Our DS is 2.7 yo. We'd like to drop his lunchtime nap (currently an hour) because when he has it he doesn't go to sleep at night before 9.30 / 10pm. My DH and I both work and TBH we'd prefer bedtime to be a little earlier, especially on weekdays. DS's nanny isn't keen. I understand her point of view - who wouldn't want their charge to nap during the day, especially if you aren't around at bedtime to deal with the consequences! - but I can't help thinking it's not good for us or DS to be going to bed so late. He manages fine without a nap with us on the weekend by the way - but then if he really needs sleep he does doze off in his buggy or in the car, which is no good for our nanny, who likes to have a break in the middle of the day at home. Are there any nannies out there or parents with experience of a similar situation who can advise? Thanks in advance.