I recently returned back to work after my 2nd DD. We have not had an easy time sorting out a nanny. Our initial nanny didn't have any paperwork so we didn't ask her to start. We found someone else but she resigned after 2 weeks because she didn't want to do the childrens washing(!) - she was lovely and cuddley with the girls and both of them dd1 - aged 3 and dd2 almost 1 seemed to really like her.
We have found someone else who my husband and I really like (she stayed with her previous family for 5 years, and we really liked that as we'd like the same level of continuity) but she is a lot stricter than the previous nanny, and my eldest is now whispering to me as soon as she sees her " I don't like x, she can't come to my party" and she demands that either my husband or I take her to nursery and has a screaming fit if we leave her with the nanny. I should also mention its only week 2 of new nanny.
What should I do? Is this just teething problems or should we consider getting another nanny?