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Nannies -if your ill during working day what do you do?

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DillyDallyDayDream · 07/11/2012 18:54

It seems that yesterday afternoon I came down with a stomach bug and was sick 2 times whilst at work. After being sick the 1st time I rang Mum boss to explain that I was unwell and could she possibly ask her Mum to come take over from me so I dont spread the illness to the children (liklihood is i already had). She stated no she was at work I had to stay for the rest of my working hours which was 4hours. Then she was half hour late with warning.

Was i unreasonable to suggest what I did?
What do you do if you become ill during your working day?

Thanks

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forevergreek · 07/11/2012 20:55

I would drop at friends or snuggle down on the sofa with tv ( my charges never have tv so I think I could pass a few hours that way if needed)

I would call employers and mine would try and leave as early as possible ( def not be late!) and would work from home.

But I many neighbours are close friends so I could probably split up and drop a child a a couple of different people ( so they ended up with one extra instead of 3)

Being a nanny is different from a parent. A parent can snuggle into bed with kids with them and dose. A nanny is expected to entertain, bake cookies, and get homework done. If I am ill, as an employee it's in my rights to take time off ( have taken half a day in 6 years, and that was only after I dragged myself in feeling rotten and then felt too dizzy to safely look after babies), so I would hope they would understand that I really was sick

mogandme · 07/11/2012 20:03

I understand that Knackered - My boss is a single parent with no local links to the area other than work so I know she would struggle if I couldn't do my job however I work with her to ensure that if this happens that it all works out. However for the flexibility I give and the way I work hard to ensure it all works seamlessly I do expect my boss to come home if possible and wouldn't be impressed with the situation Dilly was in - no backup and boss coming in late.

knackeredmother · 07/11/2012 19:56

As a parent it would be near on impossible for me to come but I would try to ask a neighbour/friend. However, the reason I pay the vast proportion of my salary to my nanny is because I simply very little backup, my nanny is my backup.
It's very difficult.

PhyllisDoris · 07/11/2012 19:52

I don't know what the answer is, but I know you can't just walk out of work. Best to arrange contingency probably.

AndBingoWasHisNameOh · 07/11/2012 19:49

If you put it as "so I don't infect the kids" then she may have thought you were giving her the option. If you said "I feel awful and really need to go home" that would be a but different.

mogandme · 07/11/2012 19:45

Agree with the welove - Phyliss if it had been their child who had been sick at another childcare provider then they would have had to leave or have a contngency plan in place. My MB has a contingancy plan for when I call in sick etc so know that she would some how cobble it together. I am an employee and if I was sick in an office/factory/shop I would go home so why wouldn't I as a nanny?

PhyllisDoris · 07/11/2012 19:45

Regardless, people can't just walk out if work. If you have a job, it's assumed you have adequate child care - you can't just leave.

mogandme · 07/11/2012 19:43

Dilly - why did she say No to Grandma taking over?

Welovecouscous · 07/11/2012 19:42

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PhyllisDoris · 07/11/2012 19:38

People can't just walk out if work! But if you really feel that you might ever suddenly feel too ill to look after the children again, at such short notice I suggest you discuss a contingency plan with the mother. But bear in mind that parents who are ill have to carry on looking after the kids, so it's not impossible.

cathpip · 07/11/2012 19:34

Well lets just hope that the headteacher tells her no she cant go home sick when she throws up twice............

fraktion · 07/11/2012 19:29

I would have sought permission to find an emergency playdate with a another nanny/charge's friend.

Extremely poor IMO. I hope you'll be observing the 48 hour rule now.

Blondeshavemorefun · 07/11/2012 19:28

Tbh I'm rarely ill so if felt under the weather then would have a sofa and tv day

Throwing up is different - I would call my Mb or db but also know that they may not be able to just come home and also likely to be 1.5/2hrs with travel etc

I would probably call a nanny friend who knew my charges and see if she could have them if felt so ill that I couldn't carry on

OP - your Mb sounds horrible / understand that maybe she can't come home but if her mum was free then that's a solution but to do nothing and be late home is just taking the piss :(

mogandme · 07/11/2012 19:22

If my boss could come home she would however as she is often away/uncontactable I have 2 contingency plans 1) Im live in so go to bed and DC (aged just 5 watches dvd/plays etc) 2) Friends would have him either mum friends or nanny network.

Welovecouscous · 07/11/2012 19:05

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DillyDallyDayDream · 07/11/2012 19:04

She's a deputy headteacher and had 'important' meetings.

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