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Would this put you off a childminded? (Dog)

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newbieminder · 20/07/2023 10:58

Would it put you off a childminder if they had a dog? My exact situation is that I have one dog, a king charles cavalier spaniel. He would be kept in the kitchen behind a stair gate when the mindees are in the front room (where they spend most of the time). When we are in the kitchen I wouldn't usually (with my own kids) think to shut him out as he is very chilled and just lies in his bed, comes over for an occasional stroke but I obviously could if this is what the parents want.

I have 2 kids myself and the dog is no trouble, he's a total softie but appreciate some parents might be put off? I'm hoping not all?

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Branwells77 · 24/07/2023 09:21

It never put me off and my family never had dogs when I was growing up,
My boys were babies when they started to go to my childminder she had a little terrier and he was lovely and absolutely no bother however if I’d turned up to the first meet with the childminder and she had a dog that was bigger and more boisterous I may of had some concerns.

Mummyof287 · 23/07/2023 22:46

Not if I knew the dog was that sort of breed- small and of nice character, and had met it at settling in sessions and had no concerns.Our childminder has a cockapoo and she is lovely- DD loves her, and I'm very cautious with my kids around dogs in general, depending on what sort they are and the temperament.
Our childminder does what you say you would do, in terms of having a deparate area behind a gate, and comes out sometimes, so the dog is not forced on the children and they get a break from each other which I think is important for the dog too as kids can get quite OTT for them sometimes.

A big dog would worry me more.

Casperroonie · 23/07/2023 22:08

My daughter's old childminder had 2 spaniels. They were mainly kept in the kitchen and the house was kept in a clean state. The dogs were lovely and the kids loved them, she taught them how to handle them. She was open and honest about them when I did my first visit and so it was never an issue.

I think if parents have an issue they should look for another childminder but I think it enhances a child’s experience having well-behaved, gentle and looked-after pets around.

BettyBoops · 23/07/2023 21:26

Our childminder has a dog, has never put us off 🤷🏻‍♀️

Samlewis96 · 23/07/2023 21:14

Flopsythebunny · 20/07/2023 11:04

The fact that your mindees are confined to just the living room would put me off as much as you having a dog. Unless the living room is very large and leads out onto the garden?

Would you want the minded children loose in the kitchen? Shere else would you expect them to be?

NeedingCoffee · 23/07/2023 17:29

I would actively choose you over a CM with no dogs. Some people may not like it but there will be many others who will love that you have a dog.

Therewere5inthebed · 23/07/2023 17:15

I was a childminder for 13 years, graded good at initial inspection then outstanding on the next two occasions. As well as three cats and 12 chickens I had three big, big dogs. They were all exceptionally well trained and my children had grown up with the elder two.

I can say that I was always full to my capacity and ran a waiting list for spaces.

The parents that chose my setting did so because of the overall atmosphere in the house, the pets, me and the environment that I provided. I was open on my online profiles about the dogs and they were so loved by the children from babies to teens.

The dogs were never left alone with a child (they are animals and despite my confidence that they wouldn’t hurt a fly I wouldn’t take a chance) and had the space to be in a totally child free zone should they chose to be.

I had many stair gates over doorways to make things easier, but they were a big part of my practice, enjoying cuddles at story time, laying upside down in the middle of floor puzzles etc.

If the overarching principles are there and you can demonstrate that you can keep the children in your care safe you’ll attract parents that want their offspring to be comfortable around pets but may not have the time or inclination to have one themselves.

ByGrabtharsHammarWhatASaving · 23/07/2023 16:42

It was a deal breaker for us when looking for a childminder. My dd was scared of dogs and tbh so was I! In the end though the only CM with availability at the short notice we needed it had 3 dogs. I was soooo worried about it. Well, my dd has been there a year now and has come to absolutely adore dogs. The littlest one is always sitting on her lap apparently. I have to keep a close eye on her at the park because she wants to pet every dog she meets. It turned out to be a real blessing in disguise.

RMNmama · 23/07/2023 16:35

Our childminder has 2 dogs and sometimes her daughters 2 dogs are there for the day too - the kids love them! They are friendly little dogs and very cute! My DD was quite unsure of dogs at first but she adores the childminders dogs now and is much more confident around dogs in general. It didn’t put us off at all.

casualreader2022 · 23/07/2023 14:28

Sorry, I have a dog and I'm a dog person but it would still put me off massively. I don't trust dogs with children, no matter how lovely they are.

NatalieH2220 · 23/07/2023 14:16

Afraid so especially for my youngest. Dogs can get jealous/protective and I just wouldn't trust the situation.

Wouldn't bother me that you have children though. Personally I prefer it. My son would have to come on the school run if home with me so I don't see the issue having to go with a childminder.

HedgesNotFences · 23/07/2023 13:52

Yes it would put me off.

jannier · 23/07/2023 13:51

Peajee · 21/07/2023 17:28

It's a smaller space so to me it's more likely that the kids are going to play on a bit that may still have poo on it than in a huge field.

You can train dogs to go in a certain place or on the lead walk unfortunately we don't seem to be able to train some dog walkers to pooh pic so out in parks is much more likely

fionamadcat · 23/07/2023 12:49

Speaking as an ex childminder with dogs it will put some people off, but on the other hand some people love it. Have a specific pet policy that you can show parents with every scenario you can think of and what you will do. Eg kids will always be supervised with the dog and will not under any circumstances be left alone with the dog and think about how you will manage that. Stair gates are good, you can ensure the dog/children are kept separate, think about what you will do when someone comes to the door, when you go to the toilet (I spent some time taking my puppy to the toilet with me as I had a mindee that would open the gate as soon as I was out of sight). I think as long as you have thought about it carefully it is fine.

TwinMama88 · 23/07/2023 12:24

It wouldn't put me off but I'd want to meet the dog first, and see how you handle him.
I have dogs myself, and my children have been taught how to be respectful of a dogs space.
Also the breed you have, as cavaliers are naturally very gentle, friendly dogs and aren't big enough to be knocking kids around with a waggy tail.
I'd base it on various factors but just having a pet wouldn't put me off a person caring for my children.

jodes88 · 23/07/2023 12:14

I would think that in today's climate where childminders are at a premium you will find enough business from people who are not bothered or put off by the presence of a dog. we are very much a dog family and I wouldn't have given the presence of a King Charles a second thought!

I have had friends without dogs who had childminders with dogs (one had 2 staffies).who viewed it as a positive as it meant their kids didn't develop a fear of dogs as she had as a child by not being near them.

Good Luck 🍀

Luna02 · 23/07/2023 10:21

I am a childminder with a dog.

i have two kids signed up whose parents have or have had dogs and are fine with it and one whose parent is scared of dogs and didn’t want to pass on the fear to their child.

my dog is big, barks but is an absolute softie with kids.

Hollyppp · 22/07/2023 15:43

Yes it would bother me and I would look for a different childcare solution

HaveYouHeardOfARoadAtlas · 22/07/2023 11:36

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So why on earth would a post saying I’m not bothered about a childminder with a dog would make you think that?

it’s not like it’s a typical troll post with triplets in icu or something. 🤷🏻‍♀️

you really need a hobby. Anyway I’m off out enjoy your sad day trawling through peoples posting history. Get a life.

HaveYouHeardOfARoadAtlas · 22/07/2023 11:33

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It’s your opinion. The truth is the dog didn’t bite anyone else. The truth is you don’t know about the situation.

The truth is it’s irrelevant to the point I was making which I’ve explained but you can’t understand.

The truth is your odd stalking behaviour is something you do to others as evidenced on a different thread only two days ago. Probably lots of others too but I really won’t bother looking at your previous posts to see

the truth is I knew you’d never hide this thread. Sad person. 🤣🤣

dadoodoodoo · 22/07/2023 09:26

I think regarding parents concern regarding dog poo in the garden - can you fence off a small area and train your dog to just go there? I know a number of people who have done this and you have a few months to sort it.

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Why did you feel the need to do that?

How many other posters have you done it for?

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