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help a new au-pair out!! :)

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llauren · 25/09/2021 17:18

Hi Mums!!

My name is lauren and i’m 18, and i’m going in october to germany to be an au pair! ive come to mumsnet because i'm looking after an 11year old, a 5year old and twins (2yrs) - all of whom are boys, and was wondering if anyone had any ideas on fun activities which will keep them entertained in afternoons and evenings? i am very energetic, a good swimmer, patient, arts and crafty and extroverted so i am used to noise (and very much anticipate it😂). ideally i’m looking for age appropriate games / activities which i could modify for the 5 year old and twins to do together (and also some ideas i definitely should not try would be appreciated) also, i would love some ideas (such as swimming / cinema) i could do with the 11 year old boy maybe on an evening to bond with him too. i have been told they are all very loud, energetic and love football. I do have experience with primary school aged children and i have a family relation aged 2 so i have a small amount of experience with him, but i would** love some other ideas too!! i know this will be no doubt exhausting, but i have so much time for these lovely boys and i want to be the best i can be :) thankyou for your time and i'm excited to see all of the fun ideas !!

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ditalini · 25/09/2021 17:50

I got a primary teacher friend the book "The floor is lava" which has got loads of ideas for games in it as a secret Santa present one year. He's used lots of the games with children of various ages and it's also on Kindle or Google books as an ebook.

AlwaysColdHands · 25/09/2021 17:36

Also, find out if there is a local network of other au pairs so you can have play dates with them and make some adult friends

AlwaysColdHands · 25/09/2021 17:34

Five Minute Mum is your friend (certainly for the younger ones)
Enjoy! I had such a great experience doing this for a family in Switzerland when I was young

Justgivemethebrie · 25/09/2021 17:30

Just coming on to say you sound like you'll be an amazing au pair!! There are some brilliant play accounts on Insta that may be worth a follow for the younger ones. For the older one, I think take his lead once you get there.

HairyScaryMonster · 25/09/2021 17:27

Obstacle course in the garden or house on wet days, hide things and they have to find them with clues (gets them running all over), I saw a learning game where you roll a dice and jump on cushions til you get to that number. There's a piece of paper with something they're learning they keep going til they've got them all.