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Nanny returning from maternity leave

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Octonought · 15/11/2015 15:43

My nanny went on maternity leave and has just emailed me to give me her return to work date.
I'm very surprised she wants to return as we had a big falling out before she went off because she was completely unreliable and I felt she did not take her job very seriously. she caused a lot of stress for me at work due to her frequent time off. After this disagreement, she went on long term sick citing pregnancy complications, then onto mat leave and we have not heard from her since. I had noticed that she was advertising for work on childcare.co.uk on completion of her maternity leave, so was happy that it looked like she did not want to come back.
We have a wonderful and reliable nanny who is currently covering her leave and who would like to stay and we would like to keep her.
My job and days/hours have recently changed so are different to what my previous nanny was working.
I've spoken to a lawyer who has suggested I let the old nanny know the new (longer) hours, and await a response with the hope that she won't want the job. The problem is, that she is not responding.
It's very frustrating. I suspect my old nanny will return to us until she finds a different job, which means I lose our current nanny and my children get messed around. Apparently I have no control who works in my house with my children. It's infuriating.
I'm not looking for legal advice as I know where I stand, but anyone been through anything similar and had a good outcome? Thanks.

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Blondeshavemorefun · 15/11/2015 17:47

legally yes you have to offer old job back,but not with her bringing baby but if hours and days have changed and she cant bring baby then she may not want to come back

maybe try and meet up but yes you need to instruct her of the new hours etc and maybe say you totally understand if she cant commit to these and find childcare for her baby and say you are happy for her to give her notice

when does she want to come back

Octonought · 15/11/2015 16:02

She has been with us for about 18m but we can't get rid of her as in pregnancy/mat leave you have more rights and she could sue us for unfair dismissal claiming it was pregnancy related.
She knows she can't bring the baby, we discussed that before relationships soured and I made it clear.

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jclm · 15/11/2015 15:54

Has the old nanny been with you for two years or more?
What have you agreed with the old nanny about returning to work - is she expecting to bring her baby? You could simply say you don't want the baby in your house and that may change her mind.