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What exactly is it that nannies do - I need to know!

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clutteredup · 22/04/2007 21:08

I have a student placement nanny from our local college coming Monday's and Friday's from 9.45 till 5.15. Cool, I'm excited but when I asked what she would do the college told me,'anything you would expect a Nanny to do'. Great! It's just I haven't a clue what I would expect a nanny to do - never had one before! Can anyone advise?

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ScottishThistle · 23/04/2007 21:05

Oh how lovely for your Nanny student, I wish they'd done home placements when I was at college as I hated nurseries with a passion!

clutteredup · 22/04/2007 22:46

Sorry to anyone who's looked, I've just viewed my profile and it says I don't have children - not quite sure why?! - Have 3 DS aged 6 in 2 weeks, DD1 3.5 and DD2 3 mnths - must have mussed up on registering!

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clutteredup · 22/04/2007 22:42

Let's hope she is a veggie then, DS won't look at vegetables at the mo. I asked the other day if there was even one vegetable he would eat,I was pleased to hear him say that there was one - pepperami, he said! - whoops! perhaps she might be better at educating him about food than me!
Many thanks for all your help - I'm really looking forward to having an extra pair of hands for the first time so I'll be grateful for anything she does.

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NannyL · 22/04/2007 22:41

typical nanny duties are anything and everything involving children

including looking after their clothes, their rooms, nutrition and health, and stimulating them intelectually.

So childrens washing and ironing and name tape sewing is fine.
cooking childrens food (from scratch, even shopping for ingrediants) and washing up / laoding dishwasher and leaving a tidy kitchen afterwards is fine (Leaving the tidy kitchen that nanny was left

tidying playroom, childrens bedrooms / bathroom and playroom is fine, including things like light hooveing and dusting!

sorting tpys, and washing / maintaining them!

Also 'playing with' children, helping with homework, taking to clubs / swimming lessons / arranging playdates

Whilst some nannies may be happy to do them either regualarly or occasionaly, cleaning drains / cleaning general livng areas / walking dogs, feeding pets /cooking meals for parenst, doing parents washing / ironing etc are not "nanny" duties

BTW im a nanny and i can (and do) cook PROPER homemamde food....

nannynick · 22/04/2007 22:38

Yes, if she becomes a nanny in the future, if she is vegetarian she will have to prepare meals for the family for whom she works, who may well eat meat. I know nannies who are vegetarians and yet they prepare meals containing meat, though the families have found that they eat less meat, as the nanny has sort of converted the children to eating more veg.

clutteredup · 22/04/2007 22:35

Thanks for the advice about cooking. I do do proper cooking for my DC - goes back to when DS was weaning and wouldn't eat from jars - ever - now won't eat much at all - 6 next week going on 13 ! - but that's by the by - what if she's vegetarian , will it be alright to get her to prepare meat dishes?

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pickledpear · 22/04/2007 22:30

nannynick i got a raw deal too ...lol i loved cooking fresh everyday and the children ate it and on a monday the boss would welcome me back as they not eaten anything she had offered as it was not cooked the same as mine...lol love it

pickledpear · 22/04/2007 22:28

i think she will be very nervous and eager to please this is new to her too dont forget.
hopefully you will get on and she wont have an attitude..lol
but going back to duties she should have covered them in her studies and yes everything is asked of a nanny even mucking out horses and dog walking whilst older children were at school. i think in an interview things like that are discussed it is then you say yes or no to agreeing to do the jobs. although they come up within the day and you just get on and do them you are being the stand in parent after all but we should get paid at the end of week for everything else we take on

nannynick · 22/04/2007 22:27

I think I get the raw deal... no pre-made frozen stuff, just a veg box and fruit box once per week plus store cupboard supplies. I care for 3 children, two of whom are under 5, and we find the time to cook.

nannyj · 22/04/2007 22:27

Cooking is a good idea, it's one of the most important things a nanny needs to know how to do.

nannynick · 22/04/2007 22:25

Agreed... cooking isn't taught a lot on courses. When I did my NNEB in 1998, I think we had something like and hour and a half of home economics, and very little of that was actual cooking.

So if you can get your student to help with cooking that would be great. Even just simple things - ministroni soup, home made pizza, pasta sauces including how to make a basic white sauce and cheese sauce. Fruit salad, milk shakes, real fruit ice lolly, fairy cakes and muffins, flapjacks. Perhaps even mini quiche, bread rolls, jam tarts, mini pasties (I use a potato based pastry).

As the student has been studying for a while, after all it isn't the beginning of the academic year, with luck she will have ideas of her own, plus I suspect she will have some work she will have to do as well - such as observations and maybe a project making something.

em28677 · 22/04/2007 22:21

Good comment GeeGee most of the nannysI know cant cook decent homecooked food and all serve up freezerpremade food, though to be fair alot of usknowhow we justdont get the time!!

GeeGee2 · 22/04/2007 22:15

I've had nannies in the past and never asked them to do laundry or ironing for the children or any housework other than loading the dishwasher etc, although I understand that this is standard 'nanny duties'.

However one thing I wish nanny colleges taught better would be simple, quick, home cooked, healthy meals using fresh ingredients.

For most of my nannies, I have had to cook meals in batches at weekends for them to defrost and they would just add vegetables.

Otherwise, everything would have been out of a jar or tin or a frozen chicken nugget.

If you could teach her a few easy meals it would help her in the future.

em28677 · 22/04/2007 21:55

Oh God thats awful I had too many years of picking up the fathers dirty undies to think of him in any way otyher than their dad!!! Some days couldnt even look at him

clutteredup · 22/04/2007 21:54

Actually she did ask for a comic today - good idea

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clutteredup · 22/04/2007 21:53

Spot on Nick 3 and a half to be precise -could try messy art as she love that and I hate clearing it up! I'm just a bit concerned I don't want her to feel put upon as evidently a lot of nannies do and are - but at the same time obviously want her to do what she has to for her training - i guess I'm a bit clueless not even having had a cleaner before - not practised at having anyone to help!

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anteater · 22/04/2007 21:51

Actually that figure is 3 nannies that got the top job, not 2!
We have 2 in dd2s class!
(my smalls are always well presented!)

em28677 · 22/04/2007 21:49

Why dont you stop and get a new book or something you know your DD1 will love then get the studentsto give it to her. Never know it may work have her sit qietly looking at new toy/book and hopefully your DD will go to her herself without feeling passed off as you put it

nannynick · 22/04/2007 21:49

DD1 must be 3 or 4 years old I would guess, so explain to her that due to having DD2 to care for you can't spend as much time playing games with her, so you thought it would be nice if there was someone else who came to help for a while, who would play games, who would help with arts and crafts, who would accompany you to the park, groups etc.

paros · 22/04/2007 21:48

anteater you know some naughty nannies . Thankgod with my male bosses once you have picked up and washed their dirty underwear the novelty wears off some what . lol

clutteredup · 22/04/2007 21:48

Sorry I meant my DH is away , just had my wine glass refilled and not concentrating!

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clutteredup · 22/04/2007 21:47

Thanks for the warning Anteater -my DS is away while my student is coming so at least I can leave DH duties off my list!

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clutteredup · 22/04/2007 21:45

DD1 still reeling a little from arrival of DD2. Not really badly but could possibly be sensitive to me fobbing her off. Any ideas on how to manage introducing new help without being seen as passing her off on someone else, but trying to get a relationship going between them?

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anteater · 22/04/2007 21:42

we have had 3 nannies and they all did things in very different ways, its up to what you want.
My advise is this tho..
Half the nannies we know in other families have ended up doing 'extra' duties with dhs..
2 went on to become new dws.. so beware!

nannynick · 22/04/2007 21:42

Could also bake a cake for lunch/tea. Bake bread, make playdough etc... but making dough can be such fun for children - so perhaps a better thing to do with DD1.

Going to collect from pre-school and school can be an experience... going to toddler group can be fun. The more interaction she has with children (yours and others) the better. The more involved the better as well, so at toddler group, you relax and your student deal with anything that crops up.