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40 replies

Comma2 · 23/09/2009 14:51

I cannot bear the responsibilty of naming my second dd I have a name I really hate and do not want to do this to innocent babybut will have to.

DD1 is Flora, and I always knew it would be. son, if i'd had one, would have been Miles. Now it is a dd though, and struggle has begun.

DH extremly unhelpful, only imposing limitations: can't be a flower name, can't be a months name (there goes June), can't be too hippy and can't end in 'illy' (Lilly is double out).
My own restrictions: must be not too outlandish (Fantasia is a no-go), not obviously religious (Grace), and not weird spelling to make it 'special' (Desyree)

We live in the US and people are very bad in pronuncing anyting more complex than Jack and Judy, I am German and would like no th so my parents can have a go at pronouncing it, and our last name and heritage is irish, so that would be nice, but we'll have to be able to read it. . Anybody??

Here are my 3 ideas, all of them a bit unenthusiastic:
Esme
Ella (number one so far,but not sure about it)
Penelope (but dh doesn't like Penny)

Please help me!!

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serinBrightside · 23/09/2009 23:58

Ursula.

slowreadingprogress · 23/09/2009 23:37

I think Ella is just - dull.

How about Felicity?
I like Genevieve which you mentioned....also like Francesca. Phoebe?

snice · 23/09/2009 23:24

How about Isobel? V.popular in Uk but maybe less so in US

snice · 23/09/2009 23:22

SomE say Es-me, some Es-may

Comma2 · 23/09/2009 23:11

Why, how do people get Esme wrong??

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Comma2 · 23/09/2009 23:10

No no. it's got to be a name she doesn't have to explain or spell every time.

Are there millions of ellas here? I've never met one. English queens are in high fashion, Emmas are all over the place as well as anything that rhymes with Eden...

Freya is a Wagner nsme....no?

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mathanxiety · 23/09/2009 21:26

Since you're in the US, please don't give your DD an Irish name that Americans would have a hard time pronouncing (I'm thinking Niamh "Neev" and Aisling "Ashling" here). Maeve, on the other hand is lovely, imo, and is easy to pronounce. There are millions of Ellas and Ellies in the US right now; most of them are under 6. Have you considered Emma, Astrid, Ingrid or Freya?

norktasticninja · 23/09/2009 21:09

I Don't think Kate Sophie really 'works' IYSWIM. Kathryn Sophie (or Katherine) Sophie with Kate for short is fab though

BustleInYourHedgerow · 23/09/2009 21:03

Esme's nice, but people pronounce it wrong...friend just named her DD Esme and everybody gets it wrong...

Comma2 · 23/09/2009 21:00

Sophie will be middle name! Kate is v. nice..hmm.
Alice is already in family.
Virginia not so much my thing. I don't even know why.

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ancientgeordiegirl · 23/09/2009 20:38

could have Virginia aka Ginny or Ginia - would that work?

norktasticninja · 23/09/2009 20:02

Sophie?
Kate?
Alice?
Astrid?
Saskia?

Comma2 · 23/09/2009 19:54

Oh thanks so much for the back-up! Loneliness of name-choosing is getting a bit to me.

I stumbled over Esme reading shorts by Salinger, and it struck me as a lovely name(Flora and Miles are both from turn of the screw, but can't tell dh as is crept out by story).

Ella, I don't know...it's nice and normal, and there will never be a problem spelling or pronouncing, but an ex-friend called her dd Ella, and don't know that I can get over myself there....also danger that somebody might call her Ellie...

Penelope prob a no-go from dh, as no way around Penny.

Esther is v. cute, but danger of Essie...
Clara is also v cute and favorite of DH. But so reminds me of tight buns, black frocks and Schumann..

How do you pronounce Niamh and Aisling? They look nice. (prob though not a good sign that I don't know how to say them..)

What do you think about Genevieve aka Ginny? Too french aka too Harry Potter?

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MrsVik · 23/09/2009 17:27

Anja
Isabelle
Alice

??

I love all three of your names so far

Luxmum · 23/09/2009 14:58

Well I am similarly stumped. I also need a clearly pronounceable name for DD1 who I thought would be DS3.
Esme is utterly lovely. It's on my list too.
Ella is ok, but nothing special.
Penelope is also on our list!

I would suggest:
Sarah, Anna, Lena, Aisling, Niamh, Orla, Maeve, Clara, Ruth, Esther, Aphra, Avril, Lauren.

Hope this gets the ball rolling, if anyone can give me some ideas too, I'd love it..!