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DennisA · 07/06/2022 12:52

My Family and I were recently on holiday in Florida, a child went missing and an state wide alert was issued to all Mobile phone users with details of gender, age and description amd where they were last seen.

Can you raise this idea with your Local MP and your local Police Commisioner to raise the profile of the need for a similar service to be created by either the government, the regional police forces, the Home office and the <obile phone networks with some urgency.

Children go missing every single day and no one is addressing the issue or raising the concern. If a State like Florida can do it, then we can.

My local MP said it was an issue with GDPR but I pointed out to him, the GDPR rules applied when we were in the EU, now that we are not we can create our own rules and I can't see why a system like they have in Florida has anything to do with GDPR where a missing child is concerned.

Social media is also a fantastic medium, recently my Granddaughters dog bolted and was "Lost". We engaged with the Local lost Dog Rescue Facebook group in Aylesbury and within 12 hours he was spotted by Dog walkers and was reunited with my Granddaughter.
The response from Dog Walkers in Aylesbury was overwhelming.

If we can be that affective where a dog is lost, just imagine how affective we could be if a child goes missing.

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Needmorelego · 07/06/2022 14:41

@Inthesameboatatmo but if your phone is with you, switched on and volume up you would hear the ping of a message.
Takes 2 seconds to see if it's your mum, a scam text trying to get your bank details, a reminder from your network or a missing child alert. You can decide what to read or ignore like any other text message and get on with your busy life.
If you don't hear your phone ping or it's in your locker at work then these texts are irrelevant but if you do happen to have your phone with you then taking 2 seconds to look could make a difference.
A few years ago I was on a busy beach when the lifeguards used a very loud tannoy to announce a child was missing and described him. Everyone on that beach had their head pop up when this loud message happened because it was unusual. Some people instantly starting looking around, some rolled over and went back to sunbathing.
The child was found within minutes.

Justkeeppedaling · 07/06/2022 14:36

The Local Authority don’t deal with missing children, what a non question? You surely understand the sentiment behind the notion “authorities”. I.e an organisation equipped and empowered to deal with a missing child.

Still doesn't answer my question. Which organisation exactly?

0blio · 07/06/2022 14:35

If you have a newish phone the facility is already there in the settings, whether your phone is 'registered' or not. This enables everyone to be contacted about local emergencies or national situations.
This could be used to let people know about missing children, if appropriate.

Child missing alert
HogDogKetchup · 07/06/2022 14:31

Needmorelego · 07/06/2022 14:24

@HogDogKetchup exactly. Much quicker. Although with 24 hour rolling TV news things are quicker to report these days.

The reach will be much greater than a news report. People always carry their phone but aren’t always checking the news.

Inthesameboatatmo · 07/06/2022 14:26

Needmorelego · 07/06/2022 14:23

@Inthesameboatatmo but it won't be like that. A child will need to be reported missing through official channels (is the police) and when police have decided exactly what the situation is the decision will be made whether to put out the alert/report on the news/release a tweet etc.
It's not going to be any Tom, Dick and Sally doing it.

I'm well aware of that. My thoughts on it still stand. An alert won't do anything more that the news and social media do already. And nobody is going to be on the look for a text message about a missing child while they go about their very busy daily lives.

Needmorelego · 07/06/2022 14:25

@Inthesameboatatmo also I believe in the USA you don't sign up to these schemes - they are automatic.

Needmorelego · 07/06/2022 14:24

@HogDogKetchup exactly. Much quicker. Although with 24 hour rolling TV news things are quicker to report these days.

Reallyreallyborednow · 07/06/2022 14:24

I certainly would not recommend letting every dumped bastard and vindictive neighbour / OW being able to post on FB, malicious photos of children who are not "missing"; just escaped with their abused mother, stuck at home with mumps, on holiday with family abroad, etc

exactly. Due diligence must be done first to make sure anyone who shouldn’t be found, isn’t.

not as simple as a parent ringing up and saying their child is missing, text sent out.

what if that parent has had a child removed for good reason and should not know where they are? Foster parents already need to be super careful with school social media etc.

Needmorelego · 07/06/2022 14:23

@Inthesameboatatmo but it won't be like that. A child will need to be reported missing through official channels (is the police) and when police have decided exactly what the situation is the decision will be made whether to put out the alert/report on the news/release a tweet etc.
It's not going to be any Tom, Dick and Sally doing it.

Inthesameboatatmo · 07/06/2022 14:18

Needmorelego · 07/06/2022 14:10

@Inthesameboatatmo I assume you only have an non registered pay as you go phone then?
I don't see the issue. It would be known that your phone number (example 0123 456 789) is registered in use on the (for example) Vodafone network but if you bought the phone with cash, never registered it and top up with cash then no one will have any clue that Vodafone 0123 456 789 belongs to you. So why would it matter if a missing child/flood warning/terror warning is texted to that number?

@Needmorelego
No I have a registered phone like most people. The issue is its just another thing to sign up for /give permission to use details for and its not needed .That's done enough on a daily basis. I'm not going to add to an ever growing list and get alerts every few minutes because someone's kids has thrown tantrums and run away. It completely takes away from the genuine cases and nobody will pay any attention to it after a while ..

HogDogKetchup · 07/06/2022 14:17

Needmorelego · 07/06/2022 14:13

@Flopisfatteningbingforchristmas what's the difference in this and having it reported on the 6 o'clock news?

You wouldn’t wait until 6 o clock for a start. It would be much faster. Time is of the essence with missing children.

Needmorelego · 07/06/2022 14:13

@Flopisfatteningbingforchristmas what's the difference in this and having it reported on the 6 o'clock news?

Flopisfatteningbingforchristmas · 07/06/2022 14:12

I’m not convinced this would be a safest thing to do.

Needmorelego · 07/06/2022 14:12

@2bazookas that's not what a scheme like this would be for though.

2bazookas · 07/06/2022 14:10

I am very happy to leave nationwide appeals for genuine cases of missing children in the hands of UK police.

I certainly would not recommend letting every dumped bastard and vindictive neighbour / OW being able to post on FB, malicious photos of children who are not "missing"; just escaped with their abused mother, stuck at home with mumps, on holiday with family abroad, etc.

Needmorelego · 07/06/2022 14:10

@Inthesameboatatmo I assume you only have an non registered pay as you go phone then?
I don't see the issue. It would be known that your phone number (example 0123 456 789) is registered in use on the (for example) Vodafone network but if you bought the phone with cash, never registered it and top up with cash then no one will have any clue that Vodafone 0123 456 789 belongs to you. So why would it matter if a missing child/flood warning/terror warning is texted to that number?

Ihatethenewlook · 07/06/2022 14:09

BarryKentPoet · 07/06/2022 13:14

I signed up years ago but have never had an alert as no children have ever gone missing in my local area.

I’m in a city in the northwest and personally see approx 2 children a day who have gone missing from our local area, mostly on our local newspaper page on fb. They’re always found within the week. I wonder how they’d meet the criteria for one of these alerts?

HogDogKetchup · 07/06/2022 14:05

parental permission has to be sought first

Given the parent will likely be the one notify in the authorities (likely the police) it wouldn’t be especially complex to ask if they can use the child’s details for a text alert? Consent is a pretty easy and quick issue to deal with.

HogDogKetchup · 07/06/2022 14:03

Justkeeppedaling · 07/06/2022 13:26

@Justkeeppedaling I assume 'they' would be the relevant local authorities for the situation

Doesn't really answer my question. Do you mean the Local Authority (capital letters), or other random local authorities (lower case).

Maybe something people could subscribe to if they wanted to, otherwise, it's the thin end of the wedge.

I think there's some similar alert system for countries likely to experience tsunamis. Japan maybe. I don't know how it works though.

The Local Authority don’t deal with missing children, what a non question? You surely understand the sentiment behind the notion “authorities”. I.e an organisation equipped and empowered to deal with a missing child.

Inthesameboatatmo · 07/06/2022 14:03

DennisA · 07/06/2022 13:45

Please contact your MP and ask why we don't have a UK alert system like other countries.

I won't be contacting my mp over this no. The uk is nowhere near as vast as America and our data protection laws very complicated. Im Loathe to hand over anymore of my details to the government as they practically have my arsehole measurement anyway. If a child or adult goes missing in the UK procedures have to be followed and parental permission has to be sought first. And then it's put on social media and the news.
There really is no need or use for this in the UK.

HogDogKetchup · 07/06/2022 14:00

Why would GDPR be an issue - the information re the appearance and name of the child is presumably being shared with the parents consent, you can consent to your data being shared. That’s if it was considered use of data for business purposes which is arguable.

As I understand (and I’m no tech whizz) you can message the masses just by sending to those accessing the phone signals? Isn’t that the plan for emergencies etc like terror threats? We had “stay at home” messages during Covid. So no data is actually being stored.

So, poor excuse for NOT doing it. I think it’s a great idea.

Reallyreallyborednow · 07/06/2022 13:52

The Police already use social media etc for alerts to any at risk missing person, not just children.

for children they must have permission from someone with PR to put out an alert, and certain criteria must be met. Quite often parents, ss etc don’t want an alert put out, so that’s that. The criteria are there as if they put out an alert for every missing child there’d be hundreds, and people would soon ignore.

sometimes it’s also better if the child doesn’t know they’re being looked for.

when it’s used in the US what’s the success rate for children being found by someone who has seen the alert?

i have a feeling in the uk the police/ambulance/ss/ hospitals are more coordinated in their response.

DennisA · 07/06/2022 13:45

Please contact your MP and ask why we don't have a UK alert system like other countries.

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TitoMojito · 07/06/2022 13:42

Was it an AMBER alert? It's a nationwide thing in America and very well distributed through various channels

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Amber_alert

In Hawaii they have the Maile AMBER alert

https://ag.hawaii.gov/cpja/mcch/maile-amber-alert/

It's a good system. I don’t exactly know how they get the message out to everyone's phones and things, but it's good that they do.

Needmorelego · 07/06/2022 13:38

@Justkeeppedaling I assume it would automatically go to all phone numbers from 1111 111 1111 to 9999 999 9999 that are currently registered for use so there would be no worry about someone random having your details.