Would you use a name you know your friend LOVES and has been 'saving' ....

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DisenchantedPlusBump · 28/07/2008 19:16

for when she has a girl?

When I say friend, the last time I saw her was about a month ago and before that Christmas. We do talk occasionally and I do class her as a friend, but not the 'see everyday or two and do loads of stuff together' sort.

Plus She has 3 boys, I have 2 boys (she is desperate for a girl) and I'm having a girl first.

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overthemill · 28/07/2008 19:20

probbaly not, always thought rachel was off to do so

constancereader · 28/07/2008 19:19

I probably wouldn't.
If you had said you wanted it too the first time she brought it up that might make it easier.

That said, you do have the right to do this if you want to.

Rachmumoftwo · 28/07/2008 19:19

Ask her. She may never have a girl, or not mind sharing. I know she doesn't own the name as such, but it isn't very nice to use the name without considering the feelings of your friend.

What is the name, btw?

vitomum · 28/07/2008 19:19

is she pregnant? does she know its a girl?

Idobelieveinfairies · 28/07/2008 19:18

tell us the name and we can try and put you off it

differentID · 28/07/2008 19:18

It's not Lydia is it?

DorrisMcWhirter · 28/07/2008 19:18

No, sorry. Not worth the hassle IMO. Hope you find another name you like.

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DisenchantedPlusBump · 28/07/2008 19:17

She has told me on several occasions her DD will have this name but Im just stuck and like this

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