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Experience with childminder

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HeyDuggeesFavouriteSquirrel · 05/08/2021 12:41

As a first time mum I'm finding the child care options available rather overwhelming.

My DS has just turned two and we're looking into the best options for him. He's not talking yet so that is something I'm taking into consideration when making my choices.

I run a small business part time plus I'm managing a major home renovation so I need some childcare but not as much as if I were full time employment.

I posted in the childcare forum recently as I started my DS in nursery and I wasn't happy with the staff. I feel like the nursery wasn't the right choice for us - I chose it because a close family member had been happy with it and I first looked around it when DS was small and I had no clue of his or my needs.

I don't want to rule out nursery despite this bad experience. A doctor recommended I send him to nursery to help with speech and so many of my friends have had positive experiences with nursery.

However, even though we live in Central London there are limited choices for other daycare nurseries that have the flexibility I require (I only really need two days a week). Most of the preschool nurseries that I've looked at that start at 2 years old require five days a week. There are a few options but I still need to actually visit them as they are only just allowing open days and visitors again.

My son has a nanny two mornings a week at the moment and she takes him on little days out and to playgroups but I worry this isn't enough social contact or stimulation for him given his lack of speech. He has been really happy with her though.

Some of my friends use a local childminder. She has her own rented space away from her home and it is set up like a mini nursery and she take nine children with the help of two assistants. I visited her space and DS has a great time plus she offers the flexibility I require. I don't have much knowledge of childminders but has anyone here used one? Has it helped a child with a speech delay?

As a last bit of information, I'm still looking after him the majority of the time and we do lots of playdates, activities and classes. Plus I have him booked in for a speech therapy assessment next week.

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jannier · 12/08/2021 09:00

@Enwi
Some childminders have the full senco training I've raised EHCPs, provide attention autism, signing and more. I'm portage trained with the full qualification, Elcan and Ecat qualified and much more.

jannier · 12/08/2021 08:56

@HeyDuggeesFavouriteSquirrel
Just to say A qualified nursery nurse and most childminders have the same level qualification and many childminders have higher qualifications with lots of us having degrees as well as specialist training in various needs including language support.

omgthepain · 12/08/2021 08:06

@HeyDuggeesFavouriteSquirrel

I use a childminder for my 2 children she's had them both since they were about 1 as I had a year off work both times.

My childminder isn't based at her house and she has a big extension on the back (like a huge conservatory but with a proper roof)

She's a qualified nursery nurse and worked in nurseries for years but once she had her children decided to set up on her own and it's amazing and cheaper than a nursery

We are Nottinghamshire it's £35 per day, a nursery is nearer £55

It's very much home from home care and she does loads of great activities and even has banty hens for sippy eggs for breakfast

It was the best decision I've ever made

Crabsy · 11/08/2021 23:09

Just wanted to say that any of those settings - including just being at home with a nanny - will be helping your child’s speech development. I don’t think one option is going to be advantageous over another and I’m not aware of any evidence to suggest that children who attend nursery are more advance in their speech than children who attend other types of childcare, or that children who are at risk of a speech delay find it easier to catch up at nursery than elsewhere. So just pick whichever you like best and don’t worry about the speech aspect.

Clammyclam · 11/08/2021 23:07

I think the setting you have looked at sounds perfect.
It's larger than a childminders home so more friends to make- but small enough to ensure his needs are closely met.

Go for it.

Enwi · 11/08/2021 22:58

@zoeydollie not necessarily. She can remain registered as a childminder if she is still working some of her time at home, so long as she isn’t doing more then 50% in the premises.

OP, I’m a childminder so somewhat biased but as another poster has said lots of people are surprised to learn that a childminder is insured, Ofsted registered and inspected, first aid trained and qualified. We have to follow the same EYFS as nurseries and in fact, childminders have to be more qualified than most staff members at nursery do.

If your son has a speech delay then the sort of setting you’re suggesting sounds like the perfect option to me. Enough children that he is getting the key socialisation and formation of relationships outside of home that his nanny can’t offer alone, but equally he isn’t being thrust into a very large setting without the socialisation skills required to really settle.

Another thing to think about is ratios. Childminders usually have a ratio of 1:3 children, whereas a nursery is 1:4 at this age and then goes up to 1:8 or 1:13 depending on the staff’s qualifications in the room. In my experience children with a childminder usually have more one to one attention due to the smaller ratios.

A downside to consider is that unlike most nurseries, a childminder won’t have a SENCO department, should your son require more assistance in the future. With a supportive childminder and good healthcare professionals and communication between you all I don’t think this should be a problem, but it’s worth mentioning.

Good luck! It sounds like you’ve already had a positive experience so it won’t do any harm to enquire further x

zoeydollie · 06/08/2021 23:12

If she is working from a rented commercial space rather than a home, then she is a nursery not a childminder and works to the same regulations as any other nursery, just small scale.

jannier · 05/08/2021 15:48

Most doctors and health visitors nd parents don't understand what childminders do working to the same standards (Eyfs) and often with the same qualifications as a nursery manager. I'm trained in portage, supporting early language, signing, a senco (having done the same training as nurser) I raise EHCPs and do referals to speech therapy. Many nurseries don't raise EHCPs leaving it until lo reaches full time school. Often children get on better having more individual tailored care and support.

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