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Two surnames - why the confusion?

60 replies

CuppaTeaJanice · 23/08/2008 17:43

Myself and DP are both the 'last in line' when it comes to our surnames, so neither of us were prepared to give up our family name and we have given DS both surnames.

This seems to be causing some confusion, particularly at the doctors surgery and health clinics where they seem to want to give DS my surname only. Other places tend to put a hyphen between the names.

Has anybody else given their child 2 surnames (not double-barrelled)?

I can think of a few examples - Lawrence Llewellyn Bowen, Frances Hodgson Burnett, Whatshisname Cougar Mellencamp etc (some may be hyphened or stage names, not sure). It's not that unusual, surely, so why is it causing such confusion and are we going to have to constantly explain his name for his entire childhood?

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bran · 23/08/2008 18:34

I've actually had trouble the other way, sometimes people simply can't believe that my middle name is not a surname and try to give me a first name and two surnames.

I think hypenation of your ds's surnames would at least make things clearer for strangers. The world of names is complicated enough and on the whole people have better things to do than think deeply about tricky naming conventions.

BecauseImWorthIt · 23/08/2008 18:31

Why don't you just put a hyphen between the names then? It's not unreasonable to assume that someone would assume that the second name is a middle name.

bran · 23/08/2008 18:29

If it isn't hyphenated then perhaps it's difficult to tell whether both names are surnames or one is a middle name and one a surname.

BTW I always thought that the Cougar part of John Mellancamps name was a middle or nickname, especially as he dropped it after a few years.

chandellina · 23/08/2008 18:17

my surname (a common boy's name) is DS' middle name - i don't consider it two surnames - i do think it would be confusing to use both that way. as in surname is Pxxx Mxxx

batters · 23/08/2008 17:59

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Tortington · 23/08/2008 17:52

strange

RubyRioja · 23/08/2008 17:50

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Tortington · 23/08/2008 17:48

cos its weird

Milliways · 23/08/2008 17:46

A baby is first registered by the GP from the Mother's birth discharge as Male/Female X (Where X is Mothers surname). This is then amended when the Birth Certificate or Form from Hospital giving the NHS number is available. They should copy the name from that!

Madlentileater · 23/08/2008 17:46

Why not hyphenate? We have and has never been an issue with normal people...just the odd relative!