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DLA wait times part 19 (2023)

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Billie1993 · 07/11/2023 11:40

Following on from part 18
as there’s only around 30 comments left x

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Doymum · 07/11/2023 16:17

@MangoPepsiLover @Tmxx i think mine will be a decline, never applied before but my son has a few problems and was advised to do it. Since sending the application he was diagnosed with ASD and just last week had his ADHD assessment. He’s also been diagnosed with hyper mobility which is causing a lot of pain in his hands but not knowing how to film out the forms I didn’t put it down. I’m waiting for the reports and also adhd assessment to come back just Incase I need to do an MR. I just feel this is all taking so long and to be honest I’m still coming to terms with all his diagnosis’s I think I definitely had my head in the sand and just assumed my son was the “typical 3rd child the youngest etc etc” it wasn’t until he started a new school because we moved that the teachers kept calling me in 9 months later and here we are. Anyway sorry about that rant 😂

BoyMumGirlMum2022 · 07/11/2023 16:14

Just parking myself here to support you lovely lot.
Can't offer much advice as I'm new to all of it too, but I will try if I can. Just here wishing you all good news

Tmxx · 07/11/2023 16:12

Rebeccanew · 07/11/2023 16:10

Iv never even looked at it like that you know so if no scan dates on weekend that means onto the next dates? Xxxxxx

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Me neither! But it makes it feel like the wait won't be as long now 🤣🤣 xxx

Rebeccanew · 07/11/2023 16:10

Iv never even looked at it like that you know so if no scan dates on weekend that means onto the next dates? Xxxxxx

Tmxx · 07/11/2023 16:10

MangoPepsiLover · 07/11/2023 16:06

I'm not calling until the 18 week mark which is next Wednesday, but I think it's going to be a no for us anyway so I'm not holding my breath.

Post here is ridiculously slow, as in I got a letter dated end of September today so I'm not certain I won't miss MR deadline if I don't call.

I think mine will be a decline to hun but we can only try as we know best if our kids require more care than others! If your worried about not making the Mr in time due to post I'd definitly regularly ring! I don't think i will do Mr if mine is a no because I physically don't have it in me to keep feeling like this! Xx

Tmxx · 07/11/2023 16:08

Doymum · 07/11/2023 16:06

@Tmxx i don’t think I’ve ever seen a weekend scan date, I honestly think they don’t scan on weekends

100% they don't scab weekends so would have that nice jump from the 07/07 to the 10/07 being awarded!! I've seen on Facebook page 6th July getting a phone call yesterday from dm so hopefully 07/07 tomorrow being awarded then 10th Thursday!? 🤣🤣 am I getting ahead of myself! It's just all I think about I need a hobby to occupy myself xxx

MangoPepsiLover · 07/11/2023 16:06

I'm not calling until the 18 week mark which is next Wednesday, but I think it's going to be a no for us anyway so I'm not holding my breath.

Post here is ridiculously slow, as in I got a letter dated end of September today so I'm not certain I won't miss MR deadline if I don't call.

Doymum · 07/11/2023 16:06

@Tmxx i don’t think I’ve ever seen a weekend scan date, I honestly think they don’t scan on weekends

Tmxx · 07/11/2023 16:05

Such a good question! Does anyone know how this would work!?

@Doymum just mentioned the scan dates 08/07 and 09/07 was on the weekend so if you have your claim scanned 07/07 would the next date they work on be 10/07 after doing the 07/07 scan dates!?

Hope this makes sense!

Asdmummyhere · 07/11/2023 16:05

@Doymum you'd think that was the case because none get scanned on a weekend xx

Asdmummyhere · 07/11/2023 16:04

@Rebeccanew @Doymum @Tmxx yes I'm the 6th so 18 weeks on Thursday. I called last Thursday and was told another 2 weeks to be allocated. Called today because of all the awards yesterday and had a lovely lady who said it had been passed on to someone but no time scale. I'm going to call Thursday at 18 weeks and hope for the best xx

Tmxx · 07/11/2023 16:03

Doymum · 07/11/2023 16:00

@Tmxx the 8/9 are a weekend so surely they don’t scan in on those dates? So we should be after the 7th or does it not work like that?

No idea actually hun never thought of it like that! I know they are looking at claims on weekends but not sure now you've said that haha! I reaply really hope that's how it works because that means even sooner 🤞🤞xx

Rebeccanew · 07/11/2023 16:01

@Tmxx @Doymum maybe may be the end the week it picks up I really do hope I think we’ve waited long enough now! I’ll be ringing tomorrow and then again Friday! I’m gonna keep on the case! But when I rang yesterday they did say I was so close to a decision maker and to keep checking bank etc I really hope our wait is over soon! Xxxx

ohh @Asdmummyhere i would be the same I’d be checking my phone constantly lol xxxxxx

Doymum · 07/11/2023 16:01

Asdmummyhere · 07/11/2023 15:56

I am on edge since finding out it's with a DM, trying to keep myself occupied but constantly checking my phone 🤣

@Asdmummyhere oh no that’s got to be a nightmare, did they give you any indication when you might hear? Are you the beginning of July?

Tmxx · 07/11/2023 16:00

Asdmummyhere · 07/11/2023 15:56

I am on edge since finding out it's with a DM, trying to keep myself occupied but constantly checking my phone 🤣

You are the 6th am I right!? If so that's amazing that it's with dm! Gives me hope for mine being really soon 11/07xx

Hoping they get right threw to the 9th/10th July this week to know im early next week 🤣 xx

Doymum · 07/11/2023 16:00

Tmxx · 07/11/2023 15:54

@Rebeccanew definitly slowed right down again! Was really hoping they would get up to roughly your date! Or if not the 10th at least was hoping they'd be at the 9th by the end of this week but doesn't seem like they will be! 🥲 xxx

@Doymum you are the same date as rebeccanew! Was hoping you 2 would be hearing by Friday so id know I'd be the start next week but I really don't think it's going to be the case with how slow this week is going xxx

@Tmxx the 8/9 are a weekend so surely they don’t scan in on those dates? So we should be after the 7th or does it not work like that?

Asdmummyhere · 07/11/2023 15:56

I am on edge since finding out it's with a DM, trying to keep myself occupied but constantly checking my phone 🤣

Tmxx · 07/11/2023 15:54

@Rebeccanew definitly slowed right down again! Was really hoping they would get up to roughly your date! Or if not the 10th at least was hoping they'd be at the 9th by the end of this week but doesn't seem like they will be! 🥲 xxx

@Doymum you are the same date as rebeccanew! Was hoping you 2 would be hearing by Friday so id know I'd be the start next week but I really don't think it's going to be the case with how slow this week is going xxx

Doymum · 07/11/2023 15:46

This week definitely seems to be going slow and also maybe it’s just me but not hearing many awards coming through. I’m waiting till I start seeing 7/7 being awarded then I will start panicking. I’m the 10/7 but the 8,9 was the weekend so I’m praying I hear the week I can’t do this much longer.

Rebeccanew · 07/11/2023 15:41

@Shezza8507 i defo think you’ll hear by the end the week hun good luck ❤️

@Tmxx i don’t know if it’s me but I feel like they are back at a slow pace xxxx

Tmxx · 07/11/2023 15:32

@dupemethrice scan date is the day they received your forms 😁

@Rebeccanew I feel like it's Thursday already but it's only Tuesday! Slowest week so far!! Xxxx

Cheesywiggles · 07/11/2023 15:27

Billie1993 · 07/11/2023 14:46

That’s okay hun, yours should be any day now hopefully. My scan date is the 12/7 so 6 days after yours i wish i had sent it signed for now as it would have been the 6/7 instead lol

@Billie1993 I really hope it's any day now , called this morning but unfortunately it's not even been allocated yet to a dm! Was told it should be imminently , I'll be phoning back Friday. Sick of the wait now tbh. 🤞 Yours won't be too much longer either!

Shezza8507 · 07/11/2023 15:25

@Rebeccanew I hope so she turns 16 on the 13th so probably have to wait for pip don't know how it all works I've been told for years to apply for dla but just tried to deal with it myself but now she's got worse and more health problems

dupemethrice · 07/11/2023 15:25

Hi, I posted on the other thread not realising there was a new one. What is the scan date? is it when I phoned for the forms or when I sent them back?

Sskanf · 07/11/2023 15:22

Ahh that's brilliant
I was sent an email asking for my bank details from family fund to receive the grant. Just thought I'd have got it by now