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I am SO angry, please talk me down

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TwoTimesTwenty · 16/06/2015 19:14

We have a new nanny after having to let our previous nanny go as she was lying to us (among other things). We hired our new nanny who is extremely experienced, with previous long term positions (15 odd years' experience) through an agency and she has great refs which I checked verbally myself. She is a nice lady who gets on well with the kids. She is well paid at £11 per hour net (we pay all taxes and NI) for a 4 day week, she will also get a good bonus after a year's service. It HAS to work out with her, I can't put my kids through the transition to another nanny yet again.

So today she has let the kids get sunburnt and my 4 year old has a dirty bum as she hasn't helped him wipe it. The dirty bottom has happened a couple of times now, I haven't mentioned it before as I thought it was a one off.

And yesterday she let my 4 year old watch TV for nearly an hour while little one napped despite my having specifically asked her to give him some TLC and read him stories/spend some one on one time with him as he was feeling a bit fragile. Instead she sticks him in front of the telly.

I am SO angry, I feel like she is not trying in this job and that I have let my kids down by hiring her.

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bobajob · 16/06/2015 19:30

The only issue there is sunburn. How did they get burnt?

momtothree · 16/06/2015 19:30

How many hours does she do? Is 4 year old in nursery? What age are the others? I take it she doesnt get a break all day?

ThroughThickAndThin01 · 16/06/2015 19:29

But maybe she thought she was spending time with him on a one to one, whilst watching the telly.

Why would she know your 4 year old has a dirty bum unless you tell her? It's not natural just to check us it, unless she knows to look out for it.

Nightboattocairo · 16/06/2015 19:26

Think you're making a mountain out of a molehill. Sun cream tomorrow, though.

FatherHenderson · 16/06/2015 19:26

I think you are overreacting.

Stealthpolarbear · 16/06/2015 19:25

But that's not he point the op made specific requests which were ignored

VanitasVanitatum · 16/06/2015 19:24

Talk to her!! No point in raging, this is a job and she is your employee, so just sit her down and review her performance to date.

younggifted · 16/06/2015 19:23

One hour in front of the telly out of how many hours...?

PattiODoors · 16/06/2015 19:21

Bottom wiping I would expect a child to be mastering during the last term before starting reception

Sunburn is avoidable, the children do need protection

An hour of telly, praps kiddo didn't fancy books; no biggie

So - children in long sleeve tops hats and suncream to hand tomorrow

The other stuff, meh

Stealthpolarbear · 16/06/2015 19:21

Hoe long has she been with you? Just days?

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