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is she going to hate us forever if we call her ....

118 replies

silkcushion · 01/03/2009 21:14

Eleri Samphire?

Just typing it I feel like the answer may be yes.

DD2 is due in a few months. DD1 (15mths) is called Megan Juliet. Her second name is after my sister who died.

I wanted another Welsh first name for this little girl, although living in England now, but have been struggling for a middle name.

People have raised eybrows at the name Eleri - is Samphire adding fuel to the fire?

DH and I are prepared for fulla nd franck feedback. What do you really think?

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Sycamoretree · 03/03/2009 14:19

eleri is great, Samphire is just a spongey vegetable that grows on the sides of cliffs. It's not got pretty conotations - you may as well go for Saphire...but that feels a bit tacky, non? Which is why I assume you have gone for Samphire instead?

You need a good, honest one syllable middle name to go with such a pretty and unusual three syllable first name.

If you like the fire angle, what about Eleri Blaise? I think I just made that up LOL!

seeker · 03/03/2009 14:16

Mind you, Tiggy's suggestion doesn't rule out Primavara or Vernal, which I keep stopping myself suggesting in case someone takes me seriously!

seeker · 03/03/2009 14:14
TiggyR · 03/03/2009 12:37

I think the fundamental rule when naming your child after flora/fauna/places/objects of desire, is that they must be visually beautiful and arresting, and preferably not man-made. So, (not accounting for tastes and preferences) acceptable examples are:

Rose, Daisy, Honeysuckle, Dawn, April, May, June, Summer, Storm, River, Georgia, Saffron, Sienna, Florence, Sapphire, Ruby, Pearl.

Unacceptable examples:

Asparagus, Potato, Worm, Puddle, Dagenham, Basildon, Gucci, Chardonnay, Moet (especially when pronounced Mow-ay, which of course, it absolutely would be in these circumstances) Chanel, Diesel, Nike.

There. Simple.

seeker · 03/03/2009 12:18

It's not a matter of not being sure about Samphire - you just can't do it. It's not even an attractive vegetable (although it's delicious!).It like little green twigs that grow on salt flats. You wouldn't call a child Asparagus, would you? Oh, god - perhaps you would.........!

llareggub · 03/03/2009 08:36

I love the name Eleri. Not sure about Samphire, like others I thought you'd mis-typed Sapphire.

I've got a Welsh name book if you want me to post it down to you?

TiggyR · 03/03/2009 07:10

And if you use Arwen she actually would be a hobbit. Or a dwarf. Can't remember.

Tamarisk? Not Tamarind? That's just made up nonsense surely!

The name 'Lettuce' is actually spelt Lettice and is pronounced Le - Teese, with the emphasis on the second syllable but who do you suppose ever knows that? (apart from me, but then I am a fully paid-up member of pendants' corner) . God what a pain in the arse that name must be!

seeker · 03/03/2009 06:22

There was a child in one of the weekend papers 9probably the Guardian) called Tamarisk.

DoThisDoThat · 03/03/2009 05:50

If you use Samphire, people will think she's a hobbit.

Eleri nice though.

floaty · 02/03/2009 23:34

I actually know a little girl called Samphire,her siblings all have wildflower names .

Love Eleri,what about Saffron for a second name ,similar but not quite so veggie

FairLadyRantALot · 02/03/2009 23:22

oh dear...I htink I am tired...keep reading the wrong things...I first thought you were thinking of calling your dd celery...

Eleri has actually got a nice ring to it....not sure about Samphire....

cheesesarnie · 02/03/2009 23:12

how about eleri saphire

MrsSchadenfreude · 02/03/2009 23:02

I like Eleri, have a friend called Eleri. How about Zamfira as a middle name? It's the Romanian version of Samphire, and less cabbagey, I feel. Eleri Zamfira is pretty cool, no?

But perhaps don't ask me, DD2's name is universally acknowledged to be poncy and pretentious by Mumsnet...

Biccy · 02/03/2009 22:30

There was a character in The Flame Trees of Thika called Lettuce... I was really quite small at the time, but it has realy stuck with me, it seemed so odd... I think it was probably spelled Lettice.

DeeBlindMice · 02/03/2009 21:35

LOL @ all these people coming around to the idea of Celery as a name

Eleri is lovely. Samphire not so much, but I don't think middle names matter too much.

Isn't there anyone else whose name you would like to use as a middle name?

Eleri Bethan?

TiggyR · 02/03/2009 21:30

Actually I prefer Celery to Samphire!

RachieB · 02/03/2009 21:08

Eleri is nice

I also like

Mali
Haf
Bronwen
Alys
Caitlin
Ffion
Seren

Eleri Haf or Eleri Ffion go nicely IMO

good luck choosing

Flightattendant27 · 02/03/2009 19:40

I have Celery on my girl list

It followed a dream I had

two daughters called violet and Celery.
At the time I thought it was truly inspired.

(was v pregnant and it was 4am)

BubbaP · 02/03/2009 19:34

Eleri is a really lovely name and would have been on our list, but someone close to us has used it. One problem she has come across is that some of her non-Welsh friends pronounce Eleri in a similar way to "celery" as other posters have pointed out.

Just thought I would add some suggestions for Welsh middle names:

Alys
Angharad
Anwen
Awen
Bethan
Carys
Catrin
Cerys
Ffion
Gwen
Manon
Mared
Megan
Nia
Olwen
Rhian
Rhiannon
Sara
Siân
Sioned
Siwan

HTH!

AnybodyHomeMcFly · 02/03/2009 18:33

Angharad is nice
Cordelia is another shakespearean name

screamingabdab · 02/03/2009 16:54

Eleri - Yes!

Samphire - sorry, no!

What about Arwen?

ZZZen · 02/03/2009 16:53

I have a feeling she will not be eternally grateful to you for that name

TiggyR · 02/03/2009 16:50

Personally I don't think you should name her after a seaweed, but as it's a middle name I suppose it doesn't really matter. I think Sapphire is lovely though, and it is softer sounding that Samphire (not to mention prettier in the flesh!!!)

I'm not fussed about Eleri either way. I love Morwenna, Bronwen, Arwen and Angharad. Not sure whether Arwen counts as yer actual Welsh but it sounds authentic enough!

Tidey · 02/03/2009 16:38

Sapphire you could get away with. Samphire... I don't think so.

MumOfBaby · 02/03/2009 16:36

Simple Answer- Yes