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What's fair to pay for 2 children's dinners?

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curryeater · 05/02/2013 21:17

My two dcs, nearly 2 and nearly 4, go to a CM full time. She gives them lunch, which we agreed at the beginning, but now she has suggested giving them dinner too because her own kids get hungry when she delays their dinner so mine have gone before they eat. (Mine are gone by 5.30 - we are not making them wait till 8pm or anything)
This would be quite convenient but the horrible truth is that we are so, so financially stretched that I don't want to over-pay for this. I can't say yes without offering to pay, obviously; but on the other hand, we are cutting expenses left, right and centre and employing someone to make meals for my children wasn't high on my list of priorities when we can do it ourselves and be eating by 6 or soon after (which they are fine with).
(Also I don't know what they eat, but let's assume for the sake of argument that it is fine, I can find out)
What do you think I should offer to pay for 2 dcs dinners 5 times a week? I think they have normal appetites for their ages, if that makes a difference, have no allergies and are not fussy eaters.

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curryeater · 05/02/2013 21:26

thanks, apotomak. How old are the mindees you cook for?

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apotomak · 05/02/2013 21:21

My local schools charge £2 for school dinners ... I cook for mindees (sometimes as many as 10) and that's roughly what the ingredients cost me to make it (i.e. 2x10=£20). My dinner is made from scratch and they get a pudding as well. I do not charge parents - I put it through my expenses instead. I think £2 is a fair cost but talk to your childminder ... her meals may be cheaper than mine.

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