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I'm so fed up and on the verge of giving notice for the first time :(

28 replies

EverySingleWeek · 21/11/2013 19:09

Around this time, every single week, I get a message from a parent which sends my bp through the roof. It's always a negative text, often complaining about the care the dc's have received.

The dc's bad behaviour is always excused and other factors are blamed.

Last week's text made me very cross because the mindee had told three different lies which could have got three different children into trouble but could have been totally avoided had it been discussed in person rather than via text or if the mother had taken a bit of time to think about what her dc had told her.

I feel like I'm always on the defensive and dread the days they come to me because I know there'll be some issue at the end of their week with me.

I've never given notice before but know plenty who have and for far less.

Very fed up Sad

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EverySingleWeek · 21/11/2013 19:15

I just don't know how to do it. Do I tell the truth or at least a milder version of it? My softer side knows she is just trying her best to parent her dcs and work but my not-so-soft side wants to tell her to get a grip and open her eyes to her dcs behaviour.

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gintastic · 21/11/2013 19:12

I would just tell her that she would obviously prefer her children to be in the care of someone else, and to facilitate this you are giving her 4 weeks (or whatever your contract says) notice. I make sure always to discuss things in person with CM and preschool, it is far too easy for emails and texts to be misconstrued. The only texting I do is "help am stuck in traffic on A40 be there ASAP many apologies". Or similar.

MollyMatey · 21/11/2013 19:11

Unless you need the money, definitely give notice.