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yumyumscheeky · 14/09/2023 10:10

Hi all,

I am a nanny with 20 years experience and good qualifications. I have just been approached about a job with one year old triplets in London and I'm not sure how much to charge?
The going current rate is £20/21 ph but I've not had triplets before.
If you're a parent how much would you offer?
Or any nannies on here who could recommend?

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Pikiti · 22/04/2024 10:04

romdowa · 22/04/2024 09:53

I was exhausted with one 🤣 but he was (and still is) a terrible sleeper and an early riser. But I suppose with 3 they'll interact with each other and keep each other company. My ds needs a lot of adult interaction . Fair play to you. I'd never manage 3

Because they are three they are never bored but am constantly separating the first and last.The middle cannot be bothered.Non are picky eaters so they just have a smaller plate of what i have so no special cooking.You never know what you are capable of till it happens to you….How old is your little one?.

romdowa · 22/04/2024 09:53

Pikiti · 22/04/2024 08:10

Depending on how you structure their day.
I have a timetable for them and they tend to take nearly two hours naps from noon where i relax.
An hour of cocomelon or Learn with Miss Rachel in the morning keeps them engaged as i make the meals for the day and they are in bed by 7:30pm when i tidy and clean up then it’s me and hubby time.
Sometimes they get up and fuss so we move them in to our room and back once they fall asleep.
I get to use the internet and read a chapter in my book randomly.Its hard but not impossible you get used to it but are mostly exhausted.

I was exhausted with one 🤣 but he was (and still is) a terrible sleeper and an early riser. But I suppose with 3 they'll interact with each other and keep each other company. My ds needs a lot of adult interaction . Fair play to you. I'd never manage 3

Pikiti · 22/04/2024 08:10

romdowa · 22/04/2024 07:32

Who has time for WiFi, snacks and hot drinks with triplets?

Depending on how you structure their day.
I have a timetable for them and they tend to take nearly two hours naps from noon where i relax.
An hour of cocomelon or Learn with Miss Rachel in the morning keeps them engaged as i make the meals for the day and they are in bed by 7:30pm when i tidy and clean up then it’s me and hubby time.
Sometimes they get up and fuss so we move them in to our room and back once they fall asleep.
I get to use the internet and read a chapter in my book randomly.Its hard but not impossible you get used to it but are mostly exhausted.

Pikiti · 22/04/2024 07:49

IHopeYouStepOnALegPiece · 22/04/2024 06:29

Remember you would be providing accommodation and weekends off plus perks like use of your WiFi and unlimited snacks/hot drinks.

Providing Weekends off? That’s not something of note when discussing salary! Days of it just, y’know, legal!

and since when are hot drinks a perk?! Oh lord

I already said perks was a wrong choice of words but please feel free to keep banging on about it.

Caspianberg · 22/04/2024 07:45

I think usually a nanny charges per family, not per child. So really it should be similar to your normal rate. But three 1 year olds is harder than 3 children of different ages.
If you usually charge £21 per hr, then I would suggest £23-24.

BaconCozzers · 22/04/2024 07:39

Year old triplets? Adorable, but I'd need obscene amounts of £££ for that 😆

romdowa · 22/04/2024 07:32

Pikiti · 21/04/2024 22:57

I was only giving an opinion based on the minimum quote i got for my triplets.
Remember you would be providing accommodation and weekends off plus perks like use of your WiFi and unlimited snacks/hot drinks.

To be fair i am a little crazy so please Pardon me.

Who has time for WiFi, snacks and hot drinks with triplets?

Mistredd · 22/04/2024 06:35

I would expect about £25/hour. But to be honest if you haven’t previously cared for multiples I wonder if you might not prefer to just take an easier job. It’s going to be hard graft!

IHopeYouStepOnALegPiece · 22/04/2024 06:29

Remember you would be providing accommodation and weekends off plus perks like use of your WiFi and unlimited snacks/hot drinks.

Providing Weekends off? That’s not something of note when discussing salary! Days of it just, y’know, legal!

and since when are hot drinks a perk?! Oh lord

Pikiti · 22/04/2024 04:07

Codlingmoths · 22/04/2024 02:09

Accomodation? Only if a live in role?
weekends off?? Most Nannies and more jobs than not have weekends off as a matter of course!
hot drinks are a perk now? Not if you don’t get any time to make one, we are talking about triplets here. I’d have my child proof thermos with me.

I mentioned Accomodation as minimum salary for live in nanny cannot be less than £2000 a month.By perk i meant other things that come with the package maybe i should use another word.

Codlingmoths · 22/04/2024 02:09

Pikiti · 21/04/2024 22:57

I was only giving an opinion based on the minimum quote i got for my triplets.
Remember you would be providing accommodation and weekends off plus perks like use of your WiFi and unlimited snacks/hot drinks.

To be fair i am a little crazy so please Pardon me.

Accomodation? Only if a live in role?
weekends off?? Most Nannies and more jobs than not have weekends off as a matter of course!
hot drinks are a perk now? Not if you don’t get any time to make one, we are talking about triplets here. I’d have my child proof thermos with me.

coxesorangepippin · 22/04/2024 02:04

Triplets?1 year old!

£60 an hour

Pikiti · 22/04/2024 00:25

Blondeshavemorefun · 21/04/2024 23:54

You have triplets @Pikiti ?

Yes two girls and a boy nearly 2yrs old.

LipstickedPowderedAndPainted · 22/04/2024 00:07

If @Pikiti has triplets this would account for her clear insanity on this....if you are going to be driven that nuts by a job at least get paid for it😉.

Nannies don't get hot drinks etc as perks, they are a normal part of their job, they are part if it. Have a nanny, feed her, heat the house, give her WiFi.

Triplets are so much work, whilst you don't normaly pay a higher rate for more children, I think it's,reasonable that a nanny dealing with triplets would be paid a premium taking into consuderate that three babies is not the same as three children spaced apart in age and is far harder, that good qualifcations and experience of multiples ulis not that common, especially triplets over twins, and that many people wouldn't want the job. Its more if a niche job and the people suitable will be a smaller pool. I think you need to be looking at the top end of the going rate in your area, maybe 24? Can local agencies not advise you what you would normally expect?

Blondeshavemorefun · 21/04/2024 23:54

You have triplets @Pikiti ?

Blondeshavemorefun · 21/04/2024 23:53

I don't think £30ph

Nannies are lee family not child

Twin nannies don't get paid extra

Tho obv 3 is harder

I looked after prem triplets babies last year. 2 with reflux. Yes was hard but very rewarding

Pikiti · 21/04/2024 23:02

NuffSaidSam · 21/04/2024 22:58

I don't think you know what a nanny is!

I think i do but you maybe correct.

NuffSaidSam · 21/04/2024 22:58

Pikiti · 21/04/2024 22:57

I was only giving an opinion based on the minimum quote i got for my triplets.
Remember you would be providing accommodation and weekends off plus perks like use of your WiFi and unlimited snacks/hot drinks.

To be fair i am a little crazy so please Pardon me.

I don't think you know what a nanny is!

NuffSaidSam · 21/04/2024 22:57

I'd probably look for around £25/26 pounds an hour.

Nannies don't charge more for siblings, it's not a per child rate, but baby triplets is going to be much harder work and more responsibility than different age siblings so I would look for a premium rate.

I can't see anyone willing to pay £35 an hour (unless they're extremely wealthy and absolutely love you over and above any other nanny they meet).

Pikiti · 21/04/2024 22:57

GreatGateauxsby · 21/04/2024 22:35

disclaimer: I’m just a parent

I think @Pikiti is crazy OR the parent of the triplets 😅

I would expect it to be in the region of £30-35 per hour based on;

  • it’s London
  • nanny costs my friends pay (50-70k pro rata for a nanny for 2)
  • the CM rates for my own children (£3.5k pm for 2 children)

I was only giving an opinion based on the minimum quote i got for my triplets.
Remember you would be providing accommodation and weekends off plus perks like use of your WiFi and unlimited snacks/hot drinks.

To be fair i am a little crazy so please Pardon me.

BatshitIsTheOnlyExplanation · 21/04/2024 22:53

I would have thought £30p/h for full responsibility would be expected. That's only 1.5 times the basic rate for one child and there are 3!

MumChp · 21/04/2024 22:49

GreatGateauxsby · 21/04/2024 22:35

disclaimer: I’m just a parent

I think @Pikiti is crazy OR the parent of the triplets 😅

I would expect it to be in the region of £30-35 per hour based on;

  • it’s London
  • nanny costs my friends pay (50-70k pro rata for a nanny for 2)
  • the CM rates for my own children (£3.5k pm for 2 children)

This!

Triplets will be a toll even for an experienced nanny!

GreatGateauxsby · 21/04/2024 22:35

disclaimer: I’m just a parent

I think @Pikiti is crazy OR the parent of the triplets 😅

I would expect it to be in the region of £30-35 per hour based on;

  • it’s London
  • nanny costs my friends pay (50-70k pro rata for a nanny for 2)
  • the CM rates for my own children (£3.5k pm for 2 children)
Blondeshavemorefun · 21/04/2024 22:31

@Pikiti why on Earth would a experienced nanny drop her rate to £100 a day

Esp with 3 babies.

IHopeYouStepOnALegPiece · 21/04/2024 22:24

Even if a parent is around, do NOT take £10 less PH then your usual rate, that’s ridiculous.

I have 18y experience and charge £21ph and tbh I charge what I charge regardless of if the parents around personally. I’m there to do my job, I do it extremely well and I do not discount when a parent is around. On that I also don’t charge extra for multiples/ siblings but I do have extremely firm boundaries when it comes to finish times, expected tasks during the day, holidays and time off.