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DLA Wait times part 20… (2023)

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Mummyrach13 · 13/11/2023 19:17

Following on from part 19 as it’s about to become full.

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LollyRiv · 13/11/2023 20:38

Parking here 🙂. Scan date 21/07. Last text received 16th October. Patiently waiting... well trying! 🙈 x

WhereDidTheTimeGo888 · 13/11/2023 20:36

It does seem a bit random from reading what people have sent in. I’ve seen people be declined and when they’ve said why they applied, I’ve been shocked they didn’t get awarded.

well done on your award, bet you’re relieved. X

Tmxx · 13/11/2023 20:35

Parking here just to watch progress of other ladies around my scan date that have supported me with the whole wait 🥰🥰 good luck ladies hoping loads of awards for you all tomorrow xxx

WhereDidTheTimeGo888 · 13/11/2023 20:34

@Xsam1985x ah congratulations! Gives me hope for my son x

Mdavies2023 · 13/11/2023 20:31

@Xsam1985x congratulations! Brilliant news for you!

Rosegoldsunshine88 · 13/11/2023 20:30

@WhereDidTheTimeGo888 thank you, yes I think it is and it is definitely one of those things that you have to live through this to truly understand, it’s extremely hard and have definitely had some low days it’s never easy but we somehow keep going, thank you and good luck with yours xx

Mummyrach13 · 13/11/2023 20:30

Good luck ladies! I’m routing for you all! I love how we can all support each other and help through the hideous wait! Xx

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Mdavies2023 · 13/11/2023 20:29

@WhereDidTheTimeGo888 aww I know I think I went overkill with whatever evidence I could get my hands on I threw in probably some of it is irrelevant haha seen lots of people be awarded by just being concise and only couple bits of evidence so don't go off of me saying 30 pages haha, praying we all get our answers soon it's consuming my brain the waiting!

Xsam1985x · 13/11/2023 20:27

@WhereDidTheTimeGo888 My 11 year old who is diagnosed adhd and assessing for ASD is in mainstream school, no EHCP in place as his primary wasn’t great and he has just been awarded HRC and LRM x

WhereDidTheTimeGo888 · 13/11/2023 20:25

@Rosegoldsunshine88 i think by the sounds of it, it’s just luck if you get someone who’s kind and maybe has an idea what life can be like. It’s one of those things that no one can truly understand unless they live the life. I’ve got everything crossed that you get awarded. Xx

Xsam1985x · 13/11/2023 20:25

Thanks for the new thread.
I am in utter shock, on Friday we was awarded for my younger son (nearly 3, nonverbal with suspected asd and gdd) scan date for his was the 7th July… didn’t receive a text I just called for an update as was at 18 weeks.
Then this morning a DM called me for more information regarding my older sons form (11, diagnosed ADHD and assessing for Asd) which only had a scan date of 27th July, anyway around an hour later through popped a text to say they had decided child qualifies, called and he was awarded HRC and LRM. I’m honestly gobsmacked but so so happy my boys are getting what they deserve and we can afford to get all the things they need and go the places they like now and not worry when my older son smashes yet another tablet or controller 🤦‍♀️ I am only just applying for both as I wasn’t even aware of DLA until my little boys portage worker said I needed to apply. Good luck and everything crossed for you all still waiting 😊 xx

Rebeccanew · 13/11/2023 20:24

Thankyou for new thread @Mummyrach13 ❤️
scan date 10/7
went with case manager this morning
i will be calling tomorrow
good luck everyone
I’ll keep yous all posted xxxx

Sskanf · 13/11/2023 20:23

@Mojo161989 I would call tomorrow if I were you

Rosegoldsunshine88 · 13/11/2023 20:21

@WhereDidTheTimeGo888 I have applied for my 13 year old in mainstream school, she is not formally diagnosed but has seen an emotional health worker who noticed autistic traits, along with a whole range of complex needs, I’ve sent no evidence in really, after today I’m not feeling confident so I’m preparing myself for an MR, it’s awful that we have to wait all this time and someone can decide whether our kids are worthy or not, I wish you well with your claim, I’m 13/7

Anniemumof3 · 13/11/2023 20:20

I’m same dates as you last text was 16th October fingers crossed we hear something soon and it be good news

WhereDidTheTimeGo888 · 13/11/2023 20:13

@Mdavies2023 30 pages! I sent his ASD diagnosis report, school SEN passport (fight for EHCP), Ed Psych report and wrote a few pages of day to day life. Sounds like you have loads of evidence. Feel like I’ve hardly sent in anything and probably not worded it correctly either and missed loads of stuff off.

Fingers crossed for everyone that they get their awards.

Loui5 · 13/11/2023 20:11

Thank you for new thread. Scan date 14/7

WhereDidTheTimeGo888 · 13/11/2023 20:08

@Helentwinsplus1 thank you, gives me hope. I’ve had to reduce my hours at work so much. It would be such a help.

Hardingcl · 13/11/2023 20:04

@Helentwinsplus1 my scan date is 18/7 to! I'm north west. Hoping not to long for us now!! And praying for a positive outcome. Xxx

Mdavies2023 · 13/11/2023 20:03

@WhereDidTheTimeGo888 hey hun I've applied for my just turned 11 year old she's in mainstream awaiting EHCP decision and senco filled in form, she was diagnosed 27 October so rang then to update them as the paperwork from paediatrician can take a while to come through and I knew my scan date was getting closer. Sent of paeds forms, camhs acceptance and camhs breakdown of issues etc must have sent in about 30 pages just hope they actually read it all!

Helentwinsplus1 · 13/11/2023 20:01

I have 3 of them with asd, all in mainstream and all got dla

WhereDidTheTimeGo888 · 13/11/2023 20:00

Hi, I’ve never posted before but wondered if anyone else has applied for a teenager with ASD in mainstream school? My scan date is 12/10 so a long way to go, but keep thinking it’ll be declined. Always seems to be that everything is such a fight for help!

Cheesywiggles · 13/11/2023 20:00

Thank you for the new thread ☺️

Watso2408 · 13/11/2023 19:59

Thanks for the new thread!! Scan date 27/7, last text 23/10…. Trying to patiently wait 😬 xx

Mdavies2023 · 13/11/2023 19:58

@Helentwinsplus1 yeah and going from what people have said it's a lottery who you get on the other end of the phone after sitting waiting for them to answer 😭