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Curious about how to match siblings names

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MarchNowFebMum · 24/03/2009 09:08

There's often posts on here about how to pick names that 'match' the older siblings.

I may be dim but I don't get it - what are the rules of matching? Obviously Connie and Bonnie sounds hideous together but I don't get what logic people use to respond to these questions.

This is a serious question - worried I'll make a mistep with dc2!

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WorzselMummage · 25/03/2009 10:38

I dont think it really matters too much.

We have a Grace and George.. they are almost the same but i love them so i had to have them !

emmaolliff · 25/03/2009 09:44

I think you should just choose the names you really like. My kids have all ended up with Victorian origin names - but to be honest that was pure coincidence rather than us only selecting Victorian names.

hannahsaunt · 25/03/2009 09:39

I decided that (coincidentally) ds1 and ds2 had names that seemed to be aged weather-beaten farmer names so ds3 had to be able to fit into that category (because clearly they're going to end their days tramping over the hills calling sheep )

nooka · 25/03/2009 04:35

I think there is a difference between worlds apart (I agree Octavia and Kadyn would sound odd, as would Anne and Ocean for a set of twins) but I really don't think names need to be, or even should be from the same genre. My son has an Old English name after a great English king, my daughter is called after two great-grannies. Their names sound fine together, and they both love the reasons. The trouble when you go down that matching route is when you have more children and run out of good names, and end up with some odd choices available - like people who start off with say Lily and Rose and then have to find another flower for a third or fourth dd, when really they had just liked Rose and Lily, and not particularly thought about having a bouquet or posy IYSWIM

ninedragons · 25/03/2009 03:55

Is Lydia biblical?

I do agree with the majority that names can sound odd if they're worlds apart aesthetically. I would be very surprised to hear of twins called Octavia and Kadyn, for instance.

Wouldn't care, because it's not my business, but I would be surprised.

willowthewispa · 24/03/2009 20:40

My aunt has two children with very classic names that go well together, and two with Biblical names that go well together. But the two sets clash a bit.

kayzr · 24/03/2009 20:34

I love the name Storm. Don't know if it would match Freddie and Dylan. But I think I might just use it for a cat or something.

permatired · 24/03/2009 20:13

What about Oscar, Tango and Foxtrot

missmapp · 24/03/2009 20:13

I have taught siblings named sam and ella, both lovely names but when you same them together..... Id never even thought of checking how names sound together until I met these two

permatired · 24/03/2009 20:10

MargotBG - I am er, blessed, with one of the names you mentioned (spelt dif) and believe me was no fun being called hurricane, force 10, windy etc etc at every turn (made even worse as maiden name is a key component of a very popular nursery name of the day so if it wsn't the former it was the latter - oh joy! Luckily now have nice boring totally unnoteworthy surname thanks to dh!)

CherryChoc · 24/03/2009 20:09

Michael McIntyre does a bit about this in his DVD, he has 2 sons, Oscar and Lucas, but he said he felt like calling his DS2 Trevor just to see peoples' reactions to Oscar and Trevor!

tassisssss · 24/03/2009 20:06

my kids names don't match...i have a scottish one, a classic one and a biblical one. i think they're all fairly common 21st century names which may help but I really don't care!

permatired · 24/03/2009 20:02

So after he was born did people keep askin you if he was Arthur or Martha then?

moogmum · 24/03/2009 19:24

When I was pg with DS, he was to be called Arthur if he was a boy, and Martha if he was a girl, which obviously he wasn't. It took until I was pg with DD for us to realise they rhymed and that maybe therefore we needed to find an alternative girl's name this time round.

MargotBeauregardesGavel · 24/03/2009 19:21

Not psychic, lucky guess. I went to school with twins Storm and Gale. I wasn't sure which got the better deal.

dragonbutter · 24/03/2009 19:14

i don't think my children's names match.
c a l u m and s o l
i'm not sure it matters.

permatired · 24/03/2009 19:08

Martha and Arthur

(MargotBG - you must be psychic - it was Rivers, Ocean & Storm - sorry lovely family!)

EdwardBear · 24/03/2009 18:16

Exactly what conniedescending said

traceybath · 24/03/2009 18:12

Well i have an arthur and am currently expecting a girl - my mother suggeted martha.

yes mum - martha and arthur sounds great and doesn't have any other meanings/connotations at all.

So thats an example of names that don't go well together

wastingmyeducation · 24/03/2009 18:05

Reuben was the eldest of the children of Israel.
With Simeon and Levi the next in line.

Much of my biblical knowledge comes from Lloyd Webber musicals.

MarchNowFebMum · 24/03/2009 18:02

I think I am starting to get it although can't imagine why Dylan and Freddie don't go together.

My cousin has boys Hunter and Jasper and I think they are both lovely names but sound too much alike. Know of some people who have a Teguela and William and although I think it sounds fine I wondered why they picked a unique and then a very common name.

My dd (only child - thus far) has a very unusual Asian name - unusual in both UK and India. Never occurred to me that I will be (maybe - could decide not to care) limited to picking another unusual (or even Indian) name the second time around.

And,had no idea there is a Reuben in the bible but confirmed on WIKI!! Must of the missed that Sunday school class :.)

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MargotBeauregardesGavel · 24/03/2009 17:33

water related names?

River, Lake, Ocean?

permatired · 24/03/2009 14:46

lol at conniedescending. We were on holiday once and family in next room had 3 water related names for their dds(don't want to out them on here as they were lovely family)but a very straightforward surname - poss taking theming too far?

LuLuBai · 24/03/2009 12:15

I think it has mostly been covered - over rhyming (eg Bryan and Ryan) is daft, as can be excessive alliteration (Stephanie and Stavros, David and Davinia) or names that have a totally different feel (Mark and Moonbeam, Jane and Tallulah) also worth thinking about (particularly for twins) is approximate length. I knew a pair of idential twins in their 50s and Catherine still felt aggrieved that it had taken her so much longer than her sister Ann to learn to spell her name.

Mostly though, I think if parents love both names they do tend to go together.

MargotBeauregardesGavel · 24/03/2009 11:01

My perception of Frederick is that it's quite British. Little Lord Faunteleroy kind of thing! I like it. The German connection hadn't occured to me, just because there was a famous German called Frederick.

OP, another thing to avoid is names ending in the same sound. eg Ross and Grace. When shouted up the stairs "phone for you Grace!" they will both come running.