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Mumof2childrenx · 23/03/2019 22:13

Long story but here we go .
So I recently finished university and completed my degree during the last term my funding was completely taken away from me leaving me in serious financially difficulties .At this point I called SF and ask why I never recieved the childcare grant amount expected ,they advise me that I was expected to recieve a payment but due to handing in my form late it had been stop .Anyways I continued with childcare arrangment as normal but told the childminder what had happened. Few weeks later I recieved letter which stated the amount where correct and unfortunately I will not recieve any funds. So , I explain this to my childminder and told her that I will have to work around the free funded hours ,although I was still expected to go to my classes .
I than was going to go back to university,but my first payment didn't seem right and would not of covered my childcare cost, so decided to defer my place so I didnt get into further debt but at the time told the childminder I will pay any debts owe as soon as a. My student money came through or b. If I can find out why it was stopped and I was refunded .if all fails as soon as I find a job I will start making regularly repayments .
So, since leaving my course I been looking for various job many of which I was not sucessful for a number of reasons however , I was behind on various debts such as rent etc and been on benefits atm so explained to the childminder again look I am in no position to make regular payments but I acknowledge I owe you money .Eventhough I was struggling I did pay her £350 ,which she never took of my outstanding balance. I asked her to send me the new invoice with what I paid deducted so I could show this evidence to step change . They advise me any payments should be made on priority debts and this wasn't classed as one but was happy to include them on a list of debt I would make regular payments to via through them.
Anyways, I recently just fount a job so I than contacted my same childminder and explained could I have a rough idea of cost of care etc etc and once in place I will start paying you plus any arrears owed ontop which I think is reasonable .
Her response is like she expect me to pay what I owe upfront first before I can get care . At no point did she ever mention this and since I have got a job it like she put a barrier in to make it impossible for me to earn money to than repay her what I owe and continue care with her ..
I am now left stuck without any care ,in a position where I finally getting on my feet again .To be told actually pay up what you owe first, otherwise you have no care and than therefore I will be unable to earn a living.

Is there any help out there to clear of the debt owed ,so I could get care ? Or shall I just find another childminder ? And pay off what I can each month.. Don't know what to do I feel like I tried to be honest, I could of changed my number been dishonest not paid a penny back not give no explanation like many other do . And it seems like it been thrown back in my face,I done everything to avoid taking risk deferred my place at university due to it . Whilst ,most students would of just continue running up debt without a care like many of my friends have .

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Looneytune253 · 24/03/2019 08:19

If you see it from the childminders point of view though she has been left short and has had promises from you to pay but no payment. Childminders are usually advised not to take a child once there’s debt because a client may just get further into debt. Could you get a temporary loan to pay the childminder?

Mumof2childrenx · 23/03/2019 22:45

To also add my final balance actually is not right due to many occasion whereby she didnt do what agreed, such as collect my children etc and not once did I ever say look I going refused to pay you due to not carrying out what you agreed to . Such as my child went to an after school club I still paid her the full amount, eventhough she only done as hour for instance . Or when she went to an hospital appt which left me in a situation where I had to find alternative care .

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Mumof2childrenx · 23/03/2019 22:40

Yes, but my point is at no point as she expressed this until recently since I got a job now I in a position to potentially pay her back all of a sudden it is an issue . But before this she was quite happy to wait and said she would be more than happy to sort out a repayment when I could.
But without earning or not being able to earn I would never be able to pay her back . I been with her 2 years and always paid anything else owed so it not like I never paid her . The the balance owed is very small, in comparasion to what been paid in the past.
Going with her again is a very sure sign ,that she could easily get her money back . But understand it also is her choice ,but based on that I arrange hours assuming that I would go back to her and best on that . So ,somehow either going have to change this with my new employer again or go and find a new childminder but than I cannot return to her as I cannot just leave my new childminder as it wouldn't really be fair to do that .

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Lwmommy · 23/03/2019 22:24

I think.its absolutely reasonable for the childminder to say she will not look after your child till you pay whats due. She will have bills to.pay and have been put in financial difficulty as a result of your money problems.

If you cannot pay that, then your only option will be to find another childminder.

You do need to pay off your bill and maintain contact with the childmider though or she will be well.within her rights to take you to small claims court to recoup her fees.