allowed to get close enough for this to happen.

BlueBatBlossom · 27/03/2025 20:27

Silentdream · 27/03/2025 19:52

What on earth made you decide a child minder with a dog was appropriate? You might as well ask someone who likes to play with knives to do the job next time.

Not all dogs are vicious child killers, surprisingly enough.

Keiththecatwithamagichat · 27/03/2025 20:25

If the child was taken to hospital then police would have been called by them.

If this is real I wouldn't send my child back unless the dog was pts or rehomed.

Togglebullets · 27/03/2025 20:25

Silentdream · 27/03/2025 20:20

You sound like the sort of person who excuses a dogs behaviour as being out of character when they maul a child.

Both parties are badly at fault. The poor child deserves so much better.

You couldn't be more wrong. I fucking hate dogs actually. I'm scared of them.

But it's extremely common for families to have dogs - for dogs and kids to coexist in the same space. Therefore it isn't inherently irresponsible for someone to choose to use a childminder with a dog.

Silentdream · 27/03/2025 20:20

Togglebullets · 27/03/2025 20:15

Do you think nobody should have dogs if they have children as well?

Plenty of families have pet dogs. The op has done nothing wrong here.

You sound like the sort of person who excuses a dogs behaviour as being out of character when they maul a child.

Both parties are badly at fault. The poor child deserves so much better.

Iamnotalemming · 27/03/2025 20:17

Call the police and find a new childminder.

Togglebullets · 27/03/2025 20:15

Silentdream · 27/03/2025 19:52

What on earth made you decide a child minder with a dog was appropriate? You might as well ask someone who likes to play with knives to do the job next time.

Do you think nobody should have dogs if they have children as well?

Plenty of families have pet dogs. The op has done nothing wrong here.

whatkatydid2014 · 27/03/2025 20:10

WinterMorn · 27/03/2025 17:38

Well, there are if the dog was secured away from children, was provoked in some manner and then bit to defend itself.

Not really. If it’s a space used to care for children there should be no possibility of them accessing the dog to provoke it in the first place.

ScrewedByFunding · 27/03/2025 20:10

mummysmagicmedicine · 27/03/2025 19:45

That’s awful and illegal please find alternative childcare

What's illegal?

Daisytails · 27/03/2025 20:06

Silentdream · 27/03/2025 19:52

What on earth made you decide a child minder with a dog was appropriate? You might as well ask someone who likes to play with knives to do the job next time.

There are many, many childminders with dogs and there are many, many parents that choose a childminder because they’ve got a dog. Just because it’s not your choice doesn’t mean it’s not the choice of others. A childminder with a dog is very similar to parents having a dog at home with a young child.

Silentdream · 27/03/2025 19:52

What on earth made you decide a child minder with a dog was appropriate? You might as well ask someone who likes to play with knives to do the job next time.

StMarie4me · 27/03/2025 19:46

That happened to my DD 25 years ago. I reported her to SS and they made an appt to go and see the CM and decided it was all perfectly safe. Even tho I had medical proof that it was a dog bite.

I had to remove my DD.

mummysmagicmedicine · 27/03/2025 19:45

That’s awful and illegal please find alternative childcare

Thehop · 27/03/2025 19:44

Report immediately to the police and OFSTED

Peaceandquietandacuppa · 27/03/2025 19:41

I would have reported it to the police.

Goody2ShoesAndTheFilthyBeast · 27/03/2025 19:34

This happened a week ago? I would have reported it and found alternative childcare.
What did you do? Are you doubting your decision?

Pikminplayer · 27/03/2025 19:34

starpatch · 27/03/2025 17:11

This is awful your poor DD. Difficult for you but I agree you need to find new childcare. Personally I would let Ofsted know as they regulate childminders.

Yes, you must let ofsted and the council know.

BlueBatBlossom · 27/03/2025 19:33

Devilsmommy · 27/03/2025 17:19

If that dog wasn't PTS I'd be killing it myself and I wouldn't take her there again. Has she told you about anything she's doing about it. I'd be letting the other parents know too

Ooh, you’re hard 🙄

beardediris · 27/03/2025 19:15

Horserider5678 · 27/03/2025 19:06

Clearly you’ve got a screw loose! There is absolutely no context in what happened and OP is not replying when people ask for context! The dog may well have been behind a stagnate and the child was tormenting it!

But the child shouldnt have been allowed to torment the dog. The CM should have been supervising the child sufficiently that this couldn’t happen. If she couldn’t supervise the child maybe because she had more than 1 child in her care and was busy with the other one then the dog should not have been accessible by the child.
Its not the dog or the child at fault here it’s the CM. Children of an age to go to a child minder cannot always be expected to understand how to behave around a dog. Any dog whoever docile can do something completely out of character. Size breed etc is irrelevant the CM had a duty to keep the child in her care safe and that means keeping dog and child apart unless she is able to constantly supervise what’s happening and even then I think they should be kept apart.

DuckieDodgyHedgyPiggy · 27/03/2025 19:14

2024onwardsandup · 27/03/2025 17:35

I am
the biggest dog person going - but I would report to the police and all relevant regulatory bodies.

there are no two sides where a child in this environment is bitten by a dog.

Have a look at Iknowaboutpopular's post below. A similar thing happened to me when I was a child. I still have a very small scar. It wasn't the dog's fault and it never happened again.

AirFryerCrumpet · 27/03/2025 19:13

ThejoyofNC · 27/03/2025 19:09

Both unacceptable. Both would have me immediately withdrawing child.

Her child was bitten by a dog whilst in the care of a childminder. There are absolutely no details which would change my mind.

The OP specifically chose to send her child to a home setting with a dog though, it's not like it was a random occurrence.

LauderSyme · 27/03/2025 19:10

I would find alternative childcare provision asap. Hope your DD is ok.

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