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2 year old still on soft foods.

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mumo3g · 09/03/2012 20:02

We have a child where her mum provides her food. Now we have offered to provide food for her but mum has refused this. (at no extra charge) She is still on watery or soft foods. Not alot is there to chew on.

The child has been refusing to eat here and we put on the tv (not something we would normally do and don't like doing) and she opened her mouth and ate.

Now speaking with her mum she tells me that she feeds her. We have tried to encourage the child to feed herself but because it is soft or runny she has to be helped still. She gives up after a little while. It must be a fustraition for her.

I've asked mum if she could introduce finger foods. Things that she can feed herself with. Mum says she has breadsticks, apple and biscuits but nothing else.

Surely feeding her when there isn't nothing wrong for her is some sort of neglect? (not that I would say that to mum) The child isn't malnurished or anything but she is being taught to be lazy. She treats her like a doll!

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mumo3g · 09/03/2012 20:12

oh no no. Mum only wants to provide the food. As it is we can only give her yoghurt, apple and bannana. If we introduce anything else mum doesn't like it. Even if she turns her nose up on the yoghurt etc we are not to give her anything else. Even if we gave a list to her.

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south345 · 09/03/2012 20:05

Could you have a food theme and get permission to let them try different foods then make a list for mum saying which she enjoyed most? Might just encourage her to try them at home?

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