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what to ask referee for a nanny?

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Fridayschild · 26/05/2015 21:37

I think we have found someone to cover DNanny's maternity leave, and we have a phone number for the referee. Any idea what on earth to ask her? It is a while since I did this...

Children are now aged 12, 10 and 9 which makes me feel better - able to say what they think if things go horribly wrong, assuming they are prepared to say anything.

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MrsFogi · 27/05/2015 21:09

I think you have to listen out for what's not being said and then try to ask specific questions to try and find out what's in those gaps.
I think the question about whether or not the person would hire her again is very important. I'd also ask about how much the nanny used their phone/texts/used internet during working hours (and, in particular, when the child was around). If they've worked for a long time for the last employer I'd ask about what slipped over the years (sometime shows the nanny's weaknesses or where they may try to cut corners over time).

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Fridayschild · 27/05/2015 07:47

Thanks you!

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MrsLeighHalfpenny · 26/05/2015 22:42

What's important to you in a nanny, then ask if she has these qualities.

For me it would be flexibility, and the ability to keep order whilst still being fun.
You could ask about sickness record

Karoleann · 26/05/2015 22:35

On top of the other suggestions.

What were her strengths and her weaknesses

I also check the referees name/address and number against 192.com.

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Fridayschild · 26/05/2015 21:51

ooh these are good, thank you. Any more for any more?

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electionfatigue · 26/05/2015 21:43

Why did she leave
Would you hire her again
How much sick pay did she take
Anything they wished they'd known at the start
Ability to handle a kitty appropriately if needed
Driving safety if appropriate
Any little niggles that you should look out for

nannynick · 26/05/2015 21:43

Are they a good timekeeper, reliable.
Any particular things they did really well.

Did they have to cope with any tricky situations, how did it go?