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CM Club - Am i the only childminder in the country still working at 5.30 on a Friday

40 replies

saltire · 30/03/2007 17:29

Because it feels like it.

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ShoshableEggEater · 30/03/2007 21:17

Saltire ignore her, she should try living inthe real world with real children,

well done love, hope you get better sleep tonight.

saltire · 30/03/2007 21:09

soapy, i live on a married quarter patch. Didn't you know the RAF closes down at 4pm on a friday? often sooner!

Xenia, I was tired, i was hungry, i had a headache, and i wrongly assumed that a father who hadn't seen his 2 year old and 5 year old for four weeks would want to spend a bit of time with them. nothing wrong in me thinking it is there?

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NannyL · 30/03/2007 20:48

Xenia i dont know if that was aimed at me...

if so daddyboss finished work at 11am home by 11.30 am.... and went out to the supermarket at 5pm!

Of course he can he has every right to etc, after all they are paying me to be there etc etc etc

also as i said maybe if i had had a less busy afternoon, and stated tea / bath earlier just maybe i wiuld haveleft earlier.... as it was today they wernt in the bath til gone 5.40 and are often OUT of the bath by then!

In my old job as soon as mummy arrived home i was out the door within 5 mins cause thats what she wanted! Id leave mid washing up etc

Im not complaining btw i LOVE my job and my bosses!

Judy1234 · 30/03/2007 20:29

Well it did annoy me though that a nanny would think if I had got home early and I was there thinking I have exactly 30 minutes hen I'm not working and I don't have to look after my children that it might be assumed I'd want to take them straight over when I was counting the minutes I had "free".

Actually time in the house not working but with a nanny is very rare but I suppose what all those non working mothers who have full time nannies have all the time. It must be an interesting difference. So many people with nannies are used to as soon as they walk in the door at 6 or whatever the nanny goes.

NannyL · 30/03/2007 20:09

Only a nanny not a CM but im always there til 6pm (or 6.05 6.10 on a friday) Also on friday mummy boss works an extra long dau so i can garantee not to see her at all. Daddy boss (GP) is often working til surgary closing on friday so if hes going to be late its likely to be on a friday.... when i am DIEING to get away for the weeekend

i do leave early on tuesday mostly though.

I know im paid til 6, i expect to be there til 6 etc but today daddyboss finshed at 11am so i thought just maybe i might go at 5.45 or something....

maybe if i bathed the children earlier i would.... note to self, try that next time

princesscc · 30/03/2007 18:58

Glad you're feeling better saltire. I understand!! I have a silent house atm, dh has gone down the pub for a couple of hours and dd has gone to a Heelies disco. All is good at Castle Princesscc! Have a good weekend!

princesscc · 30/03/2007 18:40

Ones that work local to where I live and use me as a childminder.

Soapbox · 30/03/2007 18:28

Gosh what kind of jobs do people have that let them away to pick up children before 5.30 on a Friday?

Judy1234 · 30/03/2007 18:20

Many of us work later than 5.30 at other jobs. Our nanny is still here and I only finished a 90 minute business call.

saltire · 30/03/2007 18:16

Hurray, they hav eleft. I have texted DH and told him no way am i cooking tonight!

The wine is in the fridge cooling down and the boys are going to bed early with the promise of a DVD in bed

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princesscc · 30/03/2007 17:46

Oh you poor thing! I have nights like that. Yesterday mindee (11mths) was due to go home at 5.15pm. Mum was only 20 minutes late, but it was within those 20 minutes that teething pain kicked in and she screamed the house down! Thing is, you clock watch for the last hour and keep thinking 15min....10mins.....5mins and then when they don't go its heartbreaking.

I usually pour a glass of red wine at about 5.30 and put it on the window sill in the kitchen, then I shut the door on the last one of the week and head straight for it!

I love all my babies & kids to bits but the peace and the end of the day is bliss!

Its nearly over, push on through, I'm there with you!

saltire · 30/03/2007 17:40

I think it's just because i'm a bit pi**ed off. I'm tired, haven't slept right the past two nights. I've had no lunch so I'm starving.I have had mindee 2 till gone 6 every night for the past 4 weeks (instead of 5pm) because his dad has been away.
Today I have him and his siter, she usually goes to a different minder. She has talked non stop since she got here.
" can we do this, can we do that, when i'm at home i do this, my mum says this, my mum says that" My head is pounding, and

Thier dad got home from his 4 week course at 2pm and i thought, oh he'll come and get them early today. No, he has obviously decided not to bother

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princesscc · 30/03/2007 17:37

That looks quite bad doesn't it! Yes I'm still working, looking after other peoples children whilst on mn! it's OK, he's 8 and drawing a picture for mum.

princesscc · 30/03/2007 17:35

No love - i am still working! Still got one left til 6.30pm. It could have been 8.30pm! He's mum TEXT me to say would it be OK if she was two hours late! Funnily enough I said NO

looneytune · 30/03/2007 17:34

No. I always used to work til 6.30 (although nearer 7pm with traffic!!) until mindee left in Feb. Atm I'm not working Friday's but will be after Easter, starting with 5.30 finishes but will change. I miss the money with mindee gone but I must say, it's been nice to have the day off AND not rush like mad if having a night out!!

What time do you usually finish?