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Nanny Pregnancy/Maternity Leave

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NatashaRomanoff · 27/05/2016 19:09

Our nanny is pregnant, this is now an established pregnancy and we have had sight of her MATB1. She disclosed this pregnancy the week after we employed her - I was and remain really pissed off by this, but accept that it's a risk you take when employing one.

We had discussed the possibility of the nanny returning after maternity leave to provide after school care for our four children and allow her to bring her own baby. I am becoming increasingly uncomfortable with this as it becomes more of a reality. Our children are all under 10, our eldest is 9 and has ASD so complex needs that need a lot of specialised care. 2 are toddlers aged 4 and 2. I do not feel that any nanny could provide adequate care in these circumstances if they have their own newborn with them. Nanny wishes to return to work when baby is 6 weeks old Hmm

As yet we have been unable to arrange any maternity cover. It may be possible for me to change my hours short term to cover myself but this won't be possible permanently. I'm facing the possibility of having to quit work if we don't accept nanny back as there seems to be no alternative, but I am just not OK with her coming back in this capacity.

Morally I feel that if we make that decision I will need to tell her as soon as possible. What is our legal position here? Presumably if I have to leave work myself we can legally make her redundant as the position really won't exist - but what if I don't? If I can, on the off chance, maintain the reduced hours can redundancy still apply? I recognise that as we've previously verbally agreed I can't offer anyone else then position permanently Sad

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NatashaRomanoff · 27/05/2016 19:41

We have discussed, no formal change to her contract at all.

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FuzzyOwl · 27/05/2016 19:30

Have you discussed the possibility with her or have you formally confirmed and made the change to her terms and conditions that after her maternity leave she can bring her newborn with her?

KP86 · 27/05/2016 19:26

If you've changed your mind let her know asap. It's only fair.

NatashaRomanoff · 27/05/2016 19:23

I'm not sure I can do that if I've previously said it was ok to bring the baby, but now changed my mind though.

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FuzzyOwl · 27/05/2016 19:13

How about you offer her the exact same job as before which does not include her looking after her own baby. It means you are either in a situation where your nanny just looks after your children (which presumably you will be comfortable with as this is what you employed her to do) or else she will resign because she cannot do it - especially if she does not have any childcare for her baby or cannot afford it. The only problem is that she does not need to tell you of her intention to resign until whatever it is her notice period will be, so you won't have long to employ a replacement.

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