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Would it be odd for twin boys to share a middle name?

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LemonDrizzle69 · 16/08/2026 19:36

I’m currently pregnant with twin boys.
We have come up with one definite first name, the second is still an ongoing discussion!
My question is, is it odd for twins to share a middle name? They are fraternal twins and we will be keen to ensure they are treated as individuals.
Myself and my partner both so happen to have to same male ‘family’ middle name (John) Would it be strange to give them both the family middle name or should we look at maybe introducing a new middle name with meaning for one of them? If they were ‘just’ siblings, I’d be more inclined to give them both the same middle name, and although yes, they are siblings, them being born at the same time is holding me back from choosing to have them share a middle name for some reason…
What are your thoughts?

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AgentPidge · 16/08/2026 19:42

CaptainMyCaptain · 16/08/2026 19:38

Yes. I think it would be weird. They are separate people.

What about family middle names? I know two families where all the boys have had the same middle name ( previously a surname) for generations.

OnlyFoolsnMothers · 16/08/2026 19:40

I wouldn’t and I definitely wouldn’t if their first name will be the same initial.

AgentPidge · 16/08/2026 19:39

Congratulations! I have twins too. I think the same middle name will be fine, so long as their first names are very individual. (So not Jaden and Kaden or anything like that!)

Watchoutfortheslowaraf · 16/08/2026 19:39

DH and his brother aren’t twins but share a middle name. A friend of mine also has 2 boys who share a family middle name. It’s not too unusual so you could do it. If it were me though I’d want them to have different middle names

KG1244 · 16/08/2026 19:38

i say go for it. If it matters to you both that’s all that matters. I think it’s absolutely fine.

CaptainMyCaptain · 16/08/2026 19:38

Yes. I think it would be weird. They are separate people.

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