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Sorry Mrs Judgeypants - look away! Its confessions of a childminder

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fivesacrowd · 21/12/2012 09:38

I've been a cm for a couple of years and have had some fantastic advice from this forum (thanks esp to Mr Anchovy and NannyNick), but I was looking at some posts the other day about tv watching and thinking that in my early days I was so stressed out every day and I'm sure it wasn't helped by the "mrs judgepants" posters on here.
So, in the spirit of christmas I confess -
I sometimes let mindees watch a bit of TV, not that much and usually related to something else we're doing (although I'm not sure I'll get away with many more pirate activities so that they can all watch Jake)
I sometimes leave children asleep in the buggy outside - wrapped up against the weather in my secure garden and I'm always within sight
Sometimes I don't have my day planned and have to wing it.
Sometimes snack isn't hugely healthy - usually because we've made fairy cakes (hides head in shame at the time we made hedgehog cakes and all six mindees were covered in chocolate butter icing)
Despite all this, my mindees love me, the parents all rate me as brilliant and the Care Insp gave me an excellent - so there mrs judgepants!
Go on cm - get those confessions off your chest, you'll feel so much better for it. Xmas Grin

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wednesdaygirl · 21/12/2012 10:22

Boys not banned from tv they just dont watch it Grin
I have wierd children they dont like chips eirther Grin

RudolphsNoseInMyXmasStocking · 21/12/2012 10:20

I think my childminder was like this - and I didnt care at all lol. Like someone has said, it's all about the home -from-home experience as far as I was concerned, and if that sometimes meant an afternoon on the sofa watching a dvd with cm and other mindees, that was fine by me Smile He also got to do visits to 'Grandma' - totally part of the cm's family and activities. She was brilliant and Im quite sad he had to start school!

fivesacrowd · 21/12/2012 10:18

I'm not worried now, but it can be a very isolated job and when you go on here looking for advice and are beaten down with childcare professionals should -never have tv on, only feed children seeds and home organically grown fruit and veg and have no furniture in their playrooms in case a child sustains an injury - you start to think you're a rubbish cm even if you've raised children of your own who have managed to survive despite your "rubbish" childcare practices!
I took a mindee to a cafe the other day so that I could feed baby mindee and let older one choose a packet of crisps for snack!

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Hoppingforsun · 21/12/2012 10:08

I know a cm who never ever (literally ever) has the tv off. The children love her and the parents rate her as brilliant.

wednesday girl why do you have 5 tvs if you don't watch it? Or do you and your DP watch at night whilst your teenagers are banned? Confused

AnnIonicIsoTronic · 21/12/2012 10:04
Grin
HSMM · 21/12/2012 10:02

I'm not worried about it, but some people would be Grin.

wednesdaygirl · 21/12/2012 09:55

Were having a sweet and cake party today 2-3 and all parents have brought in cakes and sweets Grin got 11 children so gonna be busy

Mine dont watch tv (even my own children aged 15 and 16 have not watch tv for a few years now) we have 5 tv's in our house Confused but today the pre-schoolers are watching a dvd while im on mumsnet Wink

Tanith · 21/12/2012 09:55

My mindees are allowed to cuddle the guinea pigs Shock

without gloves, face shields and specially adapted contamination overalls ShockShock

CanIHaveAPetGiraffePlease · 21/12/2012 09:48

Sounds great. Are you genuinely worried? Love the idea of cleaning the car - my daughter would have loved that and I could imagine her coming home all excited about it! Variety is good.

HSMM · 21/12/2012 09:43

I gave my mindees chocolate at the Christmas party and sometimes they help me clean the car in the summer. I also let my very sharp toothed rabbit into the play room with them sometimes.

ScarfHatSunglasses · 21/12/2012 09:41

Aw I'm not a childminder but I would love to find one like you. I think the purpose of this kind of childcare is to provide a home-from-home environment that is full of fun. It sounds like yours is!