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I think this name is far too old-fashioned, should I tell my friend?

138 replies

onthepier · 11/10/2009 21:51

A friend of mine who is due to have a little girl in the next week or so is almost decided on the name "Eileen". I think it's just so old-fashioned for a little girl, poss because two of my nan's friends are called this!

A couple of other friends don't like it but we don't know whether to say anything to this lady, suggesting she changes her mind. I know "each to their own" and all that, but I just can't imagine a tiny baby or child called Eileen! What do you all think?

Several months back she came up with Hannah and Lauren, both far better in my opinion!

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Jojay · 11/10/2009 21:55

Definitely don't say anything. Nowt to do with you.

Georgimama · 11/10/2009 21:55

I think you should tell her. She'll never speak to you again of course, but the resultant MN threads will be immensely amusing...

Hulababy · 11/10/2009 21:55

Her child. Her choice.

You get to make decisions for your own child's name, not for your friend's children.

Northernlurker · 11/10/2009 21:55

Her baby, her choice and Eileen is a perfectly nice name. Get over yourself - your prejudices are really not the issue here!

Tidey · 11/10/2009 21:54

I agree, I think it's a dreadful name too but a) She won't listen if it's what she decides on and b) It's not really your place to tell her anyway.

I wouldn't fancy all the 'Eileen Dover' jokes people are bound to come up with, but if she has her heart set on any name, it's your job to be supportive I'm afraid. If she's a good friend, there's no point risking losing her over it.

defineme · 11/10/2009 21:54

It is none of your business - what on earth would make you think it's your place to tell her? Incredibly rude. It's hardly like she's calling the baby shithead is it?
Very strange.
It is your place to smile and say 'lovely' about whatever name she chooses.

CharCharGabor · 11/10/2009 21:54

I think it's none of your business tbh.

MrsMerryHenry · 11/10/2009 21:54

This is exactly why I refuse to tell anyone our chosen names until they're signed, sealed and delivered.

islandofsodor · 11/10/2009 21:54

I think it is a lovely name. I like old fashioned names.

I like both Hannah and Lauren but there are too many of them.

kidcreoleandthecoconuts · 11/10/2009 21:54

Mind your own

tummytickler · 11/10/2009 21:54

Don't you dare say anything to your friend . It does not matter what you think, and plenty of people love old fashioned names (me included). Just because you don't like it it does not mean a thing.
Hannah and Lauren are dreadful in my opinion, just terribly boring. She has picked a name she loves, and i think it is quite stylish (but then i love Hilda).
Baby Eileen may not be everyones taste, but it defo has nothing to do with you!

corblimeymadam · 11/10/2009 21:53

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QueenOfFrighteningEveryone · 11/10/2009 21:52

I think it is not your baby.