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Childminder using her motherly instinct

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MUM2BLESS · 16/11/2012 14:03

I childmind seven children. I am NOT trying to be their mum, as no one can take mums place.

What do you deal with yourself and what do you let the parents deal with?

Over my time as a cm I have had to step back and let the parents deal with things such as challenging behaviour, homework not being done, coat not being brought to mine, parents not remembering its non unform (dealing with the crying)

I have look after the children with great care but sometimes I have gone from cm to taking on extra things.

How do you ensure you stay balance?

Three of the children are the same age as as my youngest, therfore I know what is taking place at school.

What are your views on this?

At the end of the day I am a mother myself.

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anothercuppaplease · 16/11/2012 14:36

haha just thinking about that yesterday. One of my mindees' parents are going through a rough time (some home improvements making their house a complete mess, parents short of money, completely stressed out, etc) so I always remind the mum of school activities for the coming weeks, I print out the school newsletter for her, I even 'created' a spotty tshirt with the little girl yesterday so that she could wear it today for pudsy bear day at school I knew her parents wouldn't have time to think of anything. I don't mind at all, what I don't want to be doing is making parental choices for the family. For example, if a family asks me to stick to a routine, I do my best to do it. But if parents under-dress their child I have a box of spare hats, coat, welly boots etc for them.

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