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"a rather worrying trend of births to [older] women"

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TheFourYearOldDrankAllTheMilk · 11/09/2025 05:10

So say "experts" quoted by the Guardian.

https://www.theguardian.com/society/2025/sep/11/more-than-half-of-uk-births-now-involve-medical-intervention-audit-finds

What a crock of nonsense. Women have been having babies into their forties since God was a lad. That there are more interventions is down to doctors getting involved where a midwife wouldn't.

Just to give myself as an example. So far this pregnancy I've been told I am high risk because I have

Rhumatoid arthritis (I don't and never have, so that came as a surprise)
Had a small baby (previous kid was 7lb 7)
High blood pressure (BP is consistently 117/75 or thereabouts)
Liver disease (news to me)
Obesity (bmi of 30.3. Not exactly in the Roly Polies, to be fair)

And that I am old. I'm 41.

I live in an area with no midwife-led unit within a sensible distance (it was closed down; I understand it failed some inspections) so there will be doctors nearby when I give birth, and I'm not a hippy so if I do require intervention I will accept it, but they have been trying to book me in for an induction since I was barely mid-way through this pregnancy.

I am immensely grateful that the doctors are keeping an eye on me, but honestly it has taken some sorting out of all of the mistakes on my record.

Now, to read an article that lazily quotes "experts" and informs the public that British mothers are struggling with an unassisted, vaginal birth because they are old and fat is a slap in the face. Perhaps what they ought to be doing is writing articles encouraging women to empower themselves against intervention, like extolling the virtues of practices such as perineal preparation. [Buy an Epi-no, ladies, do it!]

I won't even comment on the fact that the journalist, described as their health policy editor, no less, feels the need to clarify that a caesarean section is a birth "in which the baby is delivered during an operation". OK, yes I will. Who exactly has this article been written for, four year olds‽

Already women in the west are pushed towards delaying or not having children, largely because of the need to establish a career to pay for the massive jump in house prices compared to even as recently as the 1990s. Let's make them feel even more shit about themselves if they dare to have a child over the age of 40.

Please do better, The Guardian.

More than half of UK births now involve medical intervention, audit finds

Caesareans drive rise in assisted deliveries as experts warn of complex pregnancies linked to age, obesity and other conditions

https://www.theguardian.com/society/2025/sep/11/more-than-half-of-uk-births-now-involve-medical-intervention-audit-finds

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EarlGreywithLemon · 18/09/2025 20:55

Nimnuan · 17/09/2025 15:19

@EarlGreywithLemon

I'm saying this based an a large meta-analysis published in the Lancet recently.

It included approximately half a million intended home births.
It's comparing low risk with low risk, the home birth cohort is not healthier, the numbers are not skewed.
If you transfer, it counts as a home birth.

Link below if you're interested.

www.thelancet.com/journals/eclinm/article/PIIS2589-5370(19)30119-1/fulltext

Interesting study, thank you. It’s still not something I would ever consider, but that’s me and we’re all different. And I’m also lucky to live near a hospital with a good maternity unit, which I appreciate isn’t the case for many.

Nimnuan · 17/09/2025 15:19

EarlGreywithLemon · 17/09/2025 15:01

@Nimnuan I see your point, but personally I wouldn’t go anywhere near a home birth no matter how healthy and uncomplicated the pregnancy. I understand that the chances of things going wrong are, in absolute terms, low. But the consequences can be disastrous if they do go wrong and there isn’t the proper medical assistance available. And when they go wrong, they can go very wrong, very fast. Deprivation of oxygen for the baby would be by far my biggest concern, followed by the risk of PPH. On the latter I speak as someone who lost 2.9 of blood very very fast. There’s no way you can get someone to hospital that quickly.

Re the safety of home births - the numbers are skewed from the start by the fact that it’s a healthier cohort with uncomplicated pregnancies vs the hospital cohort. Also, I’m not sure if the stats compare apples to apples. If someone started off as a home birth and was then transferred to the hospital, does that count as a home or hospital birth?

@EarlGreywithLemon

I'm saying this based an a large meta-analysis published in the Lancet recently.

It included approximately half a million intended home births.
It's comparing low risk with low risk, the home birth cohort is not healthier, the numbers are not skewed.
If you transfer, it counts as a home birth.

Link below if you're interested.

www.thelancet.com/journals/eclinm/article/PIIS2589-5370(19)30119-1/fulltext

EarlGreywithLemon · 17/09/2025 15:01

@Nimnuan I see your point, but personally I wouldn’t go anywhere near a home birth no matter how healthy and uncomplicated the pregnancy. I understand that the chances of things going wrong are, in absolute terms, low. But the consequences can be disastrous if they do go wrong and there isn’t the proper medical assistance available. And when they go wrong, they can go very wrong, very fast. Deprivation of oxygen for the baby would be by far my biggest concern, followed by the risk of PPH. On the latter I speak as someone who lost 2.9 of blood very very fast. There’s no way you can get someone to hospital that quickly.

Re the safety of home births - the numbers are skewed from the start by the fact that it’s a healthier cohort with uncomplicated pregnancies vs the hospital cohort. Also, I’m not sure if the stats compare apples to apples. If someone started off as a home birth and was then transferred to the hospital, does that count as a home or hospital birth?

Nimnuan · 17/09/2025 14:25

EarlGreywithLemon · 17/09/2025 13:52

Great detective work!

I also wonder the maternity scandals and the Ockenden report, followed by removing the C section target limit for the NHS had an impact on EMCS rates. If so, that’s also a good thing.

Previously, emergency c sections were denied in risky situations in which they really should have gone ahead in the name of a fixation with “natural birth” at all costs. We all know about some of the most horrific cases, in which mothers or babies died, or babies were disabled as a result. But on a lower level, I wonder how many traumatic births or birth injuries were caused by these unfortunate targets.

As an example, a friend who had had a very prolonged labour was first granted and then denied her repeated requests for a C section. She then had a 3b tear, with lasting effects, and her daughter was born not breathing and needed medical assistance. This was at a hospital that prides itself on its low rate of C sections. Our NCT teacher went on endlessly about that and about their amazing birth centre during our course. Meanwhile I had already chosen a different hospital because it had a high rate of sections. It may sound perverse, but it has an excellent maternity unit and I wanted to know that if I needed intervention I was going to get it, and quickly, irrespective of some pointless target.

Just on another note, a year or so ago my friend was in hospital with midwives and felt that her baby was stuck and labour wasn't progressing. She asked repeatedly for an EMCS and they just ignored her and told her to keep trying. This is after they broke her waters without even telling her, let alone getting her consent.
It's goes both ways, intervening when they shouldn't and not intervening when they should. The important thing is to respect and listen to women, always.

Meadowfinch · 17/09/2025 14:23

What a lot of nonsense. My dm had babies at 38, 42 and 44 in 1959, 1963 and1965. I had ds when I was 45, in 2008. My BMI prior to pregnancy was 21.5.

I had no complications throughout my pregnancy, no nausea, and worked full time until 36 weeks. Blood pressure was normal throughout. My midwife told me I had gestational diabetes (wrong), that baby was breach (wrong), that I'd need a section (wrong). She tried to pressure me into a sweep at 9am on my due date, which I refused.

If inductions have increased that's down to the hcps bullying, not mums asking.

In my case the midwife was hopeless and my GP was calmly competent.

I went into labour naturally at 40+4 went to hosp at 40+5 pm and ds was delivered at 7.50am 40+6. I required help (ventouse) at the very end, which took about 10 minutes including stitching me up afterwards.

So my need for care was an amniocentesis at the start, a ventouse delivery and being stitched, plus 2 days in a bed after ds was born. Once we left hospital we didn't need any help.

All my dm's deliveries involved her staying in hospital for a week.

Nimnuan · 17/09/2025 14:19

EarlGreywithLemon · 17/09/2025 13:52

Great detective work!

I also wonder the maternity scandals and the Ockenden report, followed by removing the C section target limit for the NHS had an impact on EMCS rates. If so, that’s also a good thing.

Previously, emergency c sections were denied in risky situations in which they really should have gone ahead in the name of a fixation with “natural birth” at all costs. We all know about some of the most horrific cases, in which mothers or babies died, or babies were disabled as a result. But on a lower level, I wonder how many traumatic births or birth injuries were caused by these unfortunate targets.

As an example, a friend who had had a very prolonged labour was first granted and then denied her repeated requests for a C section. She then had a 3b tear, with lasting effects, and her daughter was born not breathing and needed medical assistance. This was at a hospital that prides itself on its low rate of C sections. Our NCT teacher went on endlessly about that and about their amazing birth centre during our course. Meanwhile I had already chosen a different hospital because it had a high rate of sections. It may sound perverse, but it has an excellent maternity unit and I wanted to know that if I needed intervention I was going to get it, and quickly, irrespective of some pointless target.

Good point.
Personally, I think that we are both too quick and too slow to intervene. For example we're too quick to go to hospital with perfect healthy pregnancies and slightly elevated risk factors when it's been shown that home birth is safer. Then too slow to intervene when women raise concerns, pushing women to keep trying when they say they want an EMCS or telling them they've weed themselves or they're having normal pregnancy pain when actually their waters are breaking and they're going into early labour.
Obviously labour sometimes goes wrong but the idea that the majority of women need medical intervention to get thorough it safely is just crazy. I'm incredibly grateful that we have modern medicine to save us when we need it but unnecessary medical intervention causes harm.

OnTheRoof · 17/09/2025 14:03

EarlGreywithLemon · 17/09/2025 13:52

Great detective work!

I also wonder the maternity scandals and the Ockenden report, followed by removing the C section target limit for the NHS had an impact on EMCS rates. If so, that’s also a good thing.

Previously, emergency c sections were denied in risky situations in which they really should have gone ahead in the name of a fixation with “natural birth” at all costs. We all know about some of the most horrific cases, in which mothers or babies died, or babies were disabled as a result. But on a lower level, I wonder how many traumatic births or birth injuries were caused by these unfortunate targets.

As an example, a friend who had had a very prolonged labour was first granted and then denied her repeated requests for a C section. She then had a 3b tear, with lasting effects, and her daughter was born not breathing and needed medical assistance. This was at a hospital that prides itself on its low rate of C sections. Our NCT teacher went on endlessly about that and about their amazing birth centre during our course. Meanwhile I had already chosen a different hospital because it had a high rate of sections. It may sound perverse, but it has an excellent maternity unit and I wanted to know that if I needed intervention I was going to get it, and quickly, irrespective of some pointless target.

Makes sense.

EarlGreywithLemon · 17/09/2025 13:56

Sunflower3000 · 17/09/2025 12:21

The induction policy has changed since Ockenden, which will result in more c-sections as well. Although you can refuse, you are strongly pushed to have an induction from 41 weeks, and if the induction doesn’t work then you’ll end up with an emergency c-section. While there were good reasons for changing the induction policy, it’s had consequences.

That’s because of a study that showed a higher rate of stillbirths at 42 vs 41 weeks. The study was actually cut short because it was so clear, it would have been unethical to carry on with those who were in the 42 week group. I remember it well because my husband was reading about it when I was in labour with our daughter (pessary only induction, at 41 weeks, at my request).

EarlGreywithLemon · 17/09/2025 13:52

Nimnuan · 16/09/2025 22:04

Probably a small contributor and obviously that would be a good thing. I honestly doubt it's contributing very much though as the rate has gone from 25% of births by CS in 2015 (including emergency and planned) to 29% emergency and 13% planned in 2023.

According to this report I found the emergency/planned split for 2015 was 13% Vs 14% (27% total as opposed to 25% in the article because the report is for England only whereas the article includes Scotland and Wales). Therefore the increase is pretty much entirely due to emergency CS.

https://digital.nhs.uk/data-and-information/publications/statistical/nhs-maternity-statistics/2015-16#:~:text=The%20number%20of%20deliveries%20for,pdf%2C%20size:%20143.0%20kB%5D

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Great detective work!

I also wonder the maternity scandals and the Ockenden report, followed by removing the C section target limit for the NHS had an impact on EMCS rates. If so, that’s also a good thing.

Previously, emergency c sections were denied in risky situations in which they really should have gone ahead in the name of a fixation with “natural birth” at all costs. We all know about some of the most horrific cases, in which mothers or babies died, or babies were disabled as a result. But on a lower level, I wonder how many traumatic births or birth injuries were caused by these unfortunate targets.

As an example, a friend who had had a very prolonged labour was first granted and then denied her repeated requests for a C section. She then had a 3b tear, with lasting effects, and her daughter was born not breathing and needed medical assistance. This was at a hospital that prides itself on its low rate of C sections. Our NCT teacher went on endlessly about that and about their amazing birth centre during our course. Meanwhile I had already chosen a different hospital because it had a high rate of sections. It may sound perverse, but it has an excellent maternity unit and I wanted to know that if I needed intervention I was going to get it, and quickly, irrespective of some pointless target.

OnTheRoof · 17/09/2025 13:31

Nimnuan · 17/09/2025 12:27

As I've commented above, the ELCS rate doesn't seem to have changed much, if at all. The difference is mostly because of EMCS rates.
Agreed that if the change was due to women's choices that would be unequivocally positive.

Your comment above said it was a small contributor, which means like me you thought it had made some difference. I agree that the change is mostly due to greater EMCS rates, but that aspect of it is not what I was commenting on there.

Nimnuan · 17/09/2025 12:27

OnTheRoof · 17/09/2025 11:25

Yes, that's bound to have made a difference and is an unequivocal positive. The previous CS percentage excluded a cohort who would've wanted an ELCS, but for whatever reason couldn't successfully navigate the system well enough to get one.

As I've commented above, the ELCS rate doesn't seem to have changed much, if at all. The difference is mostly because of EMCS rates.
Agreed that if the change was due to women's choices that would be unequivocally positive.

Sunflower3000 · 17/09/2025 12:21

The induction policy has changed since Ockenden, which will result in more c-sections as well. Although you can refuse, you are strongly pushed to have an induction from 41 weeks, and if the induction doesn’t work then you’ll end up with an emergency c-section. While there were good reasons for changing the induction policy, it’s had consequences.

OnTheRoof · 17/09/2025 11:25

EarlGreywithLemon · 16/09/2025 21:24

Could this also be because NHS policy has changed and they can no longer refuse maternal request C sections? Which is surely a good thing.

Yes, that's bound to have made a difference and is an unequivocal positive. The previous CS percentage excluded a cohort who would've wanted an ELCS, but for whatever reason couldn't successfully navigate the system well enough to get one.

Nimnuan · 16/09/2025 22:04

Probably a small contributor and obviously that would be a good thing. I honestly doubt it's contributing very much though as the rate has gone from 25% of births by CS in 2015 (including emergency and planned) to 29% emergency and 13% planned in 2023.

According to this report I found the emergency/planned split for 2015 was 13% Vs 14% (27% total as opposed to 25% in the article because the report is for England only whereas the article includes Scotland and Wales). Therefore the increase is pretty much entirely due to emergency CS.

https://digital.nhs.uk/data-and-information/publications/statistical/nhs-maternity-statistics/2015-16#:~:text=The%20number%20of%20deliveries%20for,pdf%2C%20size:%20143.0%20kB%5D

EarlGreywithLemon · 16/09/2025 21:24

Nimnuan · 16/09/2025 20:40

This article made me so angry. A small increase due to mum's being a bit older/heavier? Maybe. 50% increase in C-section rates over less than a decade? No eff-ing way.

Could this also be because NHS policy has changed and they can no longer refuse maternal request C sections? Which is surely a good thing.

Nimnuan · 16/09/2025 20:43

GreenLemonade · 12/09/2025 14:01

I wonder why nobody ever seems to mention declining fertility rates. I would assume first time mothers' births are typically more difficult and require more interventions than subsequent births. So if women on average are having fewer babies, it would make sense that an increasingly larger proportion of births are to first time mothers. This would be another reason why the rates of intervention are going up.

I never thought of that. Interesting point.

Nimnuan · 16/09/2025 20:40

This article made me so angry. A small increase due to mum's being a bit older/heavier? Maybe. 50% increase in C-section rates over less than a decade? No eff-ing way.

EarlGreywithLemon · 13/09/2025 13:19

Gwenhwyfar · 13/09/2025 12:08

But mothers over a certain age will automatically be under an obstetrician rather than a midwife won't they?

Not necessarily. Age only put me at medium risk (I was over 40 for 2 or my 3 pregnancies), and that wasn’t consultant led. I saw a consultant as part of a joint cardiology/ obstetrics clinic because I have a congenital heart condition, but otherwise I usually saw a hospital midwife.

Gwenhwyfar · 13/09/2025 12:08

BayOfBucket · 12/09/2025 15:52

In my experience, it’s crappy midwife-led care that leads to interventions. I wish I’d just gone straight to the proper bit of the hospital where they weren’t going to try to help me with aromatherapy, personally. I wish they’d listened to me in the first place. But they didn’t, and I get the have the lasting after effects, and I also had a C-section with my second to avoid having them in charge of the process.

But mothers over a certain age will automatically be under an obstetrician rather than a midwife won't they?

TheFourYearOldDrankAllTheMilk · 12/09/2025 21:37

Right, and the article doesn't clarify whether they are referring to first or subsequent babies.

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Squishydishy · 12/09/2025 19:40

My consultant said it’s not having a baby over 40 that’s the issue (if it’s your second or third or fourth) it’s having your first baby over 40 that’s riskier because it’s the first time your body goes through pregnancy, childbirth and labour. Apparently all of which are statistically easier for subsequent births on the whole

Newsenmum · 12/09/2025 19:32

PermanentTemporary · 12/09/2025 17:39

Given the current situation in maternity services, and given the fact that both obesity and higher age are objective factors increasing risk to baby and mother, if a doctor said to me that they thought I should have a c-section, I’d bloody well take it.

A multidisciplinary team is vital in all healthcare but it is too common in reports into maternity disasters that a hostile relationship exists between midwives and doctors. Nothing is more detrimental to safe outcomes and a midwife who doesn’t like doctors getting involved is unsafe to practice imo.

I agree.
Also a lot of women are traumatised by birth and being pushed to do absolutely everything else before c section.

Newsenmum · 12/09/2025 19:30

YourLemonTiger · 12/09/2025 17:44

With respect, the trend for having babies in your 40s is not a recent one. How on earth could it be? Not that long ago reliable, available contraception didn't exist. Do you think in days of yore women all stopped having sex once they reached 40?

It's the trend for first babies in your 40s which is a more recent phenomenon.

I agree it’s a lot of first babies and first
babies are generally more difficult,
so a first labour in your 40s is a very different to the women who have had many easy labours since their 20s and continued in their 40s. There would have been a number of women who had terrible births in their 20s and either died/had complications which meant they never had children in their 40s. Those same women today would start in their 40s and struggle even more.
And a lot of women struggle to conceive naturally in their 40s so you have to take into account all those having babies when naturally their bodies wouldnt.

You don’t need to be offended by science op. Best of luck with your pregnancy and birth.

Newsenmum · 12/09/2025 19:25

Fearfulsaints · 11/09/2025 07:40

The message i took from the article is they would like better care in earlier pregnancy. I think this is a good thing.

Same. And surely we all know that being older and overweight causes more
problems?

HuskyNew · 12/09/2025 19:20

You are obese and older. Both of those are statistically risk factors for greater intervention at birth. It may not turn out to be true for you as an individual, but that’s the way stats work.