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Live in nanny with horses

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AuntieDee · 19/02/2015 15:44

I have a lovely little place with land and stables and I have just found out I am pregnant. I am considering employing a live-in nanny but am wondering if there are any out there who would be interested in a horsey lifestyle. Basically the 'deal' would be free board for their horse in exchange for some help with mine, or for the horseless, the opportunity to ride my horses. Plus of course looking after the small person.

Obviously it will be a long way off - I'm planning on taking 12 months off, but I am definitely one who likes to plan ahead.

Does anyone know where I can start looking??

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AuntieDee · 05/03/2015 16:18

I will be looking in the future but I am only 9 weeks pregnant so it will be a while yet... I think I got a bit panicky and caught up in the moment when I found out

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helenkris · 05/03/2015 15:29

Are you still looking for someone for your family? :)

Ebb · 21/02/2015 09:01

OK, I'm ready to start whenever you need me! Grin might need a spare stable to lock my kids in while I'm out hacking!

nannynannynannynanny · 21/02/2015 08:55

Beautiful views!

AuntieDee · 21/02/2015 08:16

Thanks for all the positivity and sharing your experience. I'm increasingly thinking it might be a good idea.

I'm off to have a look at some of the sites listed to get an idea of how common this sort of vacancy might be...

For anyone interested this is the view of the stables and hacking that I have on my doorstep. I love my life and cannot wait to share it with a small person!

Live in nanny with horses
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NannyC123 · 20/02/2015 22:07

This would be my dream job!
I'm sure you will be able to find a suitable nanny if you were offering free livery in return for yard jobs or if they were able to ride your horse in return for doing yard duties. I would also recommend trying Yard and Groom and Horse and Hound.
Congratulations on your pregnancy and hope it all works out well!

nannynannynannynanny · 20/02/2015 11:42

This sounds like an ideal job. My first nanny job had stables which they rented out to a lady with 3 horses. It was nothing to do with me but I got friendly with the lady (as she was in the garden every day!) and I ended up helping her muck out etc when she was away/ill/wanted company etc. I didn't have a clue about horses until then other than that I loved them, but it wasn't exactly difficult to learn how to scoop up a bit of poo and walk the horses to the field ;)
so although I'm not 'horsey' I would love another job that had horses I could help out with. Probably wouldn't ride them though.

Ebb · 20/02/2015 10:49

I got my first nanny job via Horse and Hound. I didn't do the horses but they wanted a country nanny who was happy around horses as the child had ponies. I had plenty of horses to ride and they eventually bought me my own. When I moved on I went for two interviews where they had land and stables and were happy for me to bring my horse. However I opted to put my horse in full livery mainly due to working long hours and the family travelled a bit so would have needed care for dhorse anyway.

I'd suggest focusing on the nanny element first especially with a baby but I'm sure you'll find some one though who would love this job.

Booboostoo · 20/02/2015 08:25

Sorry but I would not advise that. You risk getting someone who relies on you for their horses rather than the other way round, or someone who is messy or whatever and then you have to get rid of a livery.

StarCrash · 20/02/2015 07:40

You could also try advertising on your horse group on fb, will get lots of local interest. If you can't find a nanny you could always just offer free livery in exchange for dealing with your horses, im sure you'd get loads of offers! Then a separate nanny.

Booboostoo · 20/02/2015 05:58

Yard and groom is where you want to advertise. The Lady is pointless for nanny/grooms and Nags and Nannies promise a lot and deliver little.

We advertised for a nanny/groom and got over 60 replies. Some were pointless, but most were reasonable applicants. We ended up with 5 people we interviewed on Skype, one person was invited for a paid trial week and she started a few weeks later (we live in the south of France). She is wonderful and has been with us for over a year now and will stay long term.

The most important thing is to clarify what you want from the person so that they can decide whether they are a good fit for the job. I am SAHM but do a bit of work from home if I have time. We have two DCs, four horses, two dogs and two cats - between us our nanny/groom and I look after everyone. For example, if the baby is having a grumpy day I keep him and cook while nanny rides the horses, if the baby is asleep nanny takes him for a walk with the dog and I ride, etc. Each day is different. We also work very closely so it is important to hire someone you think you can get along with at a personal level.

fjalladis · 20/02/2015 04:56

This would be my ideal job only I've got a dog and 4 horses!!! Good luck in finding someone op ??

AuntieDee · 19/02/2015 16:57

All I can say is OMG! That's a bit of a cheek! My sister gets paid £600 a week live in...

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nannyafrica · 19/02/2015 16:56

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Want2bSupermum · 19/02/2015 16:48

I think it is a perk you can use to attract someone but it isn't something I would include as part of the payment.

NeedABumChange · 19/02/2015 16:44

You could try yard and groom. It's a website for horsey jobs. You get lots of horsey nannies Grin

IAmAPaleontologist · 19/02/2015 16:41

Clearly you need our interviewee Grin.

We offered her the job actually but she rejected us because she didn't feel comfortable caring for children as old as ours. I reckon a 1 year old and a few horses would be heavenly for her. Except she is live out and local to me in the NE.

AuntieDee · 19/02/2015 16:39

Can anyone provide a link to that thread - would love to know what to avoid...

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AuntieDee · 19/02/2015 16:39

Ideally I would be looking for a groom/nanny but I will only be working part time so it wouldn't be a horrendous number of hours/work.

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AuntieDee · 19/02/2015 16:37

My sister is a nanny and has always been treated fairly, so I guess I've never seen the other side of it. She hates horses though and doesn't know anyone who does :(

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IAmAPaleontologist · 19/02/2015 16:35

I think once you start looking then the livery might be a nice added extra if you find the right candidate but if you restrict your search to country/horsey type places then you might miss the perfect candidate for your family.

That said one of the potential nannies we interviewed had horses and had in fact fallen into nannying after being a groom/stablehand for a family so I suppose the potential is there to find someone who could help you out with both horses and children but I expect the pool of candidates would be rather small!

Littlefish · 19/02/2015 16:35

The "yummy roast dinners" thread was the one I was thinking of, Thingummy.

ThingummyJigg · 19/02/2015 16:29

AuntieDee you'd be surprised at how many people think that way - there's been a thread on here about it only this week. Someone on gumtree thinking that roast dinners, a naice bedroom and free wifi was fair pay for a 20+ hour working week.

Anyway, yes you might find a nanny who loves horses, has one, or doesn't care about them but is happy to work for you because s/he likes the countryside. If the nanny has a horse of course it's a great opportunity and worth mentioning when you advertise.

Vajazzler · 19/02/2015 16:27

AuntieDee you'd be surprised exactly what some nanny employers expect from their nannys!