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HELP ME CHOOSE A NANNY!

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balancingact · 21/08/2006 13:14

Hi Everyone,
Advice needed....looking at hiring a new nanny as current one has given notice...there is 2 really in the running so far (am meeting two more tomorrow but thought i'd get some initial thoughts now)....the position is live-in, sole charge
Nanny 1. Really liked her - warmed to her immediately. Currently looking after 2 kids same age as mine. Does not have NNEB but did degree in Childhood studies and has CRB check and current first aid. She looks like she's going to be quite flexible and fun. However, she will only be taking her driver's exam first week of Sept - she looks to be pretty confident. I need her to drive my eldest to nursery - we live in london - it is a short drive - like 5-10 mins - but even if she were to pass, i'm not sure how worried i should be.... Anyway, apart from that, i really liked her, added bonus that i found her on my own so no agency fees.
Nanny 2. NNEB, driver, and seems to be very qualified and unflappable. i didn't warm to her as instantly as i did with nanny #1 but i did warm to her a bit more as the conversation continued. She seemed a bit more introverted - like when i asked her if she had any questions for me, she said not really. She has good references, one was with a family of nearly 6 years. She will probably be more expensive than nanny #1 by about £30-40 per week (net,so probably £60-70 after taxes and NI), and also i will have to pay nearly £2000 in agency fees as she was put forward by an agency. I'm trying not to make money the biggest issue, but i would like to see views of other mums re nanny #1. or if you would ignore her completely as she will be a new-ish driver.

Sorry to ramble, doing my head in!

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Uwila · 21/08/2006 13:52

Of course we don't mind! We are here to help (especially since work is currently about as exciting as watching paint dry)

Hiya Jura

Jura made a good point. If you live in London, why is it necessary to drive to get to school? I have a 3 and 1 year old. And, come October, nanny will be taking the 3 yr old to preschool on the bus with 1 year old in tow.

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balancingact · 21/08/2006 13:45

Thanks for your responses and I'm relieved i'm not mad for considering nanny 1. (I was worried i would have other mums tut-tut-ing saying, i can't believe you would consider a new driver etc!) if you don't mind, i'll keep you posted with the other 2 nannies i am seeing tomorrow - both agency girls - gad, i can't believe how much they charge for emailing me a CV! (well, i know they do more than that, but my word they are expensive!)

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Uwila · 21/08/2006 13:29

I would go with nanny one. The new driver thing is a bit of a worry -- but only a bit. The fact that you warmed to her straight away is a much bigger plus than new driver is a negative. But, you might want to ring your insurance and find out how much a new driver costs before you chalk her up as being more economical.

Also, I would not be very keen on someone who didn't have any questions. I remember when I was interviewing our current nanny and when we got round to talking references she said "right, can I have some references on you from your former nannies". My first reactions was you want what? But, then I thought this girl is on ball. She is coming to a new country to live with people she has never met and of course she wants to know what we are like. So.... a nanny who doesn't have any questions is: 1- not really interested. 2- so desperate for a job she'll take anything 3- nervous. Of course is she's nervous it's understandable. But,I personally, much prefer the cheery confident type of nanny.

Oh, and we all know what I think of agencies. £2000?!?! Blimey!