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QUICK...URGENT AP HELP NEEDED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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ingles2 · 05/03/2008 14:46

so after my rant last week about AP crashing the car, I talked to her about it very reasonably and calmly on Fri for 2 hours. I thought wehad sorted it. The only points I really raised were that I thought it was rude of her to not apologise at any point, and that I would like her to contribute to the excess. the car is a write off,... £1200 of damage. her fault.
I did notraise my voiceand told her that I knew it was an accident.
She has just told me...
that she wants to leave as she doesn't see why she should take any responsibility for the car. I insure it for her and therefore my problem. She will not contribute towards excess and how dare I tell her she is rude for not saying sorry.
She has just been shouting at me for 10 minutes. I have walked away so I don't raise my voice.
I'm am totally shaking.....
What do I do?????
HELP!!!!!!!!!

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ingles2 · 16/03/2008 21:32

LOL Kewcumber,...he looked VERY young,... like one of the dc's young
(slighty cringy face at the thought...shudder)

OP posts:
Kewcumber · 16/03/2008 22:42

well my DC is 2 - so I would certianly draw the line at that!!!

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