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Nanny and dog poo

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JuliePoppins · 14/01/2019 22:56

Originally I wasn't a nanny. I was a tutor and music practice supervisor to a child. But gradually I became a nanny to the family.I study in mornings and as they need me only after school it works fine schedule-wise.

One day the family got a puppy. I don't mind dogs. I actually think they are cute. But I have no idea how to take care of them and especially I dislike the poo business... The family asked me if I disliked dogs. I told them my honest view - I liked them but I was not very keen on becoming a dog sitter/dealing with poo... They reassured me they would teach their DCs how to look after the dog including poo picking so I wouldn't need to do anything. They also found a day care for the dog so he only comes back home at around 5pm during weekdays.

However, the dog still poos at home. And when he pooed, the children call me and expect me to clear them. I told them their mum told me they would know how to do it so I wouldn't need to do clearing poo. They seem to know what to do actually, but probably don't want to do it, and still expect me to pick them and wipe the floor and so on.

I feel guilty to tell them to do it, even though the parents said it's their job. They are so brilliant to make an excuse why I should do it/they can't do it... But I really really dislike DEALING WITH POO!!!

As a nanny, I do some light house-keeping such as dishes and tidying kids' laundries. Then leaving poo on the floor seems to be also my job... But is't it?? Do you think refusing to clear dog poo as a nanny is unreasonable behaviour?? Today I left poo on the floor and the mum cleared when she's back home...

But I do feel their request becomes endless. I even use my car to taxi the children for after school clubs. And now dog poo?? Really???

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JuliePoppins · 14/01/2019 23:48

So it's not a normal way of handling pet toilet at home then? I liked the idea of getting a puppy one day but their way of dealing with the dog toilet issue completely put me off... I actually screamed and ran away madly when I saw the dog stepped in his own poo and ran towards me!!

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Halfahunnerstillastunner · 14/01/2019 23:48

Why are they letting the pup poo IN the house? Puppy pads are not, in my opinion, a great idea but should only be used for a few days near the door to the garden while pup is tiny anyway. Doggie needs to be properly toilet trained ie poo and pee is an outside job!! Are the parents just expecting this to miraculously happen with no effort or training? Hmm that's gross. No dog should be allowed to go inside, it's also not fair on the dog when they decide to rehome when it's no longer small and cute as seen a billion times before

LovingLola · 14/01/2019 23:47

Poor dog.

TrendyNorthLondonTeen · 14/01/2019 23:43

Is anyone actually attempting to toilet train this dog?

Franheaton · 14/01/2019 23:41

Urk. They are dirty people.

JuliePoppins · 14/01/2019 23:38

I have managed not to do it so far. But it's getting harder and harder. The mum seems to understand I wouldn't do it and she is fine with it, yet she is sort of hoping I will do it. So I am not sure how long I could refuse and I feel guilty I expect the children to do it.

I don't really understand the toilet system they are using, to be honest. I thought pet dogs usually have their toilet set up and although regular cleaning would be needed, no immediate pick up is required (so we can leave it till the parents come home)?

However their dog drops his poo and pee on a piece of paper placed in the hall. Since it's not discreet at all, and just sitting on the very busy hall, someone have to pick up before others accidentally step on it!!! The younger child walk around on the paper with the stains of pees... I also witnessed the postman dropped letters and magazines on the paper.....

Yikes!!!!

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Franheaton · 14/01/2019 23:05

Is it shitting in the house? And they're expecting you to pick it up? Filthy beggars.

ILoveChristmasLights · 14/01/2019 23:03

No. You made it clear you weren’t going to be dealing with the dog poo. Either the children do it (which I wouldn’t actually be keen on unless they’re teenagers and have good hygiene) or the parents collect the dog from doggy day care on their way home from work. It shouldn’t be pooing IN the house anyway!

You made your feelings known before they got the dog.

ginghamstarfish · 14/01/2019 23:02

Please stand firm and tell the parents you won't do it, as has already been discussed. They need to tell their kids - of course they would prefer you to do it but don't!

AuditAngel · 14/01/2019 23:00

So had a nanny a year, until DC 1 started school. The only thing our nanny didn’t sort out, was the dead pigeon. To be fair, the animals caught it while I was at work. She was very apologetic.

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