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Non medical but worrying day off that I can't cover wwyd ?

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AngelaChill · 02/09/2006 22:33

My CM has found a lump in her breast which obviously she's worried sick about and has booked herself an appointment at a private hospital for Tuesday, she's told me this, not asked if it's ok iyswim. Now I know i'd be worried to death about finding a lump but I really cannot take this time off and DH would be unpaid which we can't afford. I don't want to sound like a heartless cow but she had Friday off at short notice for an uncles funeral and now this, would it be completely awful to ask her to rebook for Wednesday ?

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AngelaChill · 06/09/2006 18:04

I'm not trying to get maintance - my ex has never missed a payment - he's a nice guy.

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AngelaChill · 06/09/2006 18:03

Yes the similar situation of recieving matience - not asking for more - talk about twisting words

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AvaLou · 06/09/2006 18:01

By AngelaChill on Monday, 21 August, 2006 10:01:01 PM
I am in a similar situation, I agreed to $500 a month when DD was born and I now am pretty sure he earns an awful lot of money and could afford more.
However DD is not starving and I know lots of people who are entitled to maintence and indeed have court orders for it and don't receive a penny, so I kind of feel I should be happy to get anything at all.
I know what answer I would get if I asked for more, I guess only you know how he'll react.

HappyMumof2 · 06/09/2006 18:00

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AngelaChill · 06/09/2006 17:59

And no happy I had not given her her notice then, I was thinking about it and the funeral would have fallen within the notice period hence the question.

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MrsFio · 06/09/2006 17:59
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Greensleeves · 06/09/2006 17:58

Don't get too used to it Fio

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AngelaChill · 06/09/2006 17:57

AVA LOU you did not see me trying to get more money out of my ex at all that is complete bull shit, I was giving advice not to rock the boat to another poster who wanted more money, get your facts straight

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MrsFio · 06/09/2006 17:56

greensleeves we agree on something

Greensleeves · 06/09/2006 17:55

I think it might be a namechanger as well.

MrsFio · 06/09/2006 17:48

I think MN needs to check who this is because I very much think it is a namechanger actually

and batters you made me LOL

HappyMumof2 · 06/09/2006 17:44

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AvaLou · 06/09/2006 17:43

It is sad, and fairly disturbing tbh.

I thought trolls would just be ones who post abuse or some random anal sex etc question then leave, not come back and post repeatedly.

looneytune · 06/09/2006 17:40

That is so funny and so very sad, she obviously has no life.

What annoys me though is she's used a subject close to some people's hearts and was so cold about the whole thing. She needs bloody locking up!!!

HappyMumof2 · 06/09/2006 17:39

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AvaLou · 06/09/2006 17:34

Nasty and blatantly lying, she says she has a dh who earns massive £x but I saw her post about her struggle as a single mother to get a pitiful maintenance cheque.

Plus all the rest.
It's fun though, I wonder how long she will keep posting and pretending, and changing the story.

HappyMumof2 · 06/09/2006 16:39

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noddyholder · 06/09/2006 16:37

If not a troll one of the nastiest people ever to grace this site.

looneytune · 06/09/2006 16:29

That does it, she deffo a TROll either that or CM was doing whatever should could to get out of looking after her child as she's totally barking!!!

You sad, sad attention seeker you!!!

HappyMumof2 · 06/09/2006 16:27

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emsiewill · 06/09/2006 16:23

WTF?

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AngelaChill · 06/09/2006 16:19

Avalou - you know that crossed my mind too - i think she just wanted the day off to play golf, cost her her job though.

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AngelaChill · 06/09/2006 16:19

Avalou - you know that crossed my mind too - i think she just wanted the day off to play golf, cost her her job though.

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HappyMumof2 · 06/09/2006 13:16

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trinityrhino · 06/09/2006 13:11

ooops only read the first half of the thread before I posted but now it seem like a troll, weird one though