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Is Johnny still too associated with condoms as a baby nickname?

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DannY97 · 21/06/2026 17:51

Hi all. We are currently expecting baby #2, a little boy after our girl. My husband’s late grandfather was called Johnathan and we think we are likely to name him Johnathan James. I love the name James but my husband doesn’t like it as a first name.

I like the idea of him having a ‘cooler’ nickname, as Johnathan is quite formal. I’ve always liked Johnny.

My mum is really against this as says it’s the name of a condom, and my brother in his early 20s agrees. My husband and I are aware that it is an older slang term for one, but not something we’ve ever heard used. I went to school with a Johnny and it was never a concern.

What are everyone’s thoughts? And would you mind saying your age too? I’m wondering if this is an older term that’s maybe come back around, as it’s definitely not been used by any of my friends or my husband’s, although all are vaguely aware of it.

Thank you!

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Twoshoesnewshoes · 22/06/2026 17:41

Yep
rubber Jonny teehee
i don’t like it
im 50, I know two Johnathans and both go by ‘Joe’ which I like

hididdlyho · 22/06/2026 17:24

Jonathan James makes me think of the shoe shop (not sure if they're still going).
It has a good ring to it though and I don't think many people will associate it with the shop.

You don't really hear rubber johnnies being used much in slang nowadays so I don't think you'll encounter too many issues. As pps have said there's plenty of other nicknames he could choose if he does get teased. I'm in my 40s and at school I remember some kids went through a phase of saying 'can you pass the rubber, Johnny'? when they first learned what they are. It didn't last long though as it's not particularly funny after the first couple of times is it.

whattheysay · 22/06/2026 17:03

I don’t know if younger people associate it with condoms nowadays, I am 50 and know it to be a condom but I also know a few Johnnys and don’t think anything of their name so I don’t think it matters

Pineapplec0re · 22/06/2026 16:05

Johnny isn’t great imo and has a few negative associations
but I also don’t know why you’d use it when you’ve got Nathan, Nate, natey, and JJ right there. I’d go JJ personally

thelongesday · 22/06/2026 15:59

I really like Jonathan (not so keen on it with the H) but I think Johnny is really dated and not cool at all.

VimesandhisCardboardBoots · 22/06/2026 15:50

DannY97 · 21/06/2026 18:40

So I’ve just been looking it up, and apparently Jonathan is traditionally spelt without a h, but Johnathan has become more popular due to the separate names John and Johnny being spelt with a h.

personally I think I prefer Jonathan, with a nickname of Johnny. My husband is 90% sure his grandad was a Johnathan, but we’re now trying to find some documentation to make sure.

I’d had my daughter’s name picked out since I was about 15 and my husband happened to love it, so we didn’t have this problem!

There's also the variant Jonathon, which absolutely nu bugger except my brother has because my parents weren't sensible enough to look up the spelling before naming him.

We're in our 40's now, but he used to get a bit of condom based humour when we were growing up. My first girlfriend in particular was fond of calling him "little rubber Jonny". Never bothered him though, and I doubt it'll be as bad these days. Kids seem to be nicer these days. I accidently managed to name my daughter a name that backwards spells a very rude sex act. Only one kid in school ever picked up on it and wound her up about it.

Was quite embarrassing though when she decided to write her name in the sand on the beach, and then started doing it backwards, and I turned round to be greeted with a 10 foot high ANAL

DonttouchthatLarry · 22/06/2026 15:41

My 62 year old husband is a Jonathan and is often shortened to Jon. Nobody but me ever calls him Jonny. Sometimes I will pronounce it Jo Nathan 😁. When I was young condoms were called 'rubber johnnies' but I don't ever connect the two - not like calling someone Dick or Fanny.

Gustavo1 · 22/06/2026 15:34

As I read your thread title I realised I have a neighbour called Jonny and it’s never, ever occurred to me that his name was slang for condom!
if you love it, use it ❤️

boysmuminherts · 22/06/2026 15:33

Johnny: The most traditional spelling, derived directly from the name John (of Hebrew origin, meaning "God is gracious"). It remains the overwhelmingly popular and classic choice worldwide.
Jonny: Generally shorter for Jonathan. Because there is no "h" in Jonathan, omitting it from the nickname provides a cleaner, phonetic spelling of the root name.

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Yetone · 22/06/2026 15:32

DannY97 · 21/06/2026 18:40

So I’ve just been looking it up, and apparently Jonathan is traditionally spelt without a h, but Johnathan has become more popular due to the separate names John and Johnny being spelt with a h.

personally I think I prefer Jonathan, with a nickname of Johnny. My husband is 90% sure his grandad was a Johnathan, but we’re now trying to find some documentation to make sure.

I’d had my daughter’s name picked out since I was about 15 and my husband happened to love it, so we didn’t have this problem!

If you are in England or Wales you don’t need documentation. Just go on Freebmd ( Free births, marriages and deaths) and press search.

boysmuminherts · 22/06/2026 15:31

I'd spell it Jonathan, rather than Johnathan - but Jonny is a great name :)

PiffleWiffleWoozle · 22/06/2026 15:27

No

user1492757084 · 22/06/2026 12:04

John, Johnathon, Jonathon, Johnny - all great choices.

Juryduty · 22/06/2026 11:24

I'm in my 30s and while I'm aware in the back of my mind that "Johnny" can be used to be mean a condom, I never actually hear anyone in my circle of friends/acquaintances use it that way, nor do I hear it much from the media.

To me Johnny is just a name and I wouldn't think anything of it.

DannY97 · 22/06/2026 11:14

NamingNoNames · 21/06/2026 19:20

@DannY97 , I don't know where you've been looking but the stats for England & Wales do not show Johnathan as increasing in popularity. Jonathan has been popular since the 1950s and is a Biblical character so I recommend you use that spelling.
Jonathan - Baby name explorer
Johnathan

James is the most popular boys' middle name.

I like the names Jonathan and Johnny.

Edited

Thank you, this is helpful. I’m definitely pushing for Jonathan and Johnny. I don’t think it matters so much if they get the spelling of his nickname ‘wrong’ as Jonny, but we are Christian and I think I would rather have the traditional spelling, even if just to avoid confusion throughout his life!

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Picklesocks · 21/06/2026 21:19

This is potentially outing, but my first boyfriend was a Jonathan know exclusively as Jonny, and my second (now husband) is a John who is known as Johnny by his old school friends and family. He moved to John professionally, which is where I met him and he now goes by that mostly.

Neither ever had an issue with the condom association and it literally never crossed my mind once.

Oh, I also lived with a Jonny at university (another Jonathan). I seem to collect them 😅

I’ve never seen Jonathan spelt with an H though, and both Jonathans I knew were very vocal that there was no H in Johnny - unlike DH, who did have one. Hope all that helps!

GoingForAGallop · 21/06/2026 21:13

I have a young relative called Johnny and I’ve never thought of the condoms reference when speaking to him.

…… Although now you’ve mentioned it, I may think of it in future!!

Signoritawhocansway · 21/06/2026 21:08

I don't associate it with condoms but I would say that Johnny shouldn't be spelt with an 'h' but as Jonny. Jonathan doesn't have an 'h' in the Jon section. (I know several Jonathans abbreviated Jonny and none have an 'h' in it). Love the name!

BestZebbie · 21/06/2026 21:06

bolognazey · 21/06/2026 18:12

I don’t think of condoms but do think of ‘heeeere’s Johnny’ line from The Shining.

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Yes this - this is why I wouldn’t go with Johnny, rather than condoms.

Didimum · 21/06/2026 20:53

I know three Johnny’s in adulthood fairly well and a couple when I was at school. Never ever thought this and it’s never been brought up. I’m aware of the slang name of course, but I don’t think it’s very common to actually use that term, but Johnny is a pretty popular name so I don’t think it carries.

yellowsunglasses · 21/06/2026 20:50

I don’t associate with condoms but don’t love the name, I think JJ is much nicer personally but obviously it’s up to you!

hahabahbag · 21/06/2026 20:47

the reference was always American anyway, it’s not really British slang (we know it from the movies)

Iloveeverycat · 21/06/2026 20:43

I have a Johnathan now only know as Johnny. Never entered my head to think that. He in his 20s now.

Empress13 · 21/06/2026 20:43

Maybe back in the day it was associated with condoms but not so
much these days. I would call him whatever you like it’s your child.