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Delilah? Honest opinions please!

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SqueezyB · 11/01/2010 11:50

What does anyone think of the name Delilah? Probably shortened to Lila. I decided I loved it after hearing the song 'hey there Delilah' when I was pregnant with DD - but by then I was already set on the name Polly for her.

Now I'm pregnant with no.2 and Delilah is the only girls name I am stuck on - only other one is Isabel, but that's just way too popular.

I love DD's name - Polly - as it's not particularly common, I've never met another Polly, but it's not contrived or weird either, and everyone knows how to spell it. Trying to find one just as nice but not too common is really hard!

Do you think she would get teased cos of the Tom Jones song, or will that all be forgotten by the next generation?!

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Elsy · 04/04/2010 18:44

Although my one complaint about having a Lila is that it is constantly pronounced wrongly as Leela and Lilla. Drives me crazy!

Elsy · 04/04/2010 18:41

I wanted to call DD Delilah but didn't at the last minute because of worries about the song. So she's Lila. I still love her name (unlike DD2's which I'd like to change) - it really suits her and she gets load of compliments.

nooka · 04/04/2010 07:20

I wouldn't the association with Tom Jones is very strong because there are very few Delilahs around and it is a very catchy song. Plus the Biblical Delilah is a fairly well known story, and personally I don't see her as an example of a strong woman. She basically seduces Samson with the intent to find out the secret of his strength at the behest and payment of the Philistines and then when he tells her it's his hair she has it cut off and he is then tortured and imprisoned. Lovely!

It is nice sounding but I don't think that is enough. Polly is very nice and I know a small Lila.

Calling a child Jezebel would just be cruel.

sallyjaygorce · 04/04/2010 00:00

I know a Deliah - also named after this song. She is 9 now and very very cool. Still, so is her mum.

I know two Pollys - love that name too.

minxofmancunia · 03/04/2010 23:18

The main reason NOT to use it as a name for your daughter would be the fact it's Stoke cities FC theme song and is sung from the terraces every match.

I have heard of several instances of avid SCFC supporters naming their daughters this.

Don't do it.

google "delilah"+"stoke city" for the clubs website for confirmation.

Fizzfiend · 03/04/2010 22:49

It is a beautiful strong name. My dd is Ruby and when we named her, it was rare...my mother who is so mild-mannered told me she would call her something else if we called her Ruby...I said fine!

Now Ruby gets a big kick when people sing the Kaiser Chiefs song...she said it makes her feel famous (whether that's a good thing or not is another subject!)

Maybe she'll be a barber :-) Go for it...love unusual names. I'll never forget a friend with a very unusual name telling me that he loved it because whenever he phoned someone up he only had to say his first name and everyone knew who he was. Gives you a real sense of identity from an early age.

mumoid · 03/04/2010 22:47

I love Delilah just because of the way it sounds. Songs were written for that more than the biblical meaning surely. Lilith and Jezebel beautiful too soundwise. Where i come from 'del' means pretty and punctuates sentences in same way as love, darling, duck etc. Dinah is a step away.

lelarose · 03/04/2010 22:31

Love it- my cousin has a daughter called this and if not for this I'd be very tempted if I have a girl. It's strong, attractive and just the right amount of unusual..go for it!!

(no one her age will remember the song, and who cares anyway)

Lonnie · 03/04/2010 19:21

another one whom hears Tom Jones croone

not4anotherday · 03/04/2010 18:13

I have just annonced to DH we need to have another girl because I love this name

posieparker · 03/04/2010 18:08

love delilah.

CantSleepWontSleep · 03/04/2010 18:07

I like it lots, but couldn't get over the song reference. Would use as a middle name though.

ilovepiccolina · 03/04/2010 17:50

I really like it. I also like Tallulah & Tabitha. My DD has an unusual Biblical name with 'ah' at the end.

I wouldn't use Cain or Judas, but I don't see the problem with Delilah. Your DD as a person will be associated with the name, much more than the Bible story or the song.

I would go for it. If you really love it & don't, you'll regret it.

LadyOfTheFlowers · 03/04/2010 15:42

I had a dapple grey/white horse called Delilah/Deli.

She was beautiful.

I like it!

pranma · 03/04/2010 15:17

I had a friend named she was Portugese and the 'lila' bit was pronounced leela so it sounded like Daleela

MyThumbsHaveGoneWeird · 03/04/2010 14:43

Lovely, as long as you are never going to end up living in Wales. I dont think My My Delilah will ever go out of fashion there!

NormaSknockers · 03/04/2010 14:10

Very good point Vivian, my cousin is a Roxanne & my sister is a Lucy can't ever recall them being sung to.

Helmar · 03/04/2010 13:54

Ok - My, My, My.

DebiNewberry · 03/04/2010 13:54

Lovely. I know one and never think any variant of Tom Jones/Bible stuff when I see her.

allyfe · 03/04/2010 13:50

I think it's horrible. Sorry. Think it is the fault of Tom Jones, because I'm not sure why I'd be so against it otherwise.

mummyingreen · 03/04/2010 13:37

I really wanted Salome for a while too, but I thought it wouldn't be nice for dd to have a biblical baddie as a namesake. However, Delilah sounds pretty and that can be as good a reason as any to give her that name. Her school class are unlikely to reference Tom Jones, and even their parents might be a bit young for it.
A nice name (that I gave to my dd 2) that has positive religious meaning is Dominy (means same as Dominic and can apparently also be a boy's name). We never meet any others.

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Helmar · 03/04/2010 13:18

My Grandaughter is called Isla and gets "Why why why dear Isla" sung to her quite often!!

GnocchiGnocchiWhosThere · 03/04/2010 11:50

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Elena67 · 03/04/2010 11:05

really like it - just added it to the fridge-magnet-list-of-possible-names for the one due in June!