Can we have a thread where we list all the reasons why it’s best to keep your baby name to yourself until they are born? Seems like almost every day someone regrets having sharing.
My FIL is a bit weird about the fact we don’t tel him our baby girl’s name even though it’s decided with a middle name. We’re standing firm but I was wondering if it would be helpful to people who are reluctant but considering sharing their name to know all the reasons why it can be a bad idea.
I’ll start: You decide you want to change it later on but feel uncomfortable because people already know the original name