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Holiday childcare for under 5's in school nursery?

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needabreak5 · 27/10/2021 14:56

DS1 has just turned 3 and will be eligible for 30 hours childcare from January and a full time place at the pre-school attached to DS1s school. Will be so much cheaper and easier for us in term time (single drop off) and he can attend wraparound so we get childcare 8-6 but at a much more convenient location than his current nursery. However, there are no holiday clubs for those below reception age? Just wondering if others have faced this dilemma and have been able to access childcare in holidays for 3-5 year olds? We didn't have this issue with DS1 as he stayed in a private nursery until he started school.

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insancerre · 30/10/2021 08:48

I really don’t understand why people think the school nursery will be better when it gives them the problem of holiday childcare
Just leave them in the private day nursery
The curriculum and learning is exactly the same in both places
Then you won’t have the hassle of finding holiday care
This is a problem entirely of your own making and can easily be avoided

SunndyD · 30/10/2021 08:42

It’s why lots of people who work full time don’t use school nursery and keep their children in private nursery until school age. It might be Slighfly more expensive but you don’t have to pay for wrap around care, nor source the holidays. Personally in your situation I’d keep DC at private nursery till they go to school!

Bunnycat101 · 30/10/2021 08:34

Some of the national chains do take from 3 (have a look at camp Beaumont) but you will pay for it. I do think though that 3 year olds need a level of care that holiday camps are not always best set up to provide. We ended up using a lot of camps post lock down before my 4yo started school and it was quite a test of her resilience tbh. She got on fine and loved it but she had to be more independent and self sufficient than she would have needed to in nursery or even reception. Did mean that starting school was a breeze though.

WhatsWrongWithMyUsername · 28/10/2021 16:36

We did some days school nursery and some days in the old private nursery (as school nursery wasn’t to 6pm), so just used extra days with the private nursery for holidays. With the bonus that they took them up to age 8, so the DC went there in school holidays until they were about 7 and 5.

RedMarauder · 28/10/2021 16:28

It's not really easier if you have no holiday cover.

This is why my 3 year old does 2 days with her CM and 3 days at a charity run nursery. The nursery has longer summer, easter and christmas holidays than a private nursery but not as long as a school nursery.

Also the school nurseries around me can only give you 6 sessions or 3 days. This is because not all the primary schools have a nursery. So quite a few children use a CM for the days they aren't at nursery. Some of the CMs, like mine, will pick up or drop off from them as well plus take the children in the holidays.

RobinPenguins · 28/10/2021 12:33

IME school nurseries are more geared towards families with a SAHP or one who works very minimal hours. We’ve kept DD in private nursery until she starts reception. Once you factor in wrap around care, holidays etc it’s no more expensive and a lot less hassle.

whatswithtodaytoday · 28/10/2021 12:29

This is why we're sticking with our day nursery until school, despite the school nursery being much closer, much cheaper, and liking the idea of him making friends there.

I'm just hoping some of his day nursery friends live near us and will end up going to the same school. I know from local parent groups that childminders are in very short supply around here.

IbizaToTheNorfolkBroads · 28/10/2021 11:25

IME a lot of holiday clubs are not insured for under 5s. I was in the OP’s position a few years ago, and just had to keep the DC in private nursery until they stated school.

jannier · 28/10/2021 11:19

@AshGirl
I'm a trained Senco, portage, autism support ECAT, Eleanor, and more. I take children who don't settle or benefit from nursery raise EHCP etc. Then help parents battle with school when they do start and are in holding becouse they go backwards being one amongst 30 and 2 or 3 adults.

AshGirl · 28/10/2021 10:31

@jannier

You could try for a childminder......but many won't take a child of preschool age for only pick up and drop off ....I won't the little does not get to know you so is unsettled at the busiest time of day, Ofsted require us to still do planning and learning for them, I'm registered to do exactly the same as nursery and school nursery taking the funding why would I pick up the dregs for a family that dosent think I'm the best option thats like saying I like shopping at Tescos but Sainsbury's have better delivery slots so I'll pay their delivery charge and they can get my shopping from Tescos and bring it to me. Id say find a childminder near your school that you want and use your funding stretched all year with them. Or you might be lucky and find one who will do half days and split the funding 15 hours at each.
I understand this is frustrating for CMs but we left a private nursery because DS has SEND and they weren't supporting him adequately. We moved to an inclusive SEND pre-school but they only offered 9-3, term time only. We were incredibly lucky to find a CM who would do pick ups and holidays but we paid her a much higher hourly rate to make it worth her while.

Now DS is at school and DH is a SAHP as it is so hard to find enough wrap around and holiday cover for little ones with SEND.

BlackLambAndGreyFalcon · 28/10/2021 08:59

Look at the local private schools who have a nursery intake. Because they take children from 3 they usually have holiday club wrap-around care from 3 as well during the school holidays. And usually (certainly in this area) the holiday clubs are open to children who don't attend the school.

Frazzled2207 · 28/10/2021 08:37

This is ultimately why we didn’t put our child into school nursery.
Worth asking private nurseries to see if they’ll have them. But holiday clubs round here usually need them to be 5 (something to do with ratios) so ruling our younger reception children too

LakeShoreD · 28/10/2021 08:32

Are you sure you’ve looked at all options? The main one near me that is all over south London will take 3 year olds for half days. I’ve also heard of others e.g. some Barracudas that will take 3YOs but haven’t personally used them. The sports activity ones around us mostly take from aged 4 so that should be an option for the last year of nursery as long as you don’t have a summer baby. Also do you have gym membership? If you upgrade to a fancier gym a lot of them have childcare facilities and holiday camps.

Cyclingforcake · 28/10/2021 07:56

This is why I left mine in full time childcare until they went to school. The money save by using the school pre-school was not worth the holiday hassle. Also be warned the holiday clubs often don’t take reception aged children if they weren’t 5 and they’re often school hours only so no use for working parents.

jannier · 28/10/2021 07:48

You could try for a childminder......but many won't take a child of preschool age for only pick up and drop off ....I won't the little does not get to know you so is unsettled at the busiest time of day, Ofsted require us to still do planning and learning for them, I'm registered to do exactly the same as nursery and school nursery taking the funding why would I pick up the dregs for a family that dosent think I'm the best option thats like saying I like shopping at Tescos but Sainsbury's have better delivery slots so I'll pay their delivery charge and they can get my shopping from Tescos and bring it to me.
Id say find a childminder near your school that you want and use your funding stretched all year with them. Or you might be lucky and find one who will do half days and split the funding 15 hours at each.

Maryann1975 · 27/10/2021 17:48

@sleepingrabbits

Why aren't there childminders ? Ask on your school chat / Facebook, as they often have a Facebook group rather than advertising on apps.

We have masses of childminders around here, masses. Only met one Nanny, and a few have after school babysitters at their home.

A childminder would be the solution for the summer and could take both kids out to do things, as summer clubs are often quite short hours like 9-3.30/ 4pm.

You wouldn’t get a childminder to do holiday cover for a preschooler in our town. We are all full with our regular children and generally, over time, we’ve decided it’s not really worth trying to settle a child we don’t know for a week or two.
I have been asked several times about holiday cover and I’m always surprised parents choose a school nursery with no holiday provision if they know they need care all year round. I’m even more surprised if they tell me they left a private nursery to go to the school nursery knowing that there was no provision for a quarter of the year.
Op, if you are saving £1000 a month using the school nursery, you might be in a position to throw money at the problem. Advertise and see if you can get a nanny to come in and have your child over the holidays.
Twilightstarbright · 27/10/2021 17:39

Depending where you are, Camp Beaumont and Barracuda take from 3. I’m in N London/Herts borders and a local school holiday club, local nursery and a couple of holiday club providers all provide school holiday care from age 3. PM me if helpful.

tiggerwhocamefortea · 27/10/2021 17:25

@sleepingrabbits

Why aren't there childminders ? Ask on your school chat / Facebook, as they often have a Facebook group rather than advertising on apps.

We have masses of childminders around here, masses. Only met one Nanny, and a few have after school babysitters at their home.

A childminder would be the solution for the summer and could take both kids out to do things, as summer clubs are often quite short hours like 9-3.30/ 4pm.

A lot of areas you can't get childminders for love nor money.

Many also won't take children on just for holidays as it's disruptive - by the time they've settled it's back to nursery/school

LastToBePicked · 27/10/2021 16:49

[quote sleepingrabbits]@LastToBePicked to you have to still employe the Nanny yourselves if it's short stint? [/quote]
Well yes I say ‘employed’ but I don’t actually mean employed - we just used to pay ours cash in hand for a few days as part of the patchwork of childcare arrangements we had! This was someone we actually had previously employed as our nanny and was happy to do a few days work for us (eg when her new nannying family were off on their summer holiday)

Iliketeaagain · 27/10/2021 16:47

This is exactly why we kept dd in the private nursery she had been going to (in the pre-school room) with funding spread through the 12 months of the year in the year before she went to school. By the time we had worked out holiday childcare and the headache that came with that especially over the Christmas holidays for a pre-schooler, it wasn't that much of a saving for us and the bit extra it was, was worth paying for the ease of knowing we had full time childcare sorted out.

sleepingrabbits · 27/10/2021 16:42

@LastToBePicked to you have to still employe the Nanny yourselves if it's short stint?

sleepingrabbits · 27/10/2021 16:41

@needabreak5

The holiday clubs are all 8am-6pm around here. DS1 went to various ones over the summer and is at a different one this week. I've not looked into childminders before so not sure re availability / demand in the area. Some people do have nannies though but all year round rather than holidays only.
Ah are they ran by the day nurseries? I thought you meant things like football or multi- sports day camp ? We have them at the leisure centres or run by football clubs.

I'm going to need summer holiday cover for the first time in the summer, dreading arranging it, but will find a childminder I think, as sports clubs a bit exhausting, plus I also have a younger one too.

needabreak5 · 27/10/2021 16:32

The holiday clubs are all 8am-6pm around here. DS1 went to various ones over the summer and is at a different one this week. I've not looked into childminders before so not sure re availability / demand in the area. Some people do have nannies though but all year round rather than holidays only.

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LastToBePicked · 27/10/2021 16:31

We had this problem too. Solutions we variously used were:

-nanny employed for short periods
-our term-time preschool ran a holiday club for a couple of weeks in summer
-a very few ‘regular’ holiday clubs took children from aged 3/3.5 (really had to hunt for them). More choice from age 4 onwards (last summer holiday before starting school was easier to cover).
-childcare swaps with friends
-begging a few days from grandparents
-agreeing flexible working with employer

Sooo much easier now they are both primary aged (now just dreading early secondary age!)

sleepingrabbits · 27/10/2021 16:27

Why aren't there childminders ? Ask on your school chat / Facebook, as they often have a Facebook group rather than advertising on apps.

We have masses of childminders around here, masses. Only met one Nanny, and a few have after school babysitters at their home.

A childminder would be the solution for the summer and could take both kids out to do things, as summer clubs are often quite short hours like 9-3.30/ 4pm.