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In today's independent - how to raise your chances of "natural birth"

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pupuce · 24/09/2003 18:19

This must be the day ...
The independent and the BBC are featuring the role of women's birth partners.... it makes for interesting reading... maybe some of you will find it ebatable of course

I am biaised I know

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Tom · 24/09/2003 20:28

We've discussed this elsewhere, but could I just note that the journos involved have really misreported this story.

The story is about the benefits of Doulas - undisputed - they're good news, for mother and father alike.

BUT - they've written it up as a 'get rid of the dad' story - in the indie, the journo claims that no on has bothered to find out whether having dads in the labour room benefit women.

The answer is yes - having your partner in the delivery room is likely to mean less intervention, less pain experienced and a more positive birth experience than if he is not there.

These stupid journalists have written it up as if there's a choice - either the dad or a doula. It's crap - you can have both, and you'd benefit from either/both. Doulas are very keen themselves to get fathers involved in supporting mums, and they put fathers at ease.

We're very irritated by this journalism, and the Independent will be printing a response letter from us by Thursday. We're also trying to get Women's Hour to set up a debate.

But please don't take the headlines seriously - kicking dads out of the delivery room will NOT decrease your chances of a caesarean, it will INCREASE it. The best scenario is to have your partner and a doula.

I've said enough now.

pupuce · 24/09/2003 20:21

Where are you in CH?

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monkey · 24/09/2003 20:11

Pity there aren't any in Switzerland - you don't fancy busman's holiday Pupuce?

pupuce · 24/09/2003 18:47

Personnally I think if you can take mum, sis or best (girl)friend... you should ! And if that isn't possible and Dh/Dp isn't exactly sure of how we will feel (or knows!) or if the mother is particularely keen on a specifc outcome (usually but not exclusively) a "natural" birth,.... then doulas are a "new" option.
There are a few mumnsetters who have had doulas and I am aware of at least 2 who are booked to have one in their upcoming labour...
So we are yet to hear more "real" accounts of what they thought !!!

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Tinker · 24/09/2003 18:43

Saw this today pupuce, though to of you.

Had my best friend and my mum with me.

GeorginaA · 24/09/2003 18:22

ebatable? You can buy doulas on an online auction site?

I found it really interesting, sent it to dh (because I've been pushing "what a great idea it would be to have a doula this time around" to him since I've found out I'm pregnant). He immediately said the answer was obviously he should disappear to the pub as soon as I go into labour... sigh.

beetroot · 24/09/2003 18:21

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