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Do you always give cash to nanny for Christmas?

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balancingact · 15/11/2006 11:22

I have a new nanny and am already thinking about her Christmas pressie/s - i know people typically give a week's salary (in her case, £300 - she is live in) - but what do you guys suggest? do you think lots of presents equal to a week's salary, combination of cash + little nice pressies or just plain cash with just stocking fillers be the ideal present? I have to add that I really like her but don't want to go completely OTT

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Uwilalalalalala · 15/11/2006 15:25

What? This person who makes my nanny diaries is my nanny. Did she say she wouldn't do it?

RedTartanLass · 15/11/2006 15:20

balancingact - I have always found Uwila the font of all knowledge when it comes to nanny queries Except when I was trying to find a Nanny Diary and after searching the archives contacted someone that had made Uwila a diary. However when I contacted her, she no longer makes them . So still no nanny diary!

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balancingact · 15/11/2006 13:52

2 weeks' wages! Oh lordy, i really love her, but i certaintly can't afford that....is there a way of finding out what she expects...she is very normal and down to earth but i certainly don't want to disappoint her...

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nannyj · 15/11/2006 13:48

I get a present at Xmas and i think they spend around £100 which i think is generous. I get a bonus on the anniversary that i started work which is over 2 weeks salary but would never expect anything for xmas. In my last job my lovely bosses weren't so well off so didn't expect anything at all to be honest. Nannies generally know how well off the families we work for are, just spend what you can afford or give a half day off, i would love that.

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balancingact · 15/11/2006 13:46

oooooooohhhh! I spot a potential saving! I have never given a bonus to our previous nanny but read here somewhere that one week's wages is a going rate.....and thought oh lordy have i been a bit mean..and therefore should pay the new nanny one. To be fair, she just started in Oct so i think it would be a bit cheeky if she already expected one. She is from the UK - so no need to fly her anywhere too expensive! I am now beginning to realise Uwila is the source of all that is wise and true so i shall stick to her judgements!

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Uwilalalalalala · 15/11/2006 13:11
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RedTartanLass · 15/11/2006 13:01

whew Uwila, you are the nanny oracle and what you say goes in my house

Uwilalalalalala · 15/11/2006 12:59

I don't think there is any obligation for a bonus -- certainly not a week's wages. If you have lots of money and can happily part with say £300, then there's nothing wrong with being generous. But, in this day in age when most people don't get bonuses I don't think there is an obligation.

I buy our nanny a Christmas gift. I don't give a cash bonus. She wouldn't expect one.

RTKangaMummy · 15/11/2006 12:15

redtartanlass read this

RedTartanLass · 15/11/2006 11:59

RTKangaMummy - hey mentioned your sterlising views in a national magazine!!

RedTartanLass · 15/11/2006 11:57

OMG a week's salary!!! For Christmas? Honestly? I had no idea!!! I was going to give a nice thouhgtful gift from the LOs, and a wee cash bonus, not a bloody weeks wages!! Am I mean?

RTKangaMummy · 15/11/2006 11:45

If she comes from abroad

Pay for her to fly home for christmas

One of the families I lived with/worked for in Canada paid for me to come home for christmas/new year as a surprize pressie

CountessDracula · 15/11/2006 11:26

I give cash and pressies

Cash as bonus, pressies as xmas pressie

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