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Advice please! Considering swapping from love out nanny to live in au pair

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JugglingChaotically · 28/10/2014 17:50

Bit of a scary step but full time nanny is silly with 3 at full time school and financial pressures mean we need to make the move so-
3DDs. Older 2 pretty independent at 14 and 16, youngest (7) at school 1 mile (15 mins) walk away 830am to 4pm. Dog too!
Would an au pair plus be ok?
DH does drop offs some mornings and would like continue to do some when he can. We both work full time.
Duties
730 to 1030 - help with morning routine, walk to school with dog (dog walk only if DH dropping DD) then tidy up, pop laundry in. Take in grocery delivery, children's ironing, occasional Hoover/dust.

Optional dog walk during day if wished, occasional errands pick up parcels, drop dry cleaning (can be on way to school)

330pm to 630pm - school pick up with dog, homework, play dates, take to sports etc, supper for youngest. One of us home by 630pm.

More time in hols but paid extra. Older girls v helpful and sports camps parental hols too.

Not sure what to offer?

West london so will include Oyster card at least for buses and mobile phone on full contract.

Driver helpful but not essential.

Good sized own room plus en suite shower room.

Also can't start till February/March as work ongoing in house and need things to be calmer first - so when should I advertise or look , agency and where?

Advice from experienced au pair families - and au pairs - would be appreciated!

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JugglingChaotically · 28/10/2014 19:17

Wow. Hadn't realised I'd have to start the process so soon. I guess Christmas will take out some time too.
We are zone 4 and bus pass will be around £80 a month. The phone will have 3G. And wifi and TV in room.
Not sure what else to do.
Local college does lots of EFL courses.
Maybe 50% more for London. £135 a week?

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Messygirl · 28/10/2014 18:14

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JugglingChaotically · 28/10/2014 18:07

Thanks, Madrigals.
How soon would you look for a Feb/March start?
Would like it to be earlier but not sure re builders schedule (or lack of!).
Also what would be reasonable pay?

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JugglingChaotically · 28/10/2014 18:05

Oops!

A lovely smiley nanny but def live out!

iPhone keeps wanting to swap to "love" or "lice"....

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Tapestry12 · 28/10/2014 18:00

Just chuckling at thought of a 'love out nanny'.

There are quite a few threads over the past few days that can answer all your questions.

Still chuckling.