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DLA Wait Times - Part 28

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FlutterByASD · 30/01/2024 15:58

Thread following on from part 27

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Sunflower1808 · 06/02/2024 07:42

Hello
Long time watcher
Forms requested 02/10
Scan date 10/11
2 letters so far
This wait feels like forever, keep seeing all different dates being awarded does anyone know if it has anything to do with the letters in the reference numbers ?

Shaf89 · 06/02/2024 07:30

@Gracie1909 Be pushy with them and ask to speak to someone senior as they are all thick from what I can remember.
i dealt with them about 6 years ago… returned to work as a single mum and tried to get childcare etc. they messed up my part income benefits every month. As I was a revenues officer, I had to break it down to them bit by bit. I feel like the training they get is pretty poor…
explain in basic language what u need them to get done lol. And keep us updated!

Gracie1909 · 06/02/2024 07:13

@shaf thankyou I am going to call again today, I wouldn't mind if the elements was right atleast and then was only waiting on backpay, but now I feel I'm up in the air waiting on different things etc and it's horrible isn't it. Gives me anxiety x

Shaf89 · 06/02/2024 07:09

Gracie1909 · 06/02/2024 06:47

So today I got my UC statement, the disabled child element is ok, but no carer element. Is this right? I did both in my changes. And also no backdate and still no reply in my journal. X

The element should still be added regardless of if your both earning or not… as the earnings are taken off via the deductions.
all the elements are first calculated to give you a full picture of what you could be entitled to without any other deductible income.

i haven’t been awarded yet but I have dealt with issues with UC in the past. Not sure how much this differs now but it was always easier to get them moving on the phone so maybe try calling and demand that it’s all fixed before your payment comes next week.

ShellyDerbyshire · 06/02/2024 07:01

Nataliepb90 · 05/02/2024 21:15

Anyone else getting more and more paranoid of a decline the closer it comes to your scan date 🤣🤣 mines 10th Oct and I feel like climbing the walls haha! I've seen people with dates after me get awarded and people from September still waiting so I know it makes no difference... Just doesn't help knowing that though haha!

100% freaking out about getting declined, seeing other people with my date and later getting awarded.

Scan date 02/10

jess12345678 · 06/02/2024 06:53

Do you think I should go for mr ? As it’s only a year, have you been re awarded yet? It’s so stressful☹️

Gracie1909 · 06/02/2024 06:48

Is there a limit to what you can get if both working? Could that be why I havnt got the carer element x

Gracie1909 · 06/02/2024 06:47

So today I got my UC statement, the disabled child element is ok, but no carer element. Is this right? I did both in my changes. And also no backdate and still no reply in my journal. X

GirlMamasClub · 06/02/2024 06:47

@jess12345678 yesterday I was told I’d get it today, but nothing. She said the decision was made on Friday 2nd x

Gracie1909 · 06/02/2024 06:46

@jess12345678 I was awarded Wednesday and paid today, NatWest x

Bell27x · 06/02/2024 06:28

jess12345678 · 06/02/2024 05:21

Hi all when did everyone get there back bated money , the lady told me today / tomorrow? Nothing this morning .

Hey I was awarded last Wednesday and the money is in my bank account this morning

jess12345678 · 06/02/2024 05:21

Hi all when did everyone get there back bated money , the lady told me today / tomorrow? Nothing this morning .

jess12345678 · 06/02/2024 05:14

Did you get rewarded again after that year ? X

Siobhangrace · 06/02/2024 00:22

@Bsmumummaj my son got award a year it’s so annoying! Fills like we waited a year for the answer when do we need to fill the forms in again my sons was September

Gracie1909 · 05/02/2024 22:04

@Thenoseymother did they add a note to your journal today? Was it between 8-6? As I was wondering if mine could update anytime or is it only working hours x

Thenoseymother · 05/02/2024 21:58

Jesslou37 · 05/02/2024 21:51

@Thenoseymother I've only just had my decision put on my journal so hoping it's not much longer. I seen someone say on a different thread that once that decision was made the previous payment section all changed. Mine still showing as the same payments x

Yes mine are all showing as the same too! Glad it’s not just me lol x

Jesslou37 · 05/02/2024 21:51

@Thenoseymother I've only just had my decision put on my journal so hoping it's not much longer. I seen someone say on a different thread that once that decision was made the previous payment section all changed. Mine still showing as the same payments x

Sallyt7110 · 05/02/2024 21:40

@Bearintheredhat if you get paid weekly they will pay you carers for each week you earn less than £136. So the weeks you do two days you will get zero carers.
if you get paid monthly then you need to earn less than £136x4 and if you are even a penny over then you’ll get none for the month.

Jonesy0102 · 05/02/2024 21:37

Nataliepb90 · 05/02/2024 21:15

Anyone else getting more and more paranoid of a decline the closer it comes to your scan date 🤣🤣 mines 10th Oct and I feel like climbing the walls haha! I've seen people with dates after me get awarded and people from September still waiting so I know it makes no difference... Just doesn't help knowing that though haha!

I hear you loud and clear and sitting in the same boat as you 😂

Thenoseymother · 05/02/2024 21:35

Does anyone know once you get the letter on UC journal from DM to say they’ve accepted your reasons for informing them of a change that they then sort the back pay? I’ve heard nothing since. Thanks!

Nataliepb90 · 05/02/2024 21:23

It really does drive you up the wall! Sitting here wondering what evidence I can get in support of an MR already and I've not even had a decision 🤣🤣 they sure know what they're doing to up the stress levels!

RainsbowandBunnies · 05/02/2024 21:22

Nataliepb90 · 05/02/2024 21:15

Anyone else getting more and more paranoid of a decline the closer it comes to your scan date 🤣🤣 mines 10th Oct and I feel like climbing the walls haha! I've seen people with dates after me get awarded and people from September still waiting so I know it makes no difference... Just doesn't help knowing that though haha!

Yes I'm feeling the same thought I'd feel more calm as my date approaches but just getting more agitated! X

Nataliepb90 · 05/02/2024 21:15

Anyone else getting more and more paranoid of a decline the closer it comes to your scan date 🤣🤣 mines 10th Oct and I feel like climbing the walls haha! I've seen people with dates after me get awarded and people from September still waiting so I know it makes no difference... Just doesn't help knowing that though haha!

Amycroft · 05/02/2024 20:05

@Gracie1909 i was only awarded Tuesday got my payment Friday so hopefully you will get it tomorrow!!

Gracie1909 · 05/02/2024 20:01

@Amycroft no I got awarded on Wednesday but still not arrived, hoping it's tomorrow! It's soo stressful isn't it all this, Asif the wait isn't bad enough for us mums xx