I am new to this, but need some advice please. I have been with husband for 24yrs, he has worked on and off for 13yrs. He has been verbally, financially and sometimes physical abusive. He is convinced I am cheating. I have grown to resent him, but sometimes think I am the problem and just not a nice person like he keeps saying. I feel like I've changed into a person I dont like, mainly being jealous of friends happiness.