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Childminder's dog has bitten DD

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Jugglingitall85 · 27/03/2025 17:07

Last week my childminder's dog bit my DD on the face. What would you do? I feel like I have lost trust in their judgement and allowing this to happen.

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isthatmyage · 27/03/2025 23:31

Jugglingitall85 · 27/03/2025 22:30

Oh really I wasn’t aware of that. I haven’t as of yet reported it, but thinking that I should probably do so reading these replies.

to answer she is 3.

😱

thankyounextplease · 27/03/2025 23:28

Need more context.

An overexcited pug accidentally doing it as a one-off is different to an XL bully.

Equally, your child running into the room and accidentally scaring a dog is very different to a build up where the child has been antagonising the dog and stressing it out for several hours and then runs in and taunts it and it reacts defensively.

ChiliFiend · 27/03/2025 23:25

Jugglingitall85 · 27/03/2025 22:26

We have a monthly contract and she is registered with Ofsted.

For those asking it’s quite an old dog and apparently has never done this before but I’m struggling to believe it.

We had to take her to a&e for antibiotics as it was on her face.

I have an old dog who has just started snapping when people rush towards her suddenly. She never used to be like that - I think as she finds it hard to see and hear, it frightens her. I'm not trying to excuse anything - just wanted to say it could well be true that the dog hasn't done it before and it's an old age thing. If it is that, it's likely to happen again.

Itspancakedaysoon · 27/03/2025 23:14

Have you informed Ofsted? I think this should be thoroughly investigated.

Waterweight · 27/03/2025 22:59

Carouselfish · 27/03/2025 22:53

Dog might well have never done this before but old dogs can get grumpy and more likely to startle. Not the dog's fault, hers for allowing the situation to happen.
I was bitten om the face age 3 by a darling labrador on a lead. The owner was asked if I could stroke it. I went to. And it chomped me. Owner was horrified and very apologetic. No scarring luckily. It doesn't matter if the dog has never done it before.

The childminder didn't see the bite just announced the dog had been startled though ?

& Yes OP your right to not send her back but unless you filed/file the police report & go through the proper channels to sort this out you will need to pay notice as it's all your word against hers

RampantIvy · 27/03/2025 22:58

I think the fact that she didn’t actually see it happen is annoying me as well.

This is a red flag. No dog should ever be left unsupervised with children. I would definitely report to ofsted.

whynotwhatknot · 27/03/2025 22:57

how does she know what happene if she wasnt in the room somethhing doesnt add up

it should be reported so it doesnt happen again

BatchCookBabe · 27/03/2025 22:54

Flossflower · 27/03/2025 22:31

Please tell us you have reported this to police/ofsted.
This dog can’t be round other children.

100% this. ^ Hope your little girl is OK @Jugglingitall85 The bite was so near her eye! She could have lost sight in one eye if had been a bit further across!

This needs to be reported to police and OFSTED as the poster says. It needs going down on record, (officially) and the childminder needs reporting. I think you may be able to report her to the council too. She either needs to quit childminding, or get rid of her dog.

Don't let this go. Flowers

Carouselfish · 27/03/2025 22:53

Dog might well have never done this before but old dogs can get grumpy and more likely to startle. Not the dog's fault, hers for allowing the situation to happen.
I was bitten om the face age 3 by a darling labrador on a lead. The owner was asked if I could stroke it. I went to. And it chomped me. Owner was horrified and very apologetic. No scarring luckily. It doesn't matter if the dog has never done it before.

cherish123 · 27/03/2025 22:51

YANBU and I am a dog owner.
I wouldn't be sending her back or paying the notice.

Paul2023 · 27/03/2025 22:49

TheJollyMoose · 27/03/2025 17:09

I would have reported it to the police, and I would be plastering it all over social media that she has a dangerous dog that needs to be PTS and nobody should be using her.

I would destroy her childminding business so she never worked in the industry again.

Yeah great , plaster someone all
over social media. Very mature. And possibly have her house attacked , attract all sorts of online attention, risk her family’s safety.

DoComeToMeKitty · 27/03/2025 22:49

If you have been to A&E then the police should have been informed. They should seize the dog and keep it in for an assessment to see if it's dangerous.

OFSTED should also be informed. I'm not sure what they'll do but it doesn't sound like the dog should definitely not be around anymore when she's childminding. Old dogs can become more grumpy and snappy.

coldcallerbaiter · 27/03/2025 22:42

Mrsbloggz · 27/03/2025 17:40

I wouldnt use a childminder who has a dog in the first place.

This. All day long.

Jugglingitall85 · 27/03/2025 22:41

BlueBatBlossom · 27/03/2025 22:34

You’ve decided now she’s not going back? But this was last week, no?

She’s there every Friday so she won’t be going back tomorrow. I had made my decision I just needed to hear some other perspectives. I also won’t be paying notice.

I think the fact that she didn’t actually see it happen is annoying me as well.

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Snugglemonkey · 27/03/2025 22:38

Dweetfidilove · 27/03/2025 18:01

Wow, the cheek! That's exactly what I'd have done.

I think if the terms of care are fundamentally altered, that would nullify a contract. I would not have paid. I love animals, we have animals, but I just dotrust other people, so a dog free childcare setting would be absolutely non negotiable. Getting a dog is obviously a childminder's prerogative, but I would expect notice to sort alternate care. I would not tolerate paying whilst being inconvenienced.

BlueBatBlossom · 27/03/2025 22:34

Jugglingitall85 · 27/03/2025 22:16

To update I have decided she’s not going back.

The bite was in defence, apparently she ran into the room he was in and scared him but she didn’t see it happen, she came back saying it had. It’s broken the skin underneath her eye.

Im actually quite furious and can’t stop thinking how much worse this could have been.

You’ve decided now she’s not going back? But this was last week, no?

GameOfJones · 27/03/2025 22:34

I would be telling the police and Ofsted immediately so this (or worse) could never happen again to a child in her care. There is no way a childminder should have a dog around the children in her care for precisely this reason. She clearly wasn't supervising which is even more shocking. Legally, she should have reported this as a serious incident to Ofsted herself.....but she won't have. I'd phone them in the morning.

Flossflower · 27/03/2025 22:31

Please tell us you have reported this to police/ofsted.
This dog can’t be round other children.

Jugglingitall85 · 27/03/2025 22:30

Toddlerteaplease · 27/03/2025 19:04

Soc care will (or should) have been informed by the hospital. All dog bites get an automatic referral. And presumably the police will be involved already.

Oh really I wasn’t aware of that. I haven’t as of yet reported it, but thinking that I should probably do so reading these replies.

to answer she is 3.

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ToKittyornottoKitty · 27/03/2025 22:26

Jugglingitall85 · 27/03/2025 22:16

To update I have decided she’s not going back.

The bite was in defence, apparently she ran into the room he was in and scared him but she didn’t see it happen, she came back saying it had. It’s broken the skin underneath her eye.

Im actually quite furious and can’t stop thinking how much worse this could have been.

So has it been reported?

DogsandFlowers · 27/03/2025 22:26

TheJollyMoose · 27/03/2025 17:09

I would have reported it to the police, and I would be plastering it all over social media that she has a dangerous dog that needs to be PTS and nobody should be using her.

I would destroy her childminding business so she never worked in the industry again.

You need to see what the child minder does first!
Also ‘plastering it all over social media’
EW. New ick unlocked

Jugglingitall85 · 27/03/2025 22:26

BCSurvivor · 27/03/2025 18:54

This.
It makes me think this was a casual cash in hand arrangement for childcare, rather than a correctly registered childminder.

We have a monthly contract and she is registered with Ofsted.

For those asking it’s quite an old dog and apparently has never done this before but I’m struggling to believe it.

We had to take her to a&e for antibiotics as it was on her face.

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Frequency · 27/03/2025 22:23

Jugglingitall85 · 27/03/2025 22:16

To update I have decided she’s not going back.

The bite was in defence, apparently she ran into the room he was in and scared him but she didn’t see it happen, she came back saying it had. It’s broken the skin underneath her eye.

Im actually quite furious and can’t stop thinking how much worse this could have been.

Scared him how? Just by entering the room, or did she interact with him?

If it was just by running into the room, that is slightly worrying. I'd not have children in a house with a dog who was that fearful of them. She needs to change jobs and contact a behaviourist.

If there was interaction, then keeping the dog behind a suitable stairgate where children cannot get to it and working with a behaviourist is a way forward.

Blondeshavemorefun · 27/03/2025 22:22

Sorry your daughter got bitten

why isnt the dog kept away from the mindees

or if they are why did your child go into the room the dog is in

BlackWhiteCircle · 27/03/2025 22:22

Jugglingitall85 · 27/03/2025 22:16

To update I have decided she’s not going back.

The bite was in defence, apparently she ran into the room he was in and scared him but she didn’t see it happen, she came back saying it had. It’s broken the skin underneath her eye.

Im actually quite furious and can’t stop thinking how much worse this could have been.

I hope as a minimum you’ve taken her to A&E. Dog bites need medical attention for washing out and usually antibiotics. Then phone the police.

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