We have an after school nanny for one of our DS 2 days per week. He is 9, has LD and attends a special school. We are on our 2nd nanny with him and it is tricky to find someone for 8 hours a week.
Our nanny's daughter is starting school soon and she has asked that she has her at our home for 1-2 hours per day. Her child is lovely and with the Covid issues we have been flexible about her bringing her along. However there is part of me that thinks that she is no longer a sole charge nanny and I will be subsidising her childcare by agreeing to this.
Can we ask that she accepts a wage reduction for the hours her daughter is with us? Or do I just have to suck it up as it is so difficult to find after school care for DS? (We have a 2nd DS who goes to a childminder because we felt that DS1 needed more 1:1 attention after school)