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What one is least pretentious?

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prayingforababy · 23/06/2010 23:16

OH loves Ophelia (the only name he has ever come up with and likes)

I like Tabitha and Portia but getting worried that the former sounds like a cat due to unhelpful friends. I don't want pretentious names but I can't help what I like.

So do I please myself or please the masses and opt for a less posh name. What one would you choose?

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pinkfluffysheep · 28/06/2010 17:30

There is a very famous drag act in Newcastle called Ophelia Balls which would make me think twice - but if you don't live anywhere near here nobody would know!

I think Tabitha is really nice, as is Portia but I agree with GetOrf bout the whole car thing.

George2010 · 28/06/2010 17:18

I love them all actually!

GetOrfMoiLand · 28/06/2010 17:12

I love the name Ophelia, however I worked with an Ophelia years ago as a waitress, all the chefs used to call her Ophelia Tits which put me off (I considered it for dd).

Portia - the whole 'did you name her after a car' thing from idiots.

Tabitha I do like very much.

What about:

Seraphina
Octavia
Perdita
Imogen
Aurelia

Apphia · 28/06/2010 17:07

Ophelia will most likely be the name of dd when she arrives in October. Love it pretentious or not!

Kathleen123 · 28/06/2010 14:37

Portia's lovely.

luciemule · 26/06/2010 21:54

Yes - my friend's little girl is called Ophelie - it's french, as she is, and she is gorgeous. It really suits her.

Loriycs · 26/06/2010 01:20

Portia (although spelt differently) is a chav name.
Tabitha is one of my cats names
so of the three i would say Ophelia
I know only one Ophelia so not a common name (last thing you want when she starts school),and its very pretty.

teafortwo · 26/06/2010 00:25

Why not Ophelie?

It is close to Ophelia but, to my knowledge, doesn't have any tragic connections.

PortiaNovmerriment · 26/06/2010 00:10

Portia is pretentious and piggy- go for it!

muminthemiddle · 25/06/2010 23:58

Ophelia x

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KittyBigglesworth · 25/06/2010 18:25

I think Tabitha is set to be super popular so it will be perceived as less pretentious if it is heard most often.

Ophelia has tragic associations but that doesn't necessary mean you shouldn't consider it. I suppose some parents worry it will jinx the child whilst others couldn't care less.

Doesn't Portia mean pig? Portia de Rossi hasn't been hindered by it as an actress, though. I think there are a few actresses called Ophelia too. One in a film at the moment, is it 4-3-2-1?

Francagoestohollywood · 24/06/2010 22:21

Portia would remind me of John Cleese's daughter in A Fish called Wanda

I like Ophelia (though it is uber pretentious and has tragic connotations) and Tabitha.

annasophia · 24/06/2010 22:21

I like Portia.

Ophelia is ok but Offie is not a nice nickname.

Magalyxyz · 24/06/2010 22:21

Tabitha because it's a cat's name.

I like Portia, but I'd rate it as being a little bit pretentious.

Ophelia is way too sad. Really patronising question, but have you actually studied Hamlet? I just find it hard to believe anybody who read the play would choose the name.

Portia is lovely. Choose that one.

MrsToffeeCrisp · 24/06/2010 22:19

Ophelia is lovely. The best of your list.

BessieBoots · 24/06/2010 22:18

Hmmm I like Ophelia best- Beautiful name- But I couldn't because she's too tragic.

TheBolter · 24/06/2010 22:15

Tabitha is IMO least pretentious. A lovely name.

Dd2's name reminds people of puddle ducks but because I like it so much I really couldn't give a rat's arse!

Portia reminds me of a pig's name. Ophelia is nice but its connotations too tragic.

DanJARMouse · 24/06/2010 22:15

Tabitha is the best one in my opinion

Hassled · 24/06/2010 22:14

Ophelia sounds lovely, but she came to a tragic end. Tabitha is my favourite of the three. Portia does just sound pretentious IMO.

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GirlWithTheMouseyHair · 24/06/2010 21:46

I really like Ophelia but would never use it myself because of the ill-starred connontations (I work in theatre)

LaDiDaDi · 24/06/2010 20:10

I like Portia.

LetThereBeRock · 24/06/2010 20:05

I hate Tabitha but love Portia and Ophelia.

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